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Do you agree?

TWICE this week someone has cancelled on me for one reason or the other. 

The first time he cancelled (not feeling well enough) *Chika said "oh please his girlfriend is around and he's busy telling you stories. Ask him to lose your number". I rolled my eyes at my friend the drama queen. 

At his suggestion we rescheduled it for today, but today yet again he has another story (working late). And he says let's do Saturday. I'm like Dude, Seriously? (Quick question, is it presumed that my days are free and empty just waiting till you're ready to hook up? Nah Bruv, Saturday ain't werking for me).

Anyways Wednesdays are my movie days and I'm seeing Noah tonight. I hear it's really really good *rubbing palms together in eager anticipation*. 

Tonight is Poker night at TwentyFour-Seven and *Bosun says he'll ditch his game and take me to the movies, on one condition; a kiss. Trying to decide if it's worth it, I'm actually fine ridin' solo but one kiss won't hurt. LOL. 


  1. T enjoy! Am right under my duvet with Le boo as it rains cats and dogs, watching The walking dead season 3 & sipping my baileys! Blessed Wednesday it is.... *swooning*

    1. Ruthy lucky you o! Remain small baileys for me biko.

  2. By the way, that dude is a JOKE! *let me save the "R"... borrow some drama from the drama queen and cancel his cancelling ass! #LongSigh

  3. Well nwandimmmm he could be u him one last chance if he cancels again den his got sumtin or sumone else...

    1. Funny enough I don't doubt that he's busy but ....

  4. It isn't always true. One more date, he cancels? Then swerve babe! Even if he's as busy as a bee he should make proper plans.

  5. Very true. Pls, let him pull over.

  6. i'm glad you update your blog daily..but can you reduce it to a post per day ? why because I do love reading the comments section. you always post topics where people usually have different point of views so it will be nice to just settle on just one..instead of 3-5 post a day..

    1. Anon when I did one/two people still complained. I cannot please everybody, some days there'll be none or one. Somedays there'll be three-five. I actually never plan ahead, it's "as the spirit leads". In any case, it doesn't stop you from reading the comments from different posts (they're not that many na. Lol). I appreciate your suggestion though. Thanks.

    2. Ha! Ndo don't listen to this anon o! Abeg people like me need something 2 look forward to @ d end of my crazy days biko! One ke?!

  7. Dear Anon, one post ke? You want Nwando to bury some ppu? Don't you know some people 'eat and drink' this blog?( Memphis, permit me to borrow your phrase) if it is possible to keep a steady 5 or more, I will vote for that! That's the fun in it, topics with different views, I mean. Most of all, she should do as her spirit leads. #Enjay#

    1. Enjay I pray o! Memphis just likes to wash my head jare. I know, but I still appreciate the washing. Hehehehe.

  8. T who is this Bosun guy that wants a kiss? He sounds more promising. What is his story?

  9. Nwando the "busy bee" will read this post and try to make it up to you but he's not real. Lose his number. Gigi

    1. LMAO drama queens all around! It just sucks because he seems like a really fun guy and I was so looking forward to getting to know him but so far he has set poor precedence so I think it's best to quit while I'm ahead.

  10. Yeah, anon who needs one post every freaking day, biko, please, abeg, gburu to another blog or start ya own! I open this blog more than 10 times a day now that am on off, I need even 10 post a day. Thanks T for obliging.....

  11. That picture is funny and I agree. Unless the babe is just not into you. Thelma if he calls again give him a second chance, like you said, he was busy.

  12. When a guy cancels more than once it's either cos there's someone else or he's just not that into you. So forget him, any man that really likes you will cross seas just for your company.
    That said, please explain the "she has to" part of the pic.... I really don't get it. And women please tell me why you'd agree to a date that you never intended going on....

    1. She has to; she genuinely cannot make the date, for GENUINE reasons beyond her control.

      Why we agree to dates we never intended going on? Because saying "yes" was easier than explaining that she has better stuff to do...

    2. Exactly, it's cowardly. Why not just say so straight up instead of letting the man make plans, make reservations etc only to stand him up. Both sexes are guilty of d same crime these days, it's no longer just the men. Women have started cheating as much or maybe even more than us. What of the woman that let a man think that her 3 kids were his till they were almost adults? Caption that

  13. People can cancel for a variety of reasons and we must give them the benefit of the doubt. I will be bothered if the guy or girl did not call to cancel the date and offer apologies.

    1. Exactly. What bothered me Wale was that we were meant to meet up either the previous day or that day. The previous day I didn't even hear from him at all. Then on the day I posted this I had to text to ask if we were still on and that's when he said he's busy and let's reschedule for Saturday. So that really put me off. If I hadn't sent him a text I'm sure I would not have heard from him at all.


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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
I got into town pretty late and needed to keep an appointment ASAP. I'm heading out right now and it's going to be a long day, but thought I should drop this first. 
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He was my coursemate, crush, then my boyfriend.... he was super
intelligent, smart, tall, dark and handsome. Believe me he got
swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
LOVE THEM and watching the season film of The Secret Life of
American Teenagers. ..when Amy Jeugerns mum told her "you are only
young once". LOL that part got me.
Hope you know what i mean?

Though I'm okay with chemistry class I approached him to coach me for
the Quiz that was coming up, we found out that we had this
great chemistry between us.. hehehe both the covalent and
electrovalent bonds....

So one thing led to another till one unusual Saturday. I invited
him to my house and he came. The guy got swag, he even came
with a packet of durex condom.
We talked for a while and and and and and and
See how you are serious dey read this story....!

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Is it true that EVERYBODY has a secret? 
Is there anyone here who doesn't have a secret? I'd really like to know; You're a completely open book and there's not ONE thing about you that you wouldn't mind other people knowing about? Please raise your hands up. 
And for the rest of us, what's something about you that no one knows, or very few people know? Who's got a dark secret here, or a weird one, or a funny one even? I really don't mean to be invasive but I don't want to be the only one sharing, plus I think hearing other people's secrets is quite fun, don't you think?

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