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The Morning After 2 (Friends-Lovers-Strangers)

He called me this morning, asked what I'm doing later, because it's been long since we hung out, as friends. 

It was a very stressful day at work. He sent me lunch, as a friend. 

He pings me at about 9pm, asking to come over and hang out at his place, as a friend.

We sit on the sofa, sipping warm chocolate. It's been so long since I've had someone to talk to. I tell him everything, how Kayode is engaged, barely two months after breaking up with me. He tries to console me, moves closer and hugs me, as a friend. 

His hug touches my heart. I didn't have any idea how much I'd been holding in inside. He feels my pain and hugs tighter. I let it all out and break down in tears. He lifts up my chin with his finger and kisses me gently on the lips, as a friend.

I'm a bit hesitant, we've known each other for too long. He stops and pulls back a little. He reassures me with his eyes; it's ok, as a friend. 

I give in, I kiss him back, he's always been my best friend. He's always loved me, as a

He puts his arms around me, and unbuckles my bra. He begins peeling off both my clothing and his, as a friend.

As he’s about to enter me, he looks me in the eyes and kisses me deeply, still as a friend.

While he makes love to me, he calls me “baby” repeatedly. As a friend though, so I don’t get any crazy ideas.

He watches my face when I come, momentarily putting his satisfaction on hold to revel in mine, as a friend, because that’s what friends do.

When we're done, he cuddles me and tells me how special I am and how much he loves
me and is glad I'm in his life, as a friend

Morning comes, I start putting my clothes on, and he pulls me back down on the bed for a few more minutes, as a friend.

When I'm finally ready to leave, he pecks me on the cheek and starts typing away on his phone, he doesn't get up, doesn't walk me to the door, or to my car. Not even as a friend.

Inspired . 


  1. Sorry,dear. You are really just a friend.

  2. A friend is better than this. You've just been used dear, sorry.

  3. I think you guys missed this. To me the point in this is what happens after having sex with someone you're just friends with. Following from part 1 where she said sex changes everything, this is just one of the examples of how sex in fact changes everything. Thus the title lovers to friends to strangers.

  4. Atleast u had a car to drive off with...cld have been a bike to take u to the nearest bus #Life

  5. Choi........I hate those lmao @ "as he tries to enter me" loooool

  6. I'm sorry but u have now graduated to fuck buddy it's a very cool title as well. Just make sure u also get maximum satisfaction from the encounter and when u are starting to fall in love cut all communication or else that's when the suffering starts! But like I said team #nosexbeforemarriage lool

  7. Tolulope you sound very "knowledgeable" on this matter, so that hashtag raises my brows.

    1. Haha I'm married that's why I have my little knowledge lool

  8. I've been reading this blog since last year. I even have it bookmarked on my browser but this is my first time dropping a comment here. I must say you write so well thelma. I totally love reading all you write here. Keep it up my learned counsel.

  9. Sex between friends is very risky business. It's a risk u shouldn't take if ur not prepared for the worse outcome.


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