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Why are some guys so useless?..or is it the banker guys that are soo useless??? I went to my fiancee's office yesterday cos he wanted me to stop by. One girl came in and the way she acted with him smelt over-familiarity. Another came in and she claimed said she knew from somewhere. I felt it was from my television program so we exchanged pins and I found out she's on my Davids contact list. Cutting my rant short, must he really exchange pin and numbers with every girl he meets in d bank even when they chase him???? I don tire. I talked about it and he poured the whole thing on me yesternite. We slept on two ends of the earth. He left home early and did not talk to me. God knows I put my happiness first.

One guy will not gimme hypertension. I want to go for my masters after NYSC and he wants me to put it on hold cos he wants to marry.

And he's behaving like this. How marriage go come be??? I prefer remaining single than complaining all my life.
BTW, what do you guys think about washing a guys clothes??? I can't wash his clothes and its giving him problems.
Your refusal to wash his clothes is giving him problems? Issokay...


  1. By the way, I don't live with him. I just decided to take sometime off work to be with him. Dis is my 3rd day with him and we don fight like tomorrow no dey. On his part, he cooks and does his things himself but he was just like he wants to feel my presence.....but me???? My pride nor fit allow me wash man clothe. I stopped washing my dads clothe or he stopped giving me his clothes when he realised I wasn't happy doing it. I can't wash his clothes. Its enough I've been cooking for him...not washing.

    Just saying this but........, we are verry celibate.

    1. which kain washing be that? you resemble washing machine? God forgive me if na sin, but me nor fit wash man clothe, talkless man wey never marry me. My dad stopped giving me the bulk of his clothes to wash a long time ago, seeing as my brothers could do it. As for the pin and number sharing, i nor know wetin i go talk, i just read the thing tire. If im dey bif because you complain, sister i nor think say that kain thing good. As for the masters, abeg do am! I believe that a man who loves you will want to see you grow, and so will inspire you. I know it won't be easy if you guys break up, but i think you ned to go for your masters. If he really loves you, he would wait.

  2. Well if u r not sleeping with him maybe he is just horny and acting out lool I don't know anymore


  4. sorry for typing in caps,let him know you are not happy about the fact that he shares his pin with every female out there.Meanwhile i am not telling you to rush into marriage,don't know your age,but you can always continue with your masters while married,it doesnt stop you dear.

    1. if it were a man, you'd tell him to go for his masters, as he can get married any time?? So much for equality for the sexes

  5. I wouldn't care so much about who he gives his pin/number to or who he's friendly with or without. Seriously, you can hardly control these things. Instead, I would concentrate the energy in being the best babe he would ever come across (to the very best of my ability). I would ensure I take care of 'my side' and leave no room for another girl (yeah, it takes two to tangle and you cannot really control the other party but you can concentrate on adding real values he wouldn't want to miss to his life).
    As for washing his clothes, there are cheap washing machines. Buy if he doesn't want to except you do not see the relationship leading to marriage. Better still, do that after marriage. I do not really subscribe to ladies doing house chores (esp washing clothes) while they are still 'outside'.

  6. Wash which clothes??? Odiegwu really!! I can cook o and that's because am a foodie so am cooking because I want to but washing his clothes..... NEVER!!!!

  7. Wash which clothes??? Odiegwu really!! I can cook o and that's because am a foodie so am cooking because I want to but washing his clothes..... NEVER!!!!

  8. Pls doesn't he know where dry cleaners are? Are you his girlfriend or his house girl? Nawa o! My dear no man should make you do his laundry, especially if you don't want to.

  9. My dear, are u a personal househelp?!! He is a banker, he afford laundry service or a washing machine & dryer!
    A wife is not a slave!
    Pls do your masters! Better yourself! if he loves you he will wait!

  10. Speaking as sm1 who personally hates to do laundry, do em grudgingly cos girl's gats to have clean clothes, won't wash my man;s clothes ( sorry 2 le future boo bt na so e be o!) besides, before me dude would def have hadf a way of getting his clothes clean n he gats stick 2 dat o! Ziggy

  11. If he wash for me, I go wash for am.

  12. Please talk to your boyfriend tell him how his actions make you feel, if you don't feel comfortable doing his laundry explain that to him. Just talk things out with him


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