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What are the things you want to do but are afraid of doing, because you know people will judge you?





Almost everyone lives in fear of being judged. The need to "do the right thing" and please society sometimes restricts us from doing those things we really want to do, or being who we really are. Some times it's not society as a whole that we're worried about, it's also those around and closest to us. 
       A lot of people would like to be (openly) gay and not locked in a closet. Some women would like to date and marry much younger men but are afraid of what people will think, likewise some men are attracted to older women. A lot of young women would have kept their pregnancies but of course in this part of the world, that's almost taboo so we take the line of least resistance and rush to the nearest abortion clinic. Some people would have loved to be in different professions, engage in a different business but find that they can't because they're scared of how people would see them. Recently a friend of mine began considering starting up a sex toy business. There's certainty that huge profit would be made but her fear is "what will people think?". Some people would love to dress a certain way, maybe even cross-dress, but of course they won't because getting judged is an absolute certainty. Some people would rather have married someone else, say for instance, marry the ex-husband or ex-wife of a family member or very close friend etc but they won't because people would call them names. Also, I'm quite sure several women (I say women because a lot of men already are, openly, because after all its a man's world, right?) would like to be in polyamorous relationships, but of course society would think they've gone mad. A lot of people have put their lives and health at risk because they're too embarrassed to go to the pharmacy and buy a condom, same goes for buying contraceptive pills. And I won't be done if I don't add that a lot of people would not have married when and who they did if not society's expectations. The list could go on and on but I've said enough. I'll share mine with you, be kind and share yours. 
1. I would be a nudist. (I think.....)
2. I won't bother about diets and exercise, I'll eat whatever I want and let myself go. (Trust me, a lot of people work hard to look good because they care about of people see them, only a minority do it for health reasons)
3. When I go to parties I will dance my ass off without worrying about looking like a fool. 


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  1. I'm so going to be anonymous here. I think one think I would do if I'm not scared of being judged is have a homosexual relationship. never tried it but I think I might like it

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  2. I'm so going to be anonymous here. I think one think I would do if I'm not scared of being judged is have a homosexual relationship. never tried it but I think I might like it

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  3. Hmmm... Homosexual relationship?mayb you should just go ahead and try it. As for me, maybe marriage. I'm still single but at this rate I may marry the next guy that says Hi.

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  4. I everyone has at least one thing they would do but I'm not saying mine lol.

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  5. I would take part in an orgy.

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  6. You were right about the ex of a close friend or family member. I always had a crush on my elder brother's babe and I still do, even though they've broken up now I know people will look at me funny is I pursue it

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  7. Every1 seems 2 b writing anonymously. Lmbo! Dats exactly what d piece is all about; bowing down to socital perception. Personally I hve a laundry list of things I would do (n I hve been ticking off it 4 a while) As long as I'm not hurting any1 nor disobeying God (and my conscience has d final say on that biko) what a full adult consensually does wit another is no1s bizniz. Ziggy

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  8. Go for a linkin park concert, have a one night stand, etc. list goes on.

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  9. I'll sleep with a friend i'm sexually attracted to though I'm in a commited relationship.(my conscience won't let me though)

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  10. Thoroughly enjoy a threesome while watching it live with the freedom to chose to join in the party or not. I've always wanted to do that. I'm not big on cheating but I would've liked a situation where I k ow its okay to simply f**k someone else if I feel like it even though I'm in a relationship.

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  11. Fortunately, I really don't care about what anyone says because in the end people will always talk but when you need help no one will come to your aid. If there's anyone you should be worried about it's those people that really have your back, good or bad. Try not to make them regret begin there for u. I do what I want to do when I want to do it as long as it's good with my conscience and it makes me feel good, fuck what anybody else thinks!

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  12. Enjoy a Perfect Ménage à Trois

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  13. Enjoy a Perfect Ménage à Trois

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