Ever since my teenage years long before I knew what love was, I've had one fear, one nagging question that bothered me; what if I meet the man of my dreams just a week after my wedding? Through the years I've come up with different answers and different suggestions, so when I saw the mail below I could almost relate with it. :
" I gave my girlfriend of two and a half years an engagement ring and just a little over a week later I met the woman of my dreams who is single and interested in having a relationship with me. How do I break things off with my girl without breaking her heart? I'm convinced without any iota of doubt that this new girl is The One. What would you advise? Why did I get engaged when I wasn't sure? Pressure! Some guys know what I mean..."
A blog visitor asked in her mail if it's possible to get married and find someone you prefer to your spouse. The answer to this is YES. It is very possible. In fact the likelihood that you would meet people that are more appealing, more preferable and more desirable to you than your spouse is, is very high.
I want to hear from you guys. What would your advice to the guy to sent the mail be?
Have you ever found yourself in that situation; meeting the "person of your dreams" after starting a new relationship, getting engaged, getting married?
How did you react/how do you think you would react?
The mail was sent to Linda Ikeji's blog.