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Sex: What's The Longest You Can Go Without It?



This is for the sexually active.

I keep seeing a particular excerpt from Dencia's interview where she said she hasn't had sex for two years. Nobody seems to believe it. I guess, maybe because the pictures above look like that of a woman who has sex for breakfast, brunch, lunch and dinner..... Just saying. 

But let's forget about Dencia for a moment and talk about you.

What's the longest you can go without sex? 

For some people it's like food and is very essential to their existence. I know someone who literally gets jittery and cranky if she has to go without, for over a month. 

Then there are those that use sex as de-stressers (if there's such a word).

There are those who are just plain frigid and would willingly, gladly live without sex. 

There are those (women) who find sex painful and unpleasant, so naturally, like the frigid, they would willingly go without. 

Then there are NORMAL people like Dencia and my humble self, who can easily go without sex for two years, (because sometimes it's just not worth the stress.). Yup! 

Then there are those who at the slightest arousal, be it visual stimulation, light stimulation ( a slight brush against their flesh), or whatever, just have to have it, immediately. 

Under which category do you belong?

Comments

  1. Thelma e bia kwa. I just love you babes but two years? both you and Dencia are lying.

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    1. Mariam is that your answer or a question? Feel free to come back and comment as Anonymous. Hehehe.

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  3. Last time I had sex was 2011 May. Not even kissed since then. And I'm a guy

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    1. Rasputin, I'm curious. Is this for religious/spiritual reasons or personal choice or due to certain circumstances? If you read this, please reply. Thanks.

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    2. choiii pls can u be my boyfriend ?

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  4. Rasputin is everything ok? are you sure? Hmmm. That's strange, especially for a guy. kudos to you all the same.

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  5. The first & last time I had sex I was 18 due to peer pressure. 21 now and three yrs without sex is an achievement for me.

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  6. Hmmm. I think I'm one of the normal ones. I won't say more. lol

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  7. I haven't had sex since September last year and that's the longest I've gone without it since I lost my virginity in 1995, I think. Reason is that I let it control me too much, was making to many bad decisions and getting with the wrong kinds of girls all because I wanted to nack so I had to curb it. I dunno how long I plan to stay celibate but for now I've not met anyone that makes me wish I wasn't.
    I've got a friend who can have sex 3 times a day and after the 3rd he'll still masturbate, lol.

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  8. I am d normal one ooo,depends on d situation sha..bt 2yrs?like seriously

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  9. Lol...steele your friend has a problem...that's not normal...

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  10. Me, I like sex, no frontin. no sex for 2 years? what are you hoarding it for? life is too short o! better enjoy it while you can. abi is it in your old age you want to enjoy sex?

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  11. CELIBACY? I WISH!

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  12. The longest I've gone was 8 months and it wasn't funny at all.

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  13. Its not spiritual, I broke up with someone(my fault sha) I really loved and I haven't been ready to embark on that journey ever since.

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    1. If you can look into my head you'll laugh. I'm desperately trying to imagine the nature of the relationship and the break up, that three years on, you've pretty much been a monk. But then I just remembered that my friend broke up with his ex in 2007 and hasn't had sex with anyone since he broke up with her. You guys are strong men o!

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  14. Men are reallay really strong with their decisions. Sometimes I wonder how they do it. the surprising part is that they could swear they don't masturbate on top. I'm like wow while hianing.

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  15. Well that guy must be on serz crack. .Lol...

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  16. I lost my virginity by. Mistake in an abusive relationship.@ 18,I dnt feel sex buh I can kiss,bt since den AV Neva sex nor kiss for ova 3yrs now.sex don't freak me.

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    1. Julieta just take your time. Honestly there's no rush. When the time is right, hopefully things would be better. But sex is a beautiful thing, at the right time and with the right person. I'm sorry about your experience.

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  17. Well, right now, my sex life couldn't be better... I can't get enough!! however, when I am pregnant, and breastfeeding, hmmm... I can go for 2yrs without it cos the urge goes away totally. but once I stop bf, the urge comes back full force.

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  18. I love sex ..cant do without it for too long .a mth is d least i can do without it

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