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Yay!!! It's An Awesome Life.

I'm excited this morning for no particular reason, but being alive to see another day fills me with so much joy and hope. I got a call early this morning that threatened to wipe the smile off my face but I was adamant about staying happy. Then as if some force really doesn't want me to smile, I got another call from him cancelling on me because he has to work tomorrow night. The thought of going for that occasion where everyone is coming with their significant others without him or anyone is a thought that really made me stop smiling for a moment. But I choose to stay happy and hopeful. Who knows, I might end up meeting someone who actually has time (for us) and doesn't have to work till 10pm everyday and then all through the weekend. Yes people, it's like dating a ghost or a figment of one's imagination! LOL.
       And being alone could give me the opportunity to do some networking, meet new people (the introvert in me is doing *yimu* right now. SMH) or just generally have more fun. So I'm gon' keep smiling like I just won some serious cash and stay hopeful!

So back to more important things, I'm so thankful to God for this beautiful day and a beautiful life. No doubt there are cracks on the wall but they add to the beauty that's my life. 

And remember to be kind to someone, in whatever way you can. Be it a smile, a hug, a tip, words of encouragement or just a listening ear. With each smile you put on someone's face you heal just a little. 

Have an Awesome day my darlings!


  1. Have a nice day too boo!

  2. Looking forward to what the day holds. Looks like we are in this together Thelma. Dating a ghost....NO...better still....a figment of our imagination. I don tire sef.

    Lemme set to preparing for the work that gives me joy.Enjoy your day too dearie.

  3. Dear God,thank you for this beautiful and pls forgive me if I do not love it enough...a good way to start a good day...legooooooo

  4. I could go with you, if u don't mind. But then, I am not ur significant other. In all u do, be happy. This life is too short. What if u were married to (and not just dating)the ghost or figment of imagination? Just saying..... #Enjay#

    1. Enjay, we should meet up sometime. Where do you stay? Pls mail me ( Or post your email address.

  5. Have a great day too.
    Thought I was the only one who has been dating a ghost, its frustrating being with a person who never has time.
    Even Barrack Obama has time for his wife.

  6. Ahh @enjay, been married to a figment of one's imagination(that is someone who is just not there) is not funny oh.God forbid.Thelma, am sure u'l have fun.

  7. imaginary boyfriend tinz. ndo nu.

  8. My question is why stay in such a relationship?


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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
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intelligent, smart, tall, dark and handsome. Believe me he got
swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
LOVE THEM and watching the season film of The Secret Life of
American Teenagers. ..when Amy Jeugerns mum told her "you are only
young once". LOL that part got me.
Hope you know what i mean?

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the Quiz that was coming up, we found out that we had this
great chemistry between us.. hehehe both the covalent and
electrovalent bonds....

So one thing led to another till one unusual Saturday. I invited
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