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Why Do Men Love Bitches? (No More Miss Nice Girl)



"I've had enough. I'm sick and tired of men. Did I come to this world to suffer, to slave for a man? You'll do everything, cook for him, clean his house, take care of him, be his sex slave and then what? There's nothing to show for it! Meanwhile some bitches there sit down and cross their legs and they're making hundreds of thousands. They're making millions from their men and you dare not ask them to cook. Cook what! Cook fire! I swear I'm breaking up with him. No more miss nice girl. The bitches are winning, the bitches are getting the jobs, the money, the rings, the trips abroad and what do I get? Nothing."


She ranted tonight. Her rant raised the age old question; why do men love bitches? 

There've been tons of explanations and I can do a full analysis oh that topic, (complete with principles and exceptions) yet knowing the answers have made no positive difference in my life so I might be wrong. 

I'm throwing it open. Asking questions, your thoughts, your opinions. I really need the men to weigh in on this. Why are the "bitches" winning?

Comments

  1. My candid opinion: Any man who isn't inclined to doing the right things will always be a DOG, and DOGS attract or get attracted to BITCHES. So if you're a LADY, seek a GENTLEMAN instead of a DOG.

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  2. Maybe cos the bitches are more sexy. Lol #kidding

    Well the bitches seems to be smarter and hustle hard with what they have and so get the job fast, make money and get noticed easily by the men.
    Seems men this days just like it that way. well I believe a good girl will surely find her way too.

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  3. Nice girls finish last. no point trying to please any man abeg.

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  4. He who laughs last laughs best. I wouldn't stop being a nice gal even if "bitches" ruled the world. My gentleman would find me *big grin*

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    1. Kimora.... Haven't u heard d current version?Its "He who laughs last thinks slowest" so shine ur EYE gal!

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    2. LMAO. He who laughs last thinks slowest. Issokay!

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  5. Why do men love bitches? the age-old question.

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  6. I am a man, I love my wife and she is not a bitch!

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    1. Hi Wale. Please what's your email address? You can mail me on thelmathinks@gmail.com. Thanks.

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    2. My point exactly....I don't seem to understand y....it pisses me off sometimes..

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  7. Bitches stay winning trust me. Good girls are rewarded in heaven. Gigi

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  8. And as per men loving bitches.... I think d major attraction is being there own self! That strong trait stands them out... Me nd ma friends are 4 eva bitching/beefing abt a babe who is a capital BITCH! She got married 1st,(to a rich TDH guy ofcourse), has a cute baby boy now! Hubby spoils her silly, always in jand 4 one thing or d oda! Mehn her life is good ohh no doubt!

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  9. There are two types of bitches, the one that's wild and will do anything or anyone to move up the social social ladder. Then there's the one that has a subtle strength. She won't give up her life and she won't chase any man. She won't let any man think he has 100% hold on her and she'll stand for herself when he steps over the line. She knows what she wants and won't compromise herself to get it. But she's feminine, flowery on the outside but solid on the inside.
    Now men are attracted to this kind of women for the same reason women are attracted to a man who's not a push over. They aren't needy or clingy and they know their worth. This is one of the most attractive traits to the opposite sex.
    Then there's the reason men fall for bitches on wheels, which is the same women with why women fall for jerks. The traits of the strong bitch and the bitch on wheels are so similar sometimes that it's hard to differentiate.
    Long story short, we are attracted to people who make it obvious that the don't need us but they want us.

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