"Biko wetin be kegels??? @ccccc i havent had sex before and rili cant wait, i think about it every second of the day, read up on stuffs online, examples and illustrations just to get equipped for the d day, butI'm kinda scared i might not meet up to standard,lol Nne help a sisteh na!!
Lol. I had to make this a post. This is the comment of an anonymous blog visitor on the post The Art Of Seduction. This comment was made in response to a rather "interesting" comment by blog visitor; ccccc. See comment below :
" I'm.not about tooting my own horn here o. But the lady you heard say that might as well be me, except I hardly have Sex for just what it is. Babe, every man, every, that I've been with never want to leave. Scratch that, they never leave. I fight almost daily to keep them off. So much that the present boo, would know about them all! Funny but not funny too! The thing is since I found out it happens with even the "baddo&tough" guys too, I've had to wonder with my friends but to myself what exactly it is about me asides what I do.
I would only give a little sincere description of myself.
On meeting me, I'm very courteous yet firm. I'm also knowledgeable about a Lotta things my friends call me encyclopedia sometimes, no matter how much a man trips me I'd never be all over him, I set boundaries and I'm quite vocal about them. I usually am hardly interested in one who isn't already, I tease a lot; Mental, sexual and any! I don't joke with body grooming. Then I'm "sensibly sincere" to a fault if I start seeing a guy regularly, one would think they'd leave, for some reasons but for where?! I let him know my plans, needs but would never directly ask for money but would ask for help in other ways. Then I listen to any man I'm with and I go say what I think. And I'm always supportive and reassuring. Then, ok, I know it isn't right but I have Sex w/o being married yet. Babe, I take care of my body ooo!!! I do give good Sex, for play with hands, mouth and words. Nne, I can't begin to explain how, it's just instincts and also loosing yourself when you're at it. I "give questions and answers" on the sheets. I do kegels every time it's almost like my default setting...lol. In all these dealings with men, I remain myself amidst the whole attention I give a man. To be continued e jo..."
Oya o! ccccc you said "to be continued". This time is Now. Come and tutor we your eager pupils.
I want to believe that the first commenter is not a minor, and I'm hoping that you're eager for all this knowledge for someone who is worth it, eg hubby or someone who is just as special, at least.
Anyone care to shed some light?