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Comment of The Day (let's talk about STRANGE ATTRACTIONS)


Really! Hmmm. You young wives are slacking o! Lol. 

The post that received this comment was a letter sent to SDK by a guy who's intensely attracted to his mother in law. He says she's just too hot and sexy and he really wants her. The issue at hand was that she wanted to give him a much-needed pedicure, at his wife's request and encouragement, but he feared that if he allowed her, being a "sensitive" man and one who's already very attracted to his MIL he would have a hard on/erection/boner/stiffie and give himself away, if he lets her. 

This guy sounded like an animal to some blog visitors but I honestly empathized with him. I understand that some people have very strange attractions and attractions are things that sometimes cannot be helped or controlled. I must point out that while I empathize with people with certain (attractions) I would never condone or accept acting on (some of) it. There's always a line. Find it and draw it! 

It could be the normal attraction to a member of the same sex, it could be being attracted to a certain type of person, those are quite safe. But what happens when your attraction is taboo. Say for instance you find yourself being attracted to a family member? Or the spouse of a family member. Let's push it a little. What happens when your attraction isn't to a person but to an animal or thing? It sounds strange and you'll call such persons sick, right? Or you think it's impossible. I recently read on the man who's attracted to his car. His name is Nathaniel and his love for his car includes sexual attraction. While most people just wash their vehicles, he takes his car on dates and makes love to it. In a YouTube video, Nathan's dad struggles to understand his son's attraction and dumbfounded, he asks him how he has sex with his car. "Mainly, it's just a lot of me rubbing up against him" was his reply. 

Some years back I was supposedly dating *David. He took me to his boss' house where I met two other chics. One was my name sake and was particularly nice to me. So I was really surprised when I heard that after I left she had sex with David. They only just met that morning! Long story short, I later learned that she finds she's very attracted to other women's men (there's got to be a name for that...., any ideas?). She admitted to David (rme) that she had slept with most of her friends' boyfriends and husbands! Moving on......

Sometimes, even beyond our understanding, we find we are attracted to people (I can't really speak on animals and things, that one is beyond me) we shouldn't. Have you ever felt this way? Did you act on it? Did you do something about it? How did you make it stop?


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  1. how can a man be attracted to his wife's mother? Oga ju! as for the other girl na ashewo dey worry her.

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    1. quang, những thanh kiếm sắc bén kia phóng lên trời cao.

      Ở cách hắn năm trượng, Ngao Địch bị bức lao lên từ trong lòng đất. Hắn đang ở giữa không trung, mắt hắn không thể tin nổi. Chiêu độn thổ này lấy yêu lực để thôi thúc phối hợp với bổn mệnh yêu thú, cho dù là đối phương sử dụng chiêu phá vỡ mặt đất, nhưng muốn bức hắn lao ra cũng là không thể, thậm chí hắn có thể ngay khi đối phương sử ra chiêu phá vỡ mặt đất thay đổi sách lược, đổi hướng tấn công.

      Hơn nữa quan trọng nhất là hôm nay trên quảng trường Thiên Yêu Môn vạn trượng chỗ nào cũng có cấm chế, muốn làm cho mặt đất tan vỡ khó hơn ở thế giới bên ngoài gấp hơn mười lần! Cho dù là hắn trong lúc độn thổ cũng phải cẩn thận, quan sát trận chiến lúc trước của Thạch Tiêu, nghiên cứu ra đường đi tốt nhất.
      dong tam mu lậu cho thuê phòng trọ cho thuê phòng trọ nhac san cuc manh tư vấn pháp luật qua điện thoại công ty luật hà nội số điện thoại tư vấn luật dịch vụ thành lập doanh nghiệp
      Nhưng giờ phút này, hắn cũng không thể suy nghĩ nhiều như vậy. Khi hắn đang ở giữa không trung, ánh mắt Vương Lâm giống như là một thanh kiếm sắc xuyên thấu từng trận bão cát đâm tới, rơi vào trong mắt Ngao Địch. Da đầu hắn lập tức run lên, trong lòng dâng lên cảm giác vô cùng bất ổn!

      Hắn không chút do dự thân mình lui mau, đồng thời tay phải nhanh chóng vỗ vào trán một cái. Nhưng vào lúc này, Vương Lâm bước về phía trước một bước, sau một bước này đã đi tới bên cạnh Ngao Địch. Bàn tay Vương Lâm lóe lên những dấu ấn màu xám, đưa một trảo túm lấy tay phải đang vỗ vào trán của người này.

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  2. well I have a friend who's sleeping with her brother in law, according to her they're in love. I feel you shouldn't even be able to see your in law that way.

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  3. God created all sorts sha...

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  4. also d guy can remedy it by focusing on the one thing he loves about his fiancee/wife. And if it doesnt work he should break up wt d fiancee, its bad enuf on we girls aving to deal wt oda girls without the oda girl been our mum. Dats just outright disgusting

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  5. I'm really thinking about taking a course in psychology cos some things humans do are beyond my limited understanding. Being attracted to your MIL could be linked to having an attraction for older women and she falls into that category but you should learn to curb some urges. That's where discipline comes in. Honestly I think he should do everything to avoid the woman. I was once madly attracted to my friend's wife, what made it worse was that she felt the same way. One day we found ourselves alone in their house cos my friend had to rush out and I couldn't go home cos of traffic. Long story short, we almost acted on it and that's when I started avoiding her. Now I'm over it.

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