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Ladies, What's Your Dream Proposal? (Yay For Adaobi & Chidi !!!)

I told you guys about my friend that pinged me yesterday to tell me she just got engaged right? Well here she! My darling friend Adaobi and her boo Chidi. Chidi surprised her with a proposal aboard a flight to Enugu. Apparently the other people on the flight shared in their excitement and the pilot announced the engagement as the plane touched down. 

I'm sure Adaobi would always remember the day Chidi proposed. How would you want your man to propose, what's your dream proposal? Would you like the whole Kimye fanfare? Would you like him to surprise you in front of a large crowd or just your family and friends? Or, would you like it to be completely private just between you two?

I know some people do not care, just as long as he proposes. LOL. that's totally understandable. This is the answer I gave to this same question on Romance Meets Life:

"I sort of like that whole proposing to me at my birthday party in front of the whole world but I want my proposal very private. When I wake up in the morning let me find him on both knees beside my bed, smiling excitedly yet nervously. Eager to speak yet unsure. Let him tell me how much he loves me and can not see himself ever without me. Let him tell me I'm his best friend, sister, lover and mother and he needs me for all time. Let him pop out the ring and pop the question. Let those seconds it takes for me to process and reply be the scariest seconds of his life."

So what's yours and while we're at it SHARE YOUR VALENTINE STORIES for those of you who didn't roast o! Hehe. 


  1. Congrats to your friend. But erm.... Her fingers. *cough*.

  2. I think I prefer the large crowd thingy,am very shy though but I lov it that way!

  3. Aww...congrats Adaobi. So happy for you...#adaora

  4. aww congrats to your friend. hmm my proposal can be done privately or public but I would like him to secretly ask my parent for my hand in marriage first! then make sure my nails and hair are properly done, especially nails.. if they aren't manicured, he should ask my sis or friend to take me to the nail salon, or tease me for having ugly nails which will make me go myself lol..sha my nails must be on point! then he can propose wherever he wants.

  5. As in..... Let him just propose! I don't care how he wants to do it.

  6. Congrats to Her........I've never thought about it before oh! Hian

  7. Abeg i don't want a public proposal o! What if i no wan gree for the guy?! i would now be forced to smile and say yes(even me no wicked reach dat level dat i'll say no to a guy in front of a crowd after he's syced himself to propose) and now start planning how to return ring and all that orishirishi! n let's now not forget a lil known fact that we girls get 'ring attachment syndrome"; a lil know condition where u get fond of an engagement ring even when u don't particularly want the giver of the ring. Please propose 2 me in private o! i don't care how u do it, just do it when we are alone together. That way we create a memory that all ours (ON 2ND THOT, DON'T PUT IN IN MY FOOD OR DRINK COS I FIT CHOP AM) Ziggy

  8. Btw, T please help me and pass my best wishes across to Adaobi! Its been ages i saw her last. Ziggy


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