So Marni thinks there's a possibility I may be pushing guys away and I'll share with you guys too.
So many women I know complain about not being
able to find "the right guy"...
But you know what?
A lot of "those" women act in ways that actually turn
I'll be the first to admit that I've been guilty of a few of
these repelling behaviors...but once I found out what
they were and worked to get RID OF THEM...I finally
met and married the love of my life :-)
Here are a couple of reasons I'VE seen plaguing
women that is stopping them from having successful,
"romantic comedy" style dating lives and what you
1. You May Not Be Approachable - No man, even the
confident ones want to approach a grouchy, angry
If you want men to approach you than you have to be
open to being approached. Sit up straight, make eye
contact, smile and be open to those around you.
You may think it's super easy for men to just randomly
approach a woman they want and put their EGO out
there to possibly be treaded on BUT it's not. Men get
freaked out too and are just as nervous about being
rejected as you are. So make it easier for them.
Smile their way, approach them or even start the
2.. You Wanna Date The DHL Man??? -
Unless you want to date your delivery man,
sitting on the couch waiting for your prince in shining
armor to magically appear is never going to work for
Dating, especially when past the schooling age,
requires a little bit of effort. Whether it's going to a
singles mixer, dating online, throwing dinner parties or
asking your friends to "HOOK A SISTER UP" these
things need to be part of your weekly dating routine or
it's going to be even tougher to find the right man.
3. Men can't read your signs - The 2nd biggest
question I get from men is what the hell does it mean
when a woman does X???
Men cannot read our subtle signals. They can follow
clear, direct instructions like a champ but subtle
female signs are completely confusing to them.
4. YOU can approach men too - I know, I know
women want to be courted blah blah blah. BUT you're
probably missing out on meeting amazing men
because your waiting for their chivalirous butts to
make a move.
It's 2014 and women of this time have every right to
approach a man without taking away from their
If you approach a man like a woman then you won't
let opportunities pass you by and there will be no
reason to kick yourself later for not talking to that guy
you were hoping would approach you all night.
Eliminating just ONE of these man-repellants will
result in finding even more quality men that YOU
want. Which means no more waiting around
wondering why you're not meeting guys, and
especially no more attracting the weird creepy
I would have to say I agree with Marni on this one. (I don't always agree with her). Sitting down at home and expecting Prince Charming to come and meet us is very unlikely to happen. These days YOU have to make an effort.
Regarding approaching men, in the last post a lot of you guys didn't agree. But I actually do. I think its success lies in the manner in which you do it. But one point I must make is that if the guy appears completely uninterested in you, then my darling, please keep it moving. Do not approach him o! Your pride would be bruised.
I hope this helped someone.