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The Big O. What Does It Really Feel Like?

I honestly don't think that anyone below 18 reads this blog but just in case...
And yes, I really want to talk about this. 

What does an Orgasm feel like?

A blog visitor asked me to throw this question open. She said she has never had one and really wants to know what it feels like. She wants to know what she's missing, and if it's worth doing something about it. 

I'm also curious too but I've never thought to ask anyone before. 

I'm sure several people would really really like to know, especially those women who have never had an orgasm before or are unable to, virgins, celibates like Dencia who may have forgotten what it feels like and Me! 

So Ladies and Gentlemen please spill! And I'll have to beg you, do not be crass. If you can't give a "reasonable" description/explanation then you really don't have to comment. 

I have some pictures to help describe it to the blog reader. 


Kaboom! kwa? Hehehe.

Hmmmm. I see!


  1. First off, let me say I love the realness of your blog. For me that first description covers it, for a woman.

  2. Its a sweet and sensational feeling which feels like an eletric shock running through you. Probably takes you to heaven that's of we have one!! In simple words MAGICAL

  3. Are we guys allowed to comment here? Lol!!

  4. Will also like to know what it feels like ,because I ve never experienced it.

  5. Orgasms!! I never used to have any until I started!! Ghen ghen! Truth ehn, there's no feeling as sweet! I get it more when I'm "the rider". Too sweet! If you haven't had it yet and you're female, let me try explaining though that wouldn't cut it sef! It's like that feeling of "sweet" you get after you've totally emptied your bowels x5, you dig? Dunno how to explain again o

  6. Orgasms!! I never used to have any until I started!! Ghen ghen! Truth ehn, there's no feeling as sweet! I get it more when I'm "the rider". Too sweet! If you haven't had it yet and you're female, let me try explaining though that wouldn't cut it sef! It's like that feeling of "sweet" you get after you've totally emptied your bowels x5, you dig? Dunno how to explain again o

  7. Hahahaha, the kaboom describes it perfectly! I can't describe how it feels for a woman but I can describe the reaction, there are different kinds of orgasms, some more intense than the others. The most common is the clitoral because almost all guys can give a girl that and girls can give themselves easily, then the gspot which is more intense than the clitoral and used to be a myth but more guys are starting to learn about it, the we have the penetration which is more intense than the previous two and most girls hardly experience it because very few guys can last long enough to give it to them, then there's the multiple orgasm which is...hmmmm, almost non existent because it involves a lot of patience on the guy's part and relaxation on the woman's part. Then there's the squirting orgasm, most people still don't believe that is exists because they've never experienced it and to find a guy who can give it to u is like finding ewa agoyin in jand. And I think it's the moooooost intense. It's sad that there are women who've never experienced even one. No vex abeg, got carried away because the female orgasm fascinates me, I wish I knw what they are feeling, some women push the man out or away and go into epileptic spasms, others vibrate and start screaming plenty things. I know one girl that used to scream mummy, daddy help me! Lol. Some must grab hold of something, sorry if ifs your back and they have nails, some just clench their teeth and stay silent till it passes. For some women it's the ultimate, that's why you see them turn mugu for a guy. It's usually because he makes them cum hard every time!

  8. That last picture is funny. A popped bottle of champagne and boiling pot. True sha, it's really intense. Girl haven't had an orgasm just try to. It's fantastic!

  9. that woman's face sha, like she's singing. lol.

  10. that woman's face sha, like she's singing. lol.

  11. Let d blog reader watch blue film. Lol..wait, she can go to or and watch videos on Mason Moore, charlie Chase, jada Fire, avluv Jenifer, Amile Waters. Mason has ogasms in all her sex scenes. You'll get a better picture of female orgasm. *wink*

  12. Hmmm. This post should have more comments jor. I'm loving this. Hahahahaha

  13. That o na-ato m ufu sensation. ThatIgboGirl

  14. Orgasms are overrated...I prefer the build up to the orgasm...because after you've come there's nothing else really...

  15. I'll add if u've had it, u'll be very willing next time. Emphasis on VERY. No married women's complaints of headaches n more everytime. Just a thot.

  16. Mehn! Can't stop laughing at sm of d descriptions hre! Sha I think d boiling over pot describes one kind and that's what a lot of people get most tyms (if U or oga puts in standard pass work). However, u can occasionally find urself with a guy dat sparks an explosion a la d champagne bottle (of which if any of u people know 1, send him 2 me cos he's my own Caro) n which is usually a result of attraction meets skill married 2 patience. Dat my dears, is d holy grail of Os!


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