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Do You Agree With This Tweet?

....So says BlackMagic. Do you agree?

What if she's a fantastic cook but she's lacking in certain other qualities? It's this kind of statement that makes married men chat crap when their marriage fails. 

Me: So what happened, why didn't your marriage work?
Him: She's a bitch. 

Me: How, why, what did she do?
Him: She's a bitch. 

Me: You've really not said anything, you know?
Him: Forget her jor, she's a bitch, in fact she's a witch! Horrible woman. Worst mistake I ever made! 

Me: *yimu*. (How won't she a bitch when you married her for all the wrong reasons and ignored GOOD women that would have made GREAT wives and AWESOME mothers. Negro please.. *yawn for dayssss*


This is my own opinion based on real life encounters, it's not in any way meant to influence yours. What's yours?


  1. We're not bound to agree to razz statements because they come from people who are popular by mistake.

  2. LOL @ your drama. Miss Wandering mind.

  3. A woman knowing how to cook is important. But he made a mistake. Of all good things a woman should be, cooking is the easiest. I say that because, it's the one thing that can be taught and learnt very fast at any stage, by any woman. Other things in a good woman are either hard to be taught or hard to learn. Or just can't be taught.

  4. I'm very disappointed in this guy, I used to think he was a more enlightened person or maybe he's just looking for cheap publicity. Knowing how to cook is necessary but I won't say not knowing how makes you a failed human being. That's just ridiculous.
    What of people who know how to cook very well but are horrible in many other areas? When I hear statements like "the way to a man's heart is through is stomach" I cringe because if that was true I would fallen in love with most of the mama puts in surulere, or the women that make bush meat in calabar, not to mention the numerous ladies that have cooked for me.

  5. I think the word that he was looking for was 'woman' and not girl.
    The statement is just wrong on so many levels that we just need to ignore it for the BS that it is....and freeze him out...regardless of how nice his music is.....since he wants to remain in the boondock ages.

  6. Toh...let him come marry *Dami. She's a professional prostitute- the ones with business cards.... with the *terriblest* character in the world but she's a very good cook. We all love her for that. She needs to settle down now.

    Nwando, it was sweet to hear you felt my absence. I was never away. Just did not comment. Wanted to send a mail of rants to you days ago but just thought against that. Will think otherwise now. E-love dearie.

  7. Why do men keep portraying themselves as hungry gluttons?

  8. But why is everyone condemning him? That's simply his view point. I know some men who wouldn't marry a woman who cannot cook.....she just must be able to cook while not neglecting other features of a virtuous woman.

    I once met a woman who just completed her doctorate degree (obviously in her mid 40's) and who doubled as a staff at UNILAG in one of the rooms at the post-graduate school. She came to sort some issues and after a while, she started complaining about time running out; she still had a few things to do and she must get home early enough. Why? She had to cook for her husband. A woman of that caliber and age, with one of the children about to graduate from a university and 2 others in SS 2 and SS3. I remember her saying that her husband insists on eating her food....and that has been the case since they got married over 20 years ago....The only exception is if she's out-of-town. I must confess, I really admired her because I saw her as one of the few women who would do whatever reasonable thing it takes for her marriage to continue working peacefully.

    It simply is a case of personal preference......whatever rocks your boat.


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