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Divorce Shouldn't Be An Option. But When You're Married To A Beast LikeJohn, Make It One.

I'm about to tell a story I have no business telling. It's not my story to tell so personal details have been changed or obscured.




Her name is *Princess. Princess is my age mate (29). Princess was born into a wealthy family. She attended the best private schools and after secondary school she left for the UK where she did her University and Masters. After her Masters she returned to Lagos. Her family lives in Banana Island. She has lived in Ikoyi all her life and her circle belongs to the upper class. A life of Exclusive clubs, extravagant spending and lavish living. Princess met John in January, in April they got married, four months after meeting. 

His name is John. John was born into the lower class. He was born in a rural area and lived there for several years before his family relocated to Lagos, Ejigbo to be precise, where he lived in a three bedroom flat with his parents and eight siblings until he met Princess. 

Now I don't know how Princess and John met, I've never asked. When I met them so many questions ran through my mind. What was Princess doing with John? Was she desperate? She was 27/28 when they got married, too young to be desperate, in my opinion (I may be wrong as some of my friends got married at that age out of desperation). Yes she's not very pretty but she's not ugly either so that can't account for it. How come her parents allowed her marry someone from such a background? How come she couldn't meet and marry someone from within her circle? What did she see in John? WHY DID SHE MARRY JOHN?

Everything was smooth and rosy during the brief period of courtship. It wasn't till the wedding night that Princess realized that she don enter one chance.

Of course the wedding and all expenses were taken care of by her family. Her father bought them a house in one of the estates in town, he also bought them a jeep and bought them a brand new Lister generator. On the day after the wedding Princess who all her life had lived in air conditioned apartments found that she was sweating. Yes there was no light but why wasn't the generator on? She went downstairs to find out why but no generator! John told her he had sold it, they didn't need that kind of big generator; tomorrow Monday he will go to Alaba and buy small generator. Princess was confused. 

Later that week John told Princess that they will no longer go to the church her family attends but one closer to home (John was trying to minimize her communication with her family). As if that wasn't enough, in the subsequent month John told her that they were to leave their Orthodox Church completely and begin to attend Mountain On Fire. Princess was even more confused. 

John stopped working and started staying at home and spending Princess' money. His father in law began giving his a few contacts and a few jobs to do so as to be independent, he never told Princess about this, nor gave her a kobo from any of these jobs. In addition to that he started to sell most of her things, especially her gold, her wristwatches and other expensive jewelry. 

He added all the friends on her BBM to his BBM and the ones that didn't want to be his friends he insisted she cut them off. 

One night John came back late, as he had been doing often, but that night Princess who was getting tired locked him out. John then jumped over the fence, removed the plugs for the generator and took them with him so that Princess will be in darkness, he also removed the cut-outs so that if PHCN brought light, she wouldn't have light. After doing this he drove away. 

One day John called me and said we needed to see. I had moved back to my parents' for the time being and told John I wasn't around, he said he didn't care, he will drive down to Surulere to see me. This was on a week night and I couldn't understand why he will drive that distance and through all that traffic just to see me. (Mind you John and I aren't friends, if anything it's Princess I have a relationship with). When he saw me the first thing he did was to ACCUSE me of putting on weight. He said I didn't look as pretty as I did the last time he saw her and he was clearly disappointed. (I was confused). He then tried to get over this disappointment and move on to the purpose of his visit. 

Apparently he was very tired of his marriage. "Nwando don't be in a hurry to marry, there's nothing inside. I regret ever making that decision. Imagine Princess left the house over six weeks ago. Her phones have been off. She is staying in her ex boyfriend's house and has left me alone. That girl is very wicked. You won't believe that since she left I've not eaten good food. There's nothing in the house..... Please will you come and cook for me tomorrow? Please, I know you can cook unlike that my wife. I will come and pick you up. Don't worry I won't do anything, I just need company. Do you still smoke? I will buy cigarette for you (as if I couldn't buy 10 naira cigarettes if that was my problem). Any drink you want. Hennessy or Champagne, just tell me which one so I can buy it this night on my way home."

I told him to come and pick me the next day after work. Immediately he left I called someone whom I knew will call his wife and relayed everything that had just happen. You won't believe that the wife only just left Nigeria that morning for the US, where she ran to for her dear life. Just as I thought the person called wifey and told her, I know because that was the last time I heard from John. 

Wifey got pregnant and decided to go and have the child in the US. John stood vehemently against it, said she was going abroad to prostitute. Eventually she travelled and you won't believe that John wrote the US embassy to tell them that they should deport his wife, and that they are not to give his son papers because his wife travelled without his permission and that she's a prostitute. (Bloody illiterate). 

Since Princess returned John has taken to slapping her as his new sport. At every given turn; Slap. In fact she says slapping is his new "good morning". 

John has moved several of his siblings to their home and his friends from his former hood as well, Princess she become an object of ridicule in her own home as he openly tells everyone who cares to listen that both she and her mother are prostitutes, and that she is a useless spoilt brat. John got a contract with their estate and has started making more money but even at that he has not till date contributed a thing to the home. He didn't even as much as buy a vest for their baby. 

Some weeks back they went to the village and his village friends were praising him for how beautiful his wife and son were looking, he told them not to worry that when the son is old enough to start school he will send him to the village and put him in the village school for them to train him. Princess couldn't say anything. 

Sometime last week he advanced from just slapping to serious beatings. Princess says she didn't do anything to him, he just came home in the night and woke her up with beatings. She says John now brings girls home and sleeps with them in the house. 

Now what I don't understand is this:
Why did Princess meet John in January and marry him four months later?
Why are Princess' parents just watching? (I hear her father doesn't know all that's happening, but the mother knows most of it ....and since divorce is not an option Princess should endure....)
Why won't Princess get up and leave while her life is still intact? (I'm unsure whose name her father bought the house in but I think she should just leave anyways. Separation is not divorce). 
Why is Princess pregnant again????????

Yes, the baby is barely a few months and Princess who says she regrets ever being born is pregnant again. I hear that's John's plan, to continue to get her pregnant one baby after the other so that she will be stuck. 

Tonight I just heard some more horrors from the household of John and Princess and I didn't know when I started crying. These I cannot write because they only just happened and like I said, this isn't my story to tell. 

Someone who also knows some of what Princess is experiencing said "that is why I have always said, and will always say the rich should not marry the poor. The rich should marry the rich and the poor should marry the poor. When the two mix you end up with problems like this" (I know I've said that on this blog months ago, this is the story the person was referring to). 

Do you think John's problem is inferiority complex?

As I say my prayers tonight I shall ask God to save Princess from the hell her life has become, and for every other person I know who marriage has become a burning cross to bear. No one, especially someone as beautiful, and decent and kind like Princess, no one deserves to be so miserable and unhappy. Marriage is not supposed to be a curse, or a cross. 

Comments

  1. both have a complex, I no fit shout, I know its not easy leaving but she should get out or get her brothers to rough him up (that's y its so nice having brothers).

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  2. D guy wasn't raised well! It has nothing to do wiv d fact that he was poor.and yes he has inferirity complex.
    What in God's name is princess still doing in dat house. When she has wia to runn to
    Smh!

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  3. Sounds like someone i know in chevy estate...hmm.

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  4. sorry o but princess is a very stupid girl.....

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  5. I am sorry but the entire story do not make sense to me, how can a woman be going through all you wrote and keeping quiet?? Does Princess want to stay with the guy and die there?? Is her self esteem that low??
    Ok, please help Princess by asking her to leave the house; this is not divorce but separation so she can live to tell the story of her life. Or did John jazz her??

    The problem is with John's upbringing, many of us came from one village or the other. Pako like us are reformed and doing exploits.

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  6. There must be a spiritual angle to it. Now, not all that glitters is gold. For a mum to be quiet on such a matter is baffling, I sincerely doubt thats her biobiological mum and if she is then she must be all this jazz mums who visit spiritualists and listen to bullcrap. She should disppear from the home and her friends should inform her dad. Such a man should be organised for, pay thugs to teach his poverty stricken head a lesson.

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  7. In my very traditional African voice 'JuJu Tinz'. Jokes aside, what is wrong with her mother? So until dey bring her dauhter in a casket dats wen she will act abi. That John is a first class bastard ( his attitude is more than inferiority complex). He's just simply pure evil.

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      (2) You always have nightmares.
      (3) To be promoted in your office
      (4) Want a child.
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      (6 ) want to hold your husband / wife to be yours alone forever.
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  8. Princess has serious complex issues if not she wouldn't hav gotten married 2 John after 4months. The signs re always dia - that he is a beater n low in thinking. Bt guess she isn't self sufficient, she had to let him rush her. She is just a spoilt brat. As for the John. I don't blame him, he is doing all dis because he can. Because she is letting him. If he jams a real woman that wud teach him d lesson of his life he wud be humble. He wud hav gottn married 2 sm1 lyk my mum den he wud understand dat Khaki isn't leather.

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      My name is Mrs Emily. i want to share this short testimony with the good people of this world. It might be useful to you in one way or the other. This is my story.
      My husband think polygamy is not wrong, he has been seeing another girl for the past 1 year now, and i told him he need to stop but he is saying he is in love with her, they have even talked about been together "FOREVER" and also
      her moving in with us. my husband still loves me, he regret getting into this at the first place, but not willing to break-up with her,he says if he so break-up, there will be no other relationship outside their matrimony.One day as i was going through the internet in search of job, i saw different testimonies of about how a prophet helped them with their problems. One of them said he helped him cured his diseases, the other said He helped her got pregnant after 11 years of being childless and i saw another that said he helped her saved her marriage and get a good job, she dropped the Email of this great man, so i decided to give the man a trial and i contacted him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com this great man told me that my husband was under the lady's spell. But he was able to break the spell and my husband ended the relationship with the lady within 48 hours and he came back to me apologizing for all the thing he did and begged for my forgiveness. Friends don't remain in silence because they say "A PROBLEM SHARED IS A PROBLEM HALF SOLVED" But i say a problem shared with this Great man is "A PROBLEM PERMANENTLY SOLVED" because someone like DR OKOSU has a solution to all your problems, no matter the problem just contact him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com I am living happily now with my husband and my 2 wonderful kids.DR OKOSU told me i could also contact him on any of the following problems:

      ( 1) want your ex back .
      (2) You always have nightmares.
      (3) To be promoted in your office
      (4) Want a child.
      (5 ) Do you want to be rich.
      (6 ) want to hold your husband / wife to be yours alone forever.
      (7 ) need financial assistance.
      8) Do you want to be in control of you marriage
      9) Want you be attracted to people
      10) Childlessness
      11) NEED A HUSBAND / WIFE
      12) Cure for any disease.
      Contact DR OKOSU today and you will be glad you did. Email: drokosu01@gmail.com
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  9. I can't believe what I just read, but I still can't believe Princess' reaction to all this. She had a life when she was single, so can't she resume such a life SEPERATED from that beast? Does she want to die in her prime? Can't she report to the authorities as she's being molested for close to 2 years? From what ejoec has said and from what you heard about that household, this is more diabolical than logical. Yeah, from John's background, don't rule out *aro-meta* stuffs. Because a girl of that class wouldn't hesitate to rearrange her life from this beastly episode. She needs SERIOUS prayers, nothing more.

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    1. PLEASE TAKE YOUR TIME TO READ MY SHORT TESTIMONY WHICH MIGHT BE USEFUL TO YOU OR A PERSON NEAR TO YOU.
      Hello
      My name is Mrs Emily. i want to share this short testimony with the good people of this world. It might be useful to you in one way or the other. This is my story.
      My husband think polygamy is not wrong, he has been seeing another girl for the past 1 year now, and i told him he need to stop but he is saying he is in love with her, they have even talked about been together "FOREVER" and also
      her moving in with us. my husband still loves me, he regret getting into this at the first place, but not willing to break-up with her,he says if he so break-up, there will be no other relationship outside their matrimony.One day as i was going through the internet in search of job, i saw different testimonies of about how a prophet helped them with their problems. One of them said he helped him cured his diseases, the other said He helped her got pregnant after 11 years of being childless and i saw another that said he helped her saved her marriage and get a good job, she dropped the Email of this great man, so i decided to give the man a trial and i contacted him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com this great man told me that my husband was under the lady's spell. But he was able to break the spell and my husband ended the relationship with the lady within 48 hours and he came back to me apologizing for all the thing he did and begged for my forgiveness. Friends don't remain in silence because they say "A PROBLEM SHARED IS A PROBLEM HALF SOLVED" But i say a problem shared with this Great man is "A PROBLEM PERMANENTLY SOLVED" because someone like DR OKOSU has a solution to all your problems, no matter the problem just contact him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com I am living happily now with my husband and my 2 wonderful kids.DR OKOSU told me i could also contact him on any of the following problems:

      ( 1) want your ex back .
      (2) You always have nightmares.
      (3) To be promoted in your office
      (4) Want a child.
      (5 ) Do you want to be rich.
      (6 ) want to hold your husband / wife to be yours alone forever.
      (7 ) need financial assistance.
      8) Do you want to be in control of you marriage
      9) Want you be attracted to people
      10) Childlessness
      11) NEED A HUSBAND / WIFE
      12) Cure for any disease.
      Contact DR OKOSU today and you will be glad you did. Email: drokosu01@gmail.com
      THANKS FOR YOUR TIME...

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  10. PLEASE Thelma this story doesnt make sense. Princess has serious issues and its even more shocking that she is ur friend and u r actually just chilling relaxing and narrating. If what u wrote up there is really true, then as a REAL FRIEND, u would have taken her out of that house longgggggggg ago. I refuse to believe shes even ur friend, maybe just an acquaintance. but damn!, she has some deep rooted issues cuz really this story doesnt make sense.

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    1. She's not my friend, like you rightly said, an acquaintance. But even if she was my friend I'm sure you can see that her entire family lives here in Lagos too, and I should be the one to bundle her out? LOL. Just like you, it doesn't make sense to me either, and if I didn't know them personally, or if the hubby didn't pull those stunts with me then I won't believe it either.

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    2. Yep I guessed as much. There's no way she could be your friend. Clearly, just an acquaintance. Family in Lagos or no family in Lagos, if she were your friend, you would have done something. Sad nevertheless. I wish her all the best and I hope she has real friends out there who would take action. The family in lagos excuse is such a lame excuse. So if for instance, someones father is raping and abusing her, you would step back n observer n say heyyyy I'm nt doing anything' cuz afterall, he is her "family". Smh.

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    3. That's a very different scenario. I honestly want to explain but today ike a diro m. So I shall keep it moving with my "lame excuse".

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  11. Please contact http://www.projectalertnig.org/about.html and see how u can get help for her. Telling her to leave may not work because she may be unable to....maybe u can gt the organisation to give her a call...just to speak with her and let her know what options she has. Noone understands what its like....she may be so far gone...its like she is in a daze and cant help herself. Also he may actually be raping her to make her pregnant. Anyhow....John isnt really important for now...we need to find a way to reach and help Princess. Pls hurry!

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    1. Blue Thots I hear you, and now I think I should find a way to help, not directly though, but I think ultimately to see that she gets help. Why I and everyone else just watch from the sidelines is because her family is very present. That makes it a little hard for random friends/neighbours/acquaintances to get involved.

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    2. project alert kor.. awon ole. they cant help

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    3. PLEASE TAKE YOUR TIME TO READ MY SHORT TESTIMONY WHICH MIGHT BE USEFUL TO YOU OR A PERSON NEAR TO YOU.
      Hello
      My name is Mrs Emily. i want to share this short testimony with the good people of this world. It might be useful to you in one way or the other. This is my story.
      My husband think polygamy is not wrong, he has been seeing another girl for the past 1 year now, and i told him he need to stop but he is saying he is in love with her, they have even talked about been together "FOREVER" and also
      her moving in with us. my husband still loves me, he regret getting into this at the first place, but not willing to break-up with her,he says if he so break-up, there will be no other relationship outside their matrimony.One day as i was going through the internet in search of job, i saw different testimonies of about how a prophet helped them with their problems. One of them said he helped him cured his diseases, the other said He helped her got pregnant after 11 years of being childless and i saw another that said he helped her saved her marriage and get a good job, she dropped the Email of this great man, so i decided to give the man a trial and i contacted him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com this great man told me that my husband was under the lady's spell. But he was able to break the spell and my husband ended the relationship with the lady within 48 hours and he came back to me apologizing for all the thing he did and begged for my forgiveness. Friends don't remain in silence because they say "A PROBLEM SHARED IS A PROBLEM HALF SOLVED" But i say a problem shared with this Great man is "A PROBLEM PERMANENTLY SOLVED" because someone like DR OKOSU has a solution to all your problems, no matter the problem just contact him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com I am living happily now with my husband and my 2 wonderful kids.DR OKOSU told me i could also contact him on any of the following problems:

      ( 1) want your ex back .
      (2) You always have nightmares.
      (3) To be promoted in your office
      (4) Want a child.
      (5 ) Do you want to be rich.
      (6 ) want to hold your husband / wife to be yours alone forever.
      (7 ) need financial assistance.
      8) Do you want to be in control of you marriage
      9) Want you be attracted to people
      10) Childlessness
      11) NEED A HUSBAND / WIFE
      12) Cure for any disease.
      Contact DR OKOSU today and you will be glad you did. Email: drokosu01@gmail.com
      THANKS FOR YOUR TIME...

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  12. Separation is not divorce,why is she stikk there!!!why is her mum holding back these. Horror stories from her dad.....and the father-in-law is still giving him contacts?????.I swear I'll make an anonymous call to the father amongst other things.

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  13. Jeez......sounds horror*ish. And she's still there??? Its more than the ordinary eyes can meet. Yeah....it is. All friends, acquaintances, family member and people that care about her living needs to find a way to get her out of there.

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  14. I had two miscarriages, pushed down stairs, had a chair slammed on my head, pushed into a wall, kicked in the face, attacked with scissors, had different women come to my house asking for my husband.....his mom even told me to suck it up and embrace marriage. No one knew....only my pastor at first....I was afraid of what people would say....I had a big wedding....I have a child....blah blah blah.....I sucked it up and packed up my car and drove 4hrs back to my moms house. Now I have an amazing boyfriend who caters to all my needs....helps me with my mom...loves my son....she needs to leave ASAP

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      Hello
      My name is Mrs Emily. i want to share this short testimony with the good people of this world. It might be useful to you in one way or the other. This is my story.
      My husband think polygamy is not wrong, he has been seeing another girl for the past 1 year now, and i told him he need to stop but he is saying he is in love with her, they have even talked about been together "FOREVER" and also
      her moving in with us. my husband still loves me, he regret getting into this at the first place, but not willing to break-up with her,he says if he so break-up, there will be no other relationship outside their matrimony.One day as i was going through the internet in search of job, i saw different testimonies of about how a prophet helped them with their problems. One of them said he helped him cured his diseases, the other said He helped her got pregnant after 11 years of being childless and i saw another that said he helped her saved her marriage and get a good job, she dropped the Email of this great man, so i decided to give the man a trial and i contacted him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com this great man told me that my husband was under the lady's spell. But he was able to break the spell and my husband ended the relationship with the lady within 48 hours and he came back to me apologizing for all the thing he did and begged for my forgiveness. Friends don't remain in silence because they say "A PROBLEM SHARED IS A PROBLEM HALF SOLVED" But i say a problem shared with this Great man is "A PROBLEM PERMANENTLY SOLVED" because someone like DR OKOSU has a solution to all your problems, no matter the problem just contact him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com I am living happily now with my husband and my 2 wonderful kids.DR OKOSU told me i could also contact him on any of the following problems:

      ( 1) want your ex back .
      (2) You always have nightmares.
      (3) To be promoted in your office
      (4) Want a child.
      (5 ) Do you want to be rich.
      (6 ) want to hold your husband / wife to be yours alone forever.
      (7 ) need financial assistance.
      8) Do you want to be in control of you marriage
      9) Want you be attracted to people
      10) Childlessness
      11) NEED A HUSBAND / WIFE
      12) Cure for any disease.
      Contact DR OKOSU today and you will be glad you did. Email: drokosu01@gmail.com
      THANKS FOR YOUR TIME...

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  15. The above comment isn't my story but my friend's story (from my bbm group). how can she leave him when her mum has conditioned her to think marriage is the end all be all In this life? I'm really speechless. I agree rich and poor don't mix well oh. All the stories of domestic violence I've heard of the guy always seems to come from a lesser background as a result, the men feel the girl is pompous or trying to undermine his authority and resorts to violence to test run his balls. Wait can you blame him when the wives parents practically threw their daughter to him and even rewarded him for catching her. Why fund the wedding then proceed to buying him a house and all sorts. Yes I know they want their childs comfort but why not see to it that he can provide this comfort for your child before giving her away? If they gave him a tough time, trust me the scheming idiot would have run out of steam. Ok princess biko flee from that house of yours that man isn't your husband he is a wolf in sheep clothing you fell for. In as much as I think you married out of desperation, this is not the time to apportion blame this is the time to get out of that hell hole and get your life back for yourself and your children. Biko

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    1. Nicely said. If I know u,I would shake ur hand.
      Do I know u? Feels like I do...

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    2. Actually you two know each other but since you will not comment with your real names I shall leave you both in the dark. LOL. *Tongue out*

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  16. Her father needs to be informed.

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  17. PLEASE TAKE YOUR TIME TO READ MY SHORT TESTIMONY WHICH MIGHT BE USEFUL TO YOU OR A PERSON NEAR TO YOU.
    Hello
    My name is Mrs Emily. i want to share this short testimony with the good people of this world. It might be useful to you in one way or the other. This is my story.
    My husband think polygamy is not wrong, he has been seeing another girl for the past 1 year now, and i told him he need to stop but he is saying he is in love with her, they have even talked about been together "FOREVER" and also
    her moving in with us. my husband still loves me, he regret getting into this at the first place, but not willing to break-up with her,he says if he so break-up, there will be no other relationship outside their matrimony.One day as i was going through the internet in search of job, i saw different testimonies of about how a prophet helped them with their problems. One of them said he helped him cured his diseases, the other said He helped her got pregnant after 11 years of being childless and i saw another that said he helped her saved her marriage and get a good job, she dropped the Email of this great man, so i decided to give the man a trial and i contacted him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com this great man told me that my husband was under the lady's spell. But he was able to break the spell and my husband ended the relationship with the lady within 48 hours and he came back to me apologizing for all the thing he did and begged for my forgiveness. Friends don't remain in silence because they say "A PROBLEM SHARED IS A PROBLEM HALF SOLVED" But i say a problem shared with this Great man is "A PROBLEM PERMANENTLY SOLVED" because someone like DR OKOSU has a solution to all your problems, no matter the problem just contact him on his Email:drokosu01@gmail.com I am living happily now with my husband and my 2 wonderful kids.DR OKOSU told me i could also contact him on any of the following problems:

    ( 1) want your ex back .
    (2) You always have nightmares.
    (3) To be promoted in your office
    (4) Want a child.
    (5 ) Do you want to be rich.
    (6 ) want to hold your husband / wife to be yours alone forever.
    (7 ) need financial assistance.
    8) Do you want to be in control of you marriage
    9) Want you be attracted to people
    10) Childlessness
    11) NEED A HUSBAND / WIFE
    12) Cure for any disease.
    Contact DR OKOSU today and you will be glad you did. Email: drokosu01@gmail.com
    THANKS FOR YOUR TIME...

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