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The Art Of Seduction....

I just heard someone say "he refused to get over me, he fails to understand that what we had was sex, just sex. Instead he went and fell in love with me. But I couldn't blame him though, I had mastered the  art of seduction". 

So I decided to ask if anyone here has mastered this art and can impart some knowledge on me. I 
mean, just hearing those words was even seductive (I'm here begging to be taught the art right?). It sounds better than "touch and follow" and (SDK's) Madam Dolphin's chicken. I want to be able to confidently say, those words too. LOL. I'm serious though. I understand that there's a book by Robert Greene with that same title but that was not what she was referring to. 

I've seen men treat some women much better than they treat other women, sometimes they treat these women like queens and give in to their every demands. These certain women have men eating out of the palms of their hands and are able to make men do whatever they want. No, they aren't  prettier or better than the next girl. Some people say its jazz, and others sometimes ask if their nether regions are made of gold. 
      But the reason for this preferential/special treatment as I've been often told is "She knows how to treat a man, she knows how to make a man feel like a man". Please I need to know, how can someone as clueless as me do this?

Men you know what I'm talking about. Please what is it that a girl does that makes you feel like your body is made of sugar? Those girls that have you running to them once they bat an eyelash, what is it that they do differently from other girls?

Ehen lastly, forgive my silliness but I'm very curious. People say that you can determine the size of a man's penis by the size of his hands (palms) and feet. If he's got big feet then he's definitely got a big package. Please is this mere myth or is it actually true? I was with a potential love interest earlier tonight and I couldn't help but notice how small his hands and feet were. My mind immediately went to what's down south...

Sleep tight sweethearts. 


  1. lol wando you are very funny! how will a man's palm determine the size of his penis ? lol
    I've heard that before too but it's just a myth. As for the art of seduction I'm waiting for a web lecture from you guys because I don't know how to flirt or seduce a man..heck I sometimes don't know if a guy is flirting with me unless my sis tells me or gfs.. the letter L dey my forehead when it comes to this matter.. so ladies, what's up ? I have my pen and paper ready.

  2. Hehe. Oya please the seductresses should come and back us tory o! Me sef wan learn.

  3. New love interest? I thought you were supposed to be dating someone, the ghost or something like that? Lol

  4. Hmn. I'm.not about tooting my own horn here o. But the lady you heard say that might as well be me, except I hardly have Sex for just what it is. Babe, every man, every, that I've been with never want to leave. Scratch that, they never leave. I fight almost daily to keep them off. So much that the present boo, would know about them all! Funny but not funny too! The thing is since I found out it happens with even the "baddo&tough" guys too, I've had to wonder with my friends but to myself what exactly it is about me asides what I do.
    I would only give a little sincere description of myself.
    On meeting me, I'm very courteous yet firm. I'm also knowledgeable about a Lotta things my friends call me encyclopedia sometimes, no matter how much a man trips me I'd never be all over him, I set boundaries and I'm quite vocal about them. I usually am hardly interested in one who isn't already, I tease a lot; Mental, sexual and any! I don't joke with body grooming. Then I'm "sensibly sincere" to a fault if I start seeing a guy regularly, one would think they'd leave, for some reasons but for where?! I let him know my plans, needs but would never directly ask for money but would ask for help in other ways. Then I listen to any man I'm with and I go say what I think. And I'm always supportive and reassuring. Then, ok, I know it isn't right but I have Sex w/o being married yet. Babe, I take care of my body ooo!!! I do give good Sex, for play with hands, mouth and words. Nne, I can't begin to explain how, it's just instincts and also loosing yourself when you're at it. I "give questions and answers" on the sheets. I do kegels every time it's almost like my default In all these dealings with men, I remain myself amidst the whole attention I give a man. To be continued e jo...

    1. Foreplay jare* please ignore typos :)

  5. cccc this is a serious matter o! I for like see your picture.

  6. I know what you mean Thelma. some people Carry unusual favor. but sometimes me I believe it could be jazz. @ the hand and penis analogy I think its true.

  7. I know exactly what you mean and I have taken notes from the above comment.

  8. tbh u can gauge the size of that region my the size of his THUMB!!!!!!

  9. Loooool.... nne, I have heard it too ( about the jazz-like girls). And I think the myth about feet and penis are kinda true... I have heard it numerous times. Nne, if you learn how to be seductive, biko teach a sisteh. lol

  10. biko wetin be kegels??? @cccc i havent had sex before and rili cant wait, i think about it every second of the day, read up on stuffs online, examples and illustrations just to get equipped for the d day, but im kinda scared i might not meet up to standard,lol Nne help a sisteh na!!


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