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PDA? Blergh.*Pukes*

How do you feel about Public Display of Affection? Seeing two people holding hands, whispering in each other's ears, French kissing, stroking each other's arms, smooching, all those things that couples (supposedly) in love do IN PUBLIC!, in the full glare of people. 

Well I absolutely hate it!

The King and Queen of PDA are Tee Billz and Tiwa Savage and I've got the pictures to prove it! 
Pictures below:

So do you believe me now?

Yes, like I said, I absolutely HATE PDA...... Unless it's me that's doing it, then I LOOOOOOOOOVVVVEEEEE IT. It's when someone else does it that I go "blergh *pukes*".  hehehehehe. 

Seriously though, If Tiwa is the Queen of PDA then I'm the princess of PDA. I am very expressive of my emotions. I love to hug, hold, kiss, stroke etc whether I'm in the confines of my bedroom or in the heart of Balogun Market. I'm a big fan of PDA (provided it's not inappropriate)

But some people can't even hold hands once they step out of the door. They shudder at the thought of even a hug outside the home. 

Do you think PDA is inappropriate, wrong and disgusting? Or do you think it's cute and absolutely fine? Do you do PDA? What do you do when you love PDA and your partner doesn't (or vice versa)?


  1. Public display of affection, or as you call it
    (PDA) can be annoying to other people. If
    your in a restaurant, people might come
    up to you and ask you to go somewhere
    else. Your affection could be interrupted.
    Anyways, i'm not against it, but, i'm just
    trying to tell you the downside of it so
    you could be warned. If I see PDA, I, as
    an eye-witness could get jealous. So now
    you know why people who see it, might
    get annoyed.

  2. Peck on the lips...arm around shoulder or
    waist...a hug.
    That's about it.
    I don't really like seeing couples groping
    each other in public. If you want to sit on
    laps and hang all over each other and
    make out and all that stuff, keep it
    behind closed doors.
    Me personally don't like PDA.

  3. I think it's acceptable with
    boundaries of appropriateness.
    That general concept of 'don't
    do anything you wouldn't do in
    front of your parents' seems
    well-applied in public.
    While affection is definitely
    great and wonderful in a
    relationship, displaying it
    excessively in other people's
    line of vision usually isn't that
    great. You may be in love and
    perhaps want to proclaim it to
    the world, but please don't be
    gross about it. A little respect
    for others is nice...besides,
    chances are those people don't
    really give a rip. :)

  4. I love PDA, but then everything should be done in moderation!

  5. Like every1's said; PDA is not so bad, as long as it is in moderation. The 'what u won't do in front of ur parents' rule sounds like a great yardstick for when it may be too much: I know i won't go all out 'porn-esque' groping of my partner/boo in front of my mama, even if I'm married to said boo and we have ten kids togeda so its not like we don't know how d birds n bees work (good Lord in heaven! I can just see MomJules' horrified face at that mere thot! *shiver*) Having some restraint does not in any way belittle Ur feelings for each other, it just shows u have a lil decorum. Plus keeping Ur display to a suggestive minimum creates an atmosphere where u can anticipate the fulfillment of the 'suggestion' ; in the privacy of Ur bedroom or wherever u decide, that is not public *smile* Ziggy

  6. Oh Lawd!!!! I just love PDA and sweets loves it least dats wot he makes me believe...-Quoting Thelma..."Yes, like I said, I absolutely HATE PDA...... Unless it's me that's doing it, then I LOOOOOOOOOVVVVEEEEE IT. It's when someone else does it that I go "blergh *pukes*".  hehehehehe."
    "I am very expressive of my emotions. I love to hug, hold, kiss, stroke etc whether I'm in the confines of my bedroom or in the heart of Balogun Market. I'm a big fan of PDA (provided it's not inappropriate). So....we're on the same page.

  7. Errrrrrm, Thelma I Love PDA. But i'll engage in it ONLY as HIS wife. If I continue engaging in PDA with every boyfriend, people will think am a whore. So it's only for hubby. Till then, nigger don't kiss me outside pls, my future hubby could be around the corner... #MyOpinion

    1. 100 likes for ur comment. But sometimes when u r truly in love, u cant help it.

  8. I absofreakinglutely love PDA..... Hubby on the other hand doesn't....he doesn't even kiss me in front of our son who is just a year old....this most he would do in public is hug me and maybe a peck once in a long while.....I'm still trying to change him sha. ...

  9. i love PDA, but not the inappropriate kind abeg. I haven't tried anything other than holding hands and hugs tho, so i don't know how i would feel about the rest. I know it's not my business, but Tiwa and her husband's own is kinda, sorta, disgusting... I just wanted to say that.

  10. I love it xoxoxo much, itz just a way of u guyz shown u aint ashamed of eachother

  11. I love it and I love seeing others do it, when I really love someone and she loves me back I can't control myself. I'll want the whole world to know I adore her. Although there's a line between letting the world know you adore her and letting the world you're the one tapping that. Love vs lust


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