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A Letter To My Darling Son On His 1st Birthday (Blog Visitor- OsayiOnunwor)

Dear Chiboso,
I can't believe a year has gone by so fast.. This time last year you had just been born after 2 days of extreme painful labor and an eventual CS...but seeing you made the pain go away...I remember when they showed you to me I wanted to hold you so bad but I couldn't sit up...I felt so bad...then after a few hours you started crying because you were hungry, I told Aunt Efe to ask the nurses if I could sit up they laughed and said I could try, they came into the room and watched me get up...they all clapped and called me iron woman...what they didn't understand then was that I wasn't strong at all But your cry was all the motivation I needed...
      We got home and the joys and trials of motherhood set in....the sleepless nights were the worst because I love to sleep....but I did it all because I love you more...I put my social life on friends were became the centre of my universe.....I watched you cut your first tooth, learn to sit, learn to crawl and take your first step....I considered all these a personal achievement...and then you said your first word"car"( I wanted it to be mama) but I was still so still have refused to say mama instead you say papa...but I don't mind because I love you...
       I love you so much it Hurts....I love how strong willed you are...I love how caring and loving you have become giving me hugs when you sense I am make my world give me so much are my greatest you were asleep and then you heard the people in the church next door singing"all glory glory glory to three Lord" and you smiled in your sleep and started clapping and woke up...indeed all glory, all honor and praise be to God for keeping you alive and in good health up till this day..I know He has great plans for you and I can hardly wait to see them begin to unfold...I love you to the moon and back and to the moon and back again...I love you infinity times infinity....I know you will make me proud..

Love always, 
Your mum. 

The ladies luv him. 

Happy Birthday Bobo, God bless you sweetheart. 


  1. Aawww. So sweet. Happy birthday Chiboso.

  2. Happy birthday to your baby. May God continue to bless your family.

  3. A mother's love. bless your little boy and HBD to him.

  4. HBD, dear! May u keep growing in grace and may your parents' joy over u never cease IJN. #Enjay#

  5. the family picture is so beautiful. Happy birthday sweets

  6. children are such a blessing. you won't know just how much you can love a person till you have your own child. happy birthday to him.

  7. Awww... Happy birthday Bobo. You are and will always be a blessing to your parents. Love you baby. Gigi

  8. Happy birthday to Chiboso! Your mum really loves you.

  9. HBD bobo, you shall grow to be a great nation!

  10. Awwww,Happy birthday Bobo, God bless you.

  11. Awwwwwwww.....thanks guys and amen to all the prayers....xxc

  12. This made me cry...joys of motherhood,can't wait to be a mother..God bless u bobo..many more fruitful years on earth..

  13. Happy birthday to the adorable baby wishing him many more to come.

  14. Happy birthday BOBO! Here's wishing you long life and prosperity. God bless you future and you shall be a blessing to not only your parents but to you generation and generations after. Amen

  15. OMG,this is sooo lovelyyy,love the picture with the African costume,so cute..Happy Birthday baby boy,God shall open doors which concerns you and family..


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