Really! Hmmm. You young wives are slacking o! Lol.
The post that received this comment was a letter sent to SDK by a guy who's intensely attracted to his mother in law. He says she's just too hot and sexy and he really wants her. The issue at hand was that she wanted to give him a much-needed pedicure, at his wife's request and encouragement, but he feared that if he allowed her, being a "sensitive" man and one who's already very attracted to his MIL he would have a hard on/erection/boner/stiffie and give himself away, if he lets her.
This guy sounded like an animal to some blog visitors but I honestly empathized with him. I understand that some people have very strange attractions and attractions are things that sometimes cannot be helped or controlled. I must point out that while I empathize with people with certain (attractions) I would never condone or accept acting on (some of) it. There's always a line. Find it and draw it!
It could be the normal attraction to a member of the same sex, it could be being attracted to a certain type of person, those are quite safe. But what happens when your attraction is taboo. Say for instance you find yourself being attracted to a family member? Or the spouse of a family member. Let's push it a little. What happens when your attraction isn't to a person but to an animal or thing? It sounds strange and you'll call such persons sick, right? Or you think it's impossible. I recently read on the man who's attracted to his car. His name is Nathaniel and his love for his car includes sexual attraction. While most people just wash their vehicles, he takes his car on dates and makes love to it. In a YouTube video, Nathan's dad struggles to understand his son's attraction and dumbfounded, he asks him how he has sex with his car. "Mainly, it's just a lot of me rubbing up against him" was his reply.
Some years back I was supposedly dating *David. He took me to his boss' house where I met two other chics. One was my name sake and was particularly nice to me. So I was really surprised when I heard that after I left she had sex with David. They only just met that morning! Long story short, I later learned that she finds she's very attracted to other women's men (there's got to be a name for that...., any ideas?). She admitted to David (rme) that she had slept with most of her friends' boyfriends and husbands! Moving on......
Sometimes, even beyond our understanding, we find we are attracted to people (I can't really speak on animals and things, that one is beyond me) we shouldn't. Have you ever felt this way? Did you act on it? Did you do something about it? How did you make it stop?