But that's not what this post is about. Can you imagine yourself chillin/loungin'/hanging out with your Ex's present partner? Have you ever been in that situation? Are you/Can you be friends with your Ex's boo?
Personally I don't think so, I feel there's always some unresolved stuff with Exs and although we may be friends or civil to each other, I have no desire to be so close with him and the new chic. Or maybe I'm just not mature enough.... ALSO my boo has ABSOLUTELY NO BUSINESS with his Ex(s). We will be civil and polite to her/them but there will be no such friendly hang outs. Nah, I'm not taking that risk.