Thelma I send this to you with butterflies in my belly. I tried to comment when you put the friend zoned post but I don't know why I can't comment on your blog so I decided to mail.
My boo is one of the best things that has happened to me. And to think that I kept him in the friend zone corner for so long. Hmmm. The thing is we've been friends for long. In fact I met him before I met my ex boyfriend but I immediately friend-zoned him because of age issues. He's two months younger than me and to me that was a big NO-NO. He used to try to convince me but I didn't listen and went ahead to date my ex which was a huge mistake, it was a messy relationship and ended very badly (which I wrote to you about), and this my boo was there through all of it. He was the friend that would comfort me and promise me it will all be fine.
Long story short even after I broke up with my ex I didn't want to give him a chance but I used to spend time with him because we're in the same line of work. We used to go to the gym together, the movies etc. As we started spending more time together I found myself falling in love with him and we became so attached to each other. And just like that we transitioned to bf and gf. We talked about the age issue and it doesn't bother him. We agreed to always respect each other and not let it be an issue. Since we made it official not a day goes by that he doesn't do something to make me smile. He's always there for me and often surprises me with gifts. Just last week I came home from work to find that he had bought me the cutest puppy ever! And that's how he is, alway spoiling me with gifts even when I don't ask. He's always there when I need him. He has the kindest heart and he's the best boyfriend I've ever had. We complement each other and I try my best to make him happy too because he really deserves it.
My parents and brothers met him a while back and they loved him (unlike my Exs). I'm meant to meet his folks this Easter but I'm vacationing outside the country so I won't be able to. But once I come back after Easter we are going to meet his parents. He is such a big part of my life now that I don't know how I coped before him, and he is everything I have ever wanted in my man. I just refused to see it because of two months age difference.
Thelma I'm so excited and I've not been happy like this before. So please, the person that you've friend-zoned may be The One. You can never tell. It's good to give love a chance. Use my story as an example. I never knew that this guy could be the one to make my life so beautiful.
Hmmm J baby I tap into this your love. I can actually feel it. LOL. Good luck babes. You're an amazing person and I'm glad he recognizes it.