Thelma there's a problem and I don't know what to do. Av bn dating my man for a year and some months now. I'm in my mid-late 20s and he's 31. We're talking about marriage but no definite plans yet. But we were thinking before the end of this year. But yesterday he dropped a shocker on me.We've never discussed children and we were gisting about something when he said he doesn't want children. And even if he does, not for like three or four years after he gets married. I was very shocked and now I'm confused. I asked more question and he really means what he said and even added that he only wants one child. I really love him, he's the kindest and most caring person I know. This is the best relationship I've ever had and he's my best friend. My family really likes him too. When we started dating and I wasn't ready for sex he never pressured me for months, and he's my
biggest supporter. I really don't know what to do. I don't see myself marrying someone else but I want children immediately I get married. Hopefully this year or next year, at the latest. What would you do in my position?
Hmmm. I think I would try and make him understand that love and marriage is about compromise. But in my experience, people that make these kinds of decisions are usually unyielding.
Honestly I don't know what I would do. This one pass me! Any suggestions?