I started dating my boyfriend in October last year. Things are quite ok and I really like him. Tbh I'm in love with him but I don't know if he feels the same. He says he loves me, but only when we're having sex. I don't know what that means. He has never says it other than that before. Do you think he really loves me? Also Valentine is around the corner and I'm planning something that might be quite expensive but I don't know if it's wise if he doesn't really love me. Please what do you think, and help me post it on your blog too but pls dnt disclose my name.
When someone loves you, you know it by their actions and not necessarily by those words. Does he show you love? Does he love you? If you're sure he does then just convince him that you need to hear it at other times besides when he's in the "throes of passion".
If on the other hand he doesn't say it, and he doesn't show it, then it's because he doesn't feel it. Oh yeah, he does feel it when you're shagging his brains out, and no, that's not love. So talk to him, listen to your instincts, evaluate your relationship and do the needful.
On the other hand, suggest you guys put off sex for sometime and work on building and strengthening other parts of your relationship.
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*by the way this came into my mail box on Tuesday but I only just saw it last night, my apologies.*