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Comment Of The Day (A Proud/Unremorseful/Unrepentant Mistress Speaks.)

The comment reads:

I am currently in such a situation,and so called madam knows,she's been begging to stay for the sake of their two kids.My man doesn't love her,and its been like that forever,even before I came into his life.There's this one time,early stage of our relationship(cos we've been together for five years)she traced my house,entered into my compound,saw her husband's car parked outside,knocked on my door and pleaded with me that she wanted to talk to her husband.He ordered her to go home and wait for him,well let's just say she didn't see him for two weeks,after which I went back home with him and two policemen to get her arrested,for coming to my house.He moved me out to a posh apartment months later.To cut a long story short,madam is still living in denial,worn out and messed up but has refused to leave the marraige,she calls and begs for 5k to make her hair and pedicure(she's a stay at home mum)my man and I take her kids on vacations while she stays behind.He met me,while my store was thriving,but all thanks to him I now have a branch in PH,a posh luxury apartment in lekki and ofcourse he built a house for my mum in ibadan,I just completed my 3bdrm bungalow in badore.our son is two months old,we are both excited!

I thought it had to be a joke but she followed it up with 

For all you commenters on my post,yes I'm Ioud and proud about my man and I.Ofcourse as a typical bini lady u don't expect me to be so dumb having a baby for my 'oga' without nothing concrete on ground.I was seven months pregnant in nov when my dowry was paid,as I didn't really wanna say this before but as I write this,we have a date already with the registry on the island(he wants the registry wedding before our child dedication)whew!what can I say?definately some people must die for some to live,madam knows the jazz she used in marrying 'oga' can no longer hold,since she doesn't wanna walk away in one piece with her head held high,then she must surely live the househelp life she's been living for five years,and as I'm typing this,she's on her way out,cos my man and I are tired of her archaic and mgbeke ways of bringing up those kids(they love and adore me,they call me mummy,and spend their holidays with me)she's definately on her way out.abegi divorce is nothing new,so u guys should stop spewing trash,hypocrites.a lot of u ladies wish u had what I have,nonsense!My husband(I'm sure she now knows)has moved on,move on too mgbeke,ur time and jazz has expired,btw I wish u luck.

Source: SDK's Blog. 

Hia! When I see things like this all I can say is "it is well". 

One more thing, so this thing about Bini women is true? Ok o!


  1. The law of karma still works its wonders! That's all I can say because I'm speechless. #Enjay#

    1. Wat if karma is working thru her on d other lady. I ve learnt that life is not fair, there is no such thing as karma, good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to very good people and dats life, some things need to be taken care of, we dnt ve to always wait for karma, dat bitch is lucky, i aint the man's wife, i wld ve made sure she is blind by now so she ll be sad for the rest of her life.

  2. HMMm not just bini women..thats just stereotyping. how you get them is how you will lose them..all the best bini woman

  3. That wife is dulling seriously? Has she not heard of prayers at MFM? How do you go to a mistress' house and beg to see your own husband ? God forbid.

  4. I refuse to believe this...

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  6. Hmmm, bini women. I don't really have any concrete reason to fear except that my bini friends fear them too so who am I? They know what their own women are capable of. For her to think that the wife used jazz for the man already says a lot about her, nor be clear eye the man dey take do all dis tins.

    1. Why are nigerians so myopic, the fact that he fell in love with smone else has nothing to do with jazz, y do we always ve to make excuses for foolish men, d man is a cheat and an idiot and d wife shld ve divorced his lying ass or at least deal with him, we shld crucify d man instead of making excuses and crucifying the woman.

    2. If you noticed Steele came to that conclusion because of her statement, someone that doesn't use jazz won't think that his wife used jazz to marry him

  7. Girls get mind sha! As for d wife, I'd advice her to move on wiv her life.
    I no someone who faced dis same thing, she spent years hoping the man would cum back to his senses, buh he neva did. She refused to move out of d mans house, he kuku ma left her there. By the time she got over it, she had lost her youth. Before she turned 40 she was already looking like an old woman. She developed hbp from too much thinking! Her kids looked for her . And till tomoro d mans family still recognize her as his wife. And not d other woman. Unlike dis woman she had a Job.
    It is well.

  8. Hiannnnnn not true o...I'm an esan babe tho but its all of them...BTW karma is a bitch, shes gonna get Herz in front...what goes around fucking comes around..useless gel

  9. Hiannnnnn not true o...I'm an esan babe tho but its not all of them...BTW karma is a bitch, shes gonna get Herz in front...what goes around fucking comes around..useless gel...

    1. Ishan. Na una bad pass sef.

    2. No ooooo..there are good ones out there and I'm part of them....this shit just got real...lmao

  10. Hmnnnnn! What goes around comes back around! Watch out for her in few years!she gonna pay for every of her sins

  11. Thats so not true about bini women. I have seen same happen to a yoruba woman by a another yoruba woman, but you can't say so all yoruba women are like this. It even happened to a friend of mine who are idomas, the man finally married the mistress who was idoma too, and she gave birth to 6 children. The man died though, so mistress turned madam is still struggling to take care of the. Kids.

  12. Sorry to say o....but the mans wife sha...does she h have a problem (mental one)...doesn't she have family members? Close friends? Why is she so willing to be used as a foot mat in her own home...a home where she is supposed to be worshiped and loved...what happened to her sense of dignity and pride? Why is she trying to salvage what is best left to die.....anyway, that is if this story is true...may be the wishful thoughts of some psycho...

  13. This woman has a special place reserved for her in hell.


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