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Ask Me Anything. It's TMI Tuesday Babyyyyy!





I want to ask you too but most of my commenters are anonymous and I wouldn't even know where to begin. Ok, I'll just throw open my questions. Answer all or some...

-Why do you adore the one who ignores you, and ignore the one who adores you?

What's the absolutely craziest thing you've ever done?

-If you could offer a new born child advice, what would it be?

-have you ever cheated on your significant other? If yes, Why?

-Would you rather be dirt poor and have so much love in your life, or be very wealthy but have no love and emotional dissatisfaction for life?

-Have you ever had a one night stand, or had sex with someone you were ashamed to introduce your family and friends to?


I have so many questions to ask but if I get answers then I'll continue next week. 

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  1. Ehn! I love this game. Oya Thelma, my own question is , how much do you have in your bank account and who are you dating right now?

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    1. LOL. Do you want to rob me or dash me money? @ who I'm dating, it's complicated but it's safe to say I'm single jare.

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    2. Lol! Thelma @complicated but single. I understand dat situation very well

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  2. This is a little personal. Has it really been two years since your last.....?

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    1. Hehe. Ask Dencia first. Nah, not up to two years.

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  3. Why didn't u come for Adannas bridal shower?lol

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    1. Lol. I was too busy looking for what to wear and before I knew it, it was already Sunday morning. Damn!

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    2. Lol.. Thelma, I don't know who Adama is, but that is a really badly put excuse. just saying

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    3. Omo babe! That's your story?! The one you're really sticking to?! Really?! Lmfao! Ziggy

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    4. Hahahahahaha.Oh I love that excuse,hmmmm now I know why I'll probably not make the wedding of some people.

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  4. Craziest thing I have ever done(that I can remember) is place a bet on a football match and the price was a KISS, as in I was going to kiss a guy if Nigeria won a footbal match.Well, super eagles not only won that match, they won the cup so I had to pay,lols!

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  5. How old are you? No lies

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    1. 28, I'll turn 29 on the 16th of March. So basically I'm 29.

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    2. Am tempted to reply dat u dnt luk 29. Thelma abt settling, God's time is the best. When my Fried Rice is well cooked, I ll share my story.

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    3. Oh Lord, please don't say I look older! Are you in Nigeria, why are you making fried rice at almost midnight? Or is that a metaphor? *confused*.

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  6. @ money or love, definitely money! I'm throwing ur question back at you. Have you ever had sex on the first date, or with someone you're ashamed of?

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    1. Sex on the first date, No. With someone I'm ashamed of.... Well I wasn't exactly ashamed but I wasn't proud of him either.

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  7. D craziest tin av Eva done was. SleEp wit a player.suger coated dude wateva he says u bliv.Buh av to summone Courage to break up cox he is also a cultist

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  8. Am not proud of this but I slept with my ex, without knowing I was pregnant with my child. No Cursing/judge abeg

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  9. Thelma,wat dress size are you. UK size to be specific.

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    1. how come we both are the same size, yet you look bigger than me... ajuju!

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    2. Lol. Ajuju. On Sunday I wore a new dress to church and it's a UK 14 but it stretches so go figure! I don't know why I look bigger than you....

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  10. Have you ever kissed a girl or have you ever been sexual with another girl?

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    1. Are you trying to put my blog on a 14-year hiatus? Take time o!

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  11. Thelma oya ask. Ask the one I'll have liver to answer sha. LOL

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    1. When are you sending your pictures for hottie of the day?

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    2. Hahaha. When my six packs become prominent. LOL

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  12. Why do you adore the one who ignores you, and ignore the one who adores you?
    I no longer adore the one who ignores me. I learnt to let him go when he got a girlfriend.

    What's the absolutely craziest thing you've ever done?
    I don't think I have ever done any crazy thing...oh, I remember, I actually took nudes of myself...I don't know where they are now. But definitely not on the internet lol

    -If you could offer a new born child advice, what would it be?
    Always trust God. He knows best. He could take really to manifest it, but He never fails.

    -have you ever cheated on your significant other? If yes, Why?
    No.

    -Would you rather be dirt poor and have so much love in your life, or be very wealthy but have no love and emotional dissatisfaction for life?
    I'd rather be poor and have so much love in my life.

    -Have you ever had a one night stand, or had sex with someone you were ashamed to introduce your family and friends to?
    No.

    Thelma, just as someone above said, about settling, I know how hard it is, (seeing as you are that age, and maybe all your friends are getting married) but I think you should just trust God and wait. And when I say trust Him, I don't mean saying it with your mouth, and then trying your womanly wiles on any man that shows interest in you. Trust Him and do it completely (this can be the hardest seeing as we do not see God). And please, not everyone who shows interest in you wants to marry you. From your posts, I think that the guy you are currently with hasn't really wrapped his mind around the concept of trust, and he's still being vindictive. And so he isn't ready for you and what you and all you have to offer him.

    My question; why was there a hiatus in your posting? What was the personal thing you wanted to sort out? You could always send me an email if you don't want it public :* ; )

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    1. It was nothing serious as I've already said. I just had to step into someone's shoes and fill in for the person while she took a vacation. It left me no time to even think, I was/am very occupied, busy, sleep-deprived, scattered, tired etc. and this is actually why I didn't go for Adanna's bridal shower (@ Chocolate's question above).

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  13. What's the absolutely craziest thing you've ever
    done?
    - Got my "FBI shades on" in 2011(thank u, Ify, for that term). He travelled to PHC but told me otherwise. I found out and went to the travel agency, got a photocopied ticket as proof, only to discover he went to see 'her' and used 'her' as his next of kin. I didn't call him. I just waited for his arrival. He came back, accusing me of not caring to call to inquire of his well-being. 'What if something had happened to me?', he asked. Then I presented the ticket to him. "If anything had happened to u, I wouldn't know, because that's the way u planned it"

    -have you ever cheated on your significant other? If
    yes, Why?

    No

    -If you could offer a new born child advice, what
    would it be?

    Trust God and live right. #Enjay#

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    1. That's some serious FBI business o! And he still had the guts to question you? SMH.

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  14. I wouldnthe want to be dirt poor cause poverty is not a smidling thing but wouldn't want to be rich either without love see all those Hollywood mega rich killing themselves! I'm generally a crazy person so I can't pinpoint one thing specifically. I have in the past cheated on a bf but it's Cus he was on a cheating spree and my bff was a guy who had tried and failed to get into my pants but I later fell into his hands when I needed comfort from the bf's cheating ways. I was a,stupid thing to do. Advice to a new born is to never live in regret of the past and truly what doesn't kill you makes u stronger. When I was younger I used to ignore those who adore and adore those who ignore I think it's a stage one has to pass thru but as u get older u tend to realise and adjust.

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    1. Oh and seX on the first date hmmmm but I was in the world and of the world then... It wasn't even a date!! Chai my life anyways I have been redeemed

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  15. I think the answer to the first question is one that might always elude us...I've found it very irritating when certain guys showed me "too much love", like it was suffocating and I've found myself on the other lane as well.

    The craziest thing I've ever done, well even under the guise of anonymous its still too difficult to tell...might tell Thelma someday, hehehe!!!

    My advice to any new born child would be "Jesus first, yourself last and others in between".

    In answer to the fourth question, I was tempted to say "Wealth of kes" but I thought about it and I'd rather just have enough to eat and be happy....Abeg, I'm allowed some shades of grey here, we cant have black or white all the time.

    One night stand with someone I'm not proud of? Nahh....not in this lifetime.


    SAYONARA!!!

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  16. My one night stand didn't even feel like I had sex cus the guy had the smallest dick I didn't even know if he was in or out. Then I saw him on campus the next day I crossed to the other side of the road. By the following week she was asking my friend out, I didn't tell her anything she must have found out herself lol

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  17. OK! *rubbing hands together* let's do this! On adoring and ignoring; long story short, i used to till i kicked myself in the butt (not an easy task seein as my butt no small at all), slapped myself in the face and moved on. And what do you know, the effect was suddenly i was being adored and doing the ignoring! On cheating and why: yes, was staying in a relationship for all the wrong reasons and so it made taking an even worse decision easier @ d time (was also my cue to get up n hurl ass). On love or money; abeg imma be greedy and want both jare, which is what being human is, this way, if i'm lucky i end up somewhere in between with d two. On one night stands, first date sex and "relations" i'm ashamed to claim; almost had, yes i have ( then had two and a half amazing years with him...good times*sigh*) and yes i have 'unclaimed n unclaimable baggage' my ex who i can't and won't tell my family i've been with after we broke up. On advice to a baby: Sweet child, it gets worse AND better, just have God and you'll do just fine. On crazy deeds; abeg everything i do make sense for in side my head 4 d meeting between me and my head people jare! Na u wey dey outside sabi if as we do am we dey craz or not! *smiles, winks n runs away* Ziggy.

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  18. My question... Hope it's not too late o! Would you say yes if I ask you out?

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