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What Would Be Your Perfect Valentine Gift???

Seriously. Beat that!!!

I hadn't thought about it till I saw Timi Dakolo's tweet and picture. And I started day dreaming. What would be the perfect Valentine's gift you could receive today?

Mine would be something like what's in that picture. Lol. Ok seriously, a new Mac book, a box of designer perfumes, more designer perfumes (which must include at least one from Chopard, Van Cleef & Arpels, Tom Ford and Jean Patou), the title deeds to landed property in Eko Atlantic... Just joking, Banana Island... Just joking o! Seriously, keys and papers to an X6. You see I'm not greedy. 

What's yours? And for you lucky ones that didn't roast what did you get? (Please share so that my fellow roasters and I can live vicariously). 


  1. thelma you greedy gan. me, an engagement ring. *wink*.

  2. 2004 Toyota Rav4 Jeep,u see I aint greedy, nt like am asking for the lastest version

  3. Assuming I got a bar of mars chocolate, I woulda been soo happy.

    I suceeded in going to work...okay my boss brought food for us*.

    My oga no even send me. He take style start quarrel since yesterday. It is well jareh. Never had the Val experience.

    Back to original news-Kudos to Timi Dakolo. True love in place here.

    1. I thought I was the only one. Me neither. smh.

  4. Sometimes we shouldn't wait to receive. You are deserve so much more! Pls take a cue from me, I always get something for myself (on my b'day, val's day, mother's day) however small or big (depends on my mood) unless I don't really want to. I'm done waiting for gifts that may never come. #Enjay#

    1. *You deserve so much more!

  5. anything works for me.. broke up with my boo because of distance, although we talk from time to time even today. then I got home to find a bouquet of fresh flowers, helium balloons,a letter and other goodies..sigh i don't know why I started crying. I mean it's been 2 months without seeing him and while we dated for 3 years he never celebrated valentines day because according to him, people should not use that day to prove that they care for their girlfriends. why did he put an effort this time ?.. I miss him terribly but time heals a broken heart right ?

    1. Anon your comment made me quite sad. And yes, time heals a broken heart. *hugs&kisses*.

  6. I was in d office and honestly seeing people get flowers, cakes and all made me sad. I decided not to get anything for my hubby cos he gave me nofin for xmas even wen I asked y. I've planned to take my son out and spend d weekend wth him.

  7. Hmmmmm.....hubby and his buddies planned a romantic getaway but we ended up quarreling on the way there because I waisted time getting ready and blah blah.....I wish he had got me a gift instead and we stayed at home....the night was so not nice....oh well....

  8. been single for a short time, after being a relationship for 4 years. my girlfriends and I went clubbing, boy did it initially suck because it was an old skool night theme with lots of daddies and mummies :( BUT some lance gross looking specimen took me the dance floor & we danced till the club closed .his friends, my friends, lance gross and I went for wings after. He wants to see me again which i'm excited about. After dating my ex who is my first bf, first EVERYTHING, idk how this whole new single status and putting myself out there situation works but I'm ready to try new things. I was so sad today because I missed my ex and social media did not cease to remind how lonely i am lol.. Glad i went out today instead of remembering some lost flame.

    1. I'm excited for you @ Lance Gross. @ being single again just take your time. I'm sure at first you'll feel like fish out of water but just give it time. Sorry about you and your Ex btw.


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