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Happy Monday Y'All

 I used to be the sort of person that hates hearing things like happy Monday. Happy Tuesday. Happy etc. but I really do wish everyone happiness this Monday morning. 

These are words I feel should be chewed on as we begin a new week. 

To the Anon that won't leave my Ruthy alone. I want to believe it's all in good fun, but when it begins to border on bullying then I have to say something. Ruth (and every commenter) means a lot to me and my blog, I won't be happy to lose one. So please if anybody's comments upset you so much just try, (na beg I dey beg) and ignore. 

So yes, I wish us all HAPPINESS and FULFILLMENT in all areas of our lives.  


  1. And with this post alone, Am sure to have an "Awemazing" Monday.
    Nothing can get me upset.

    I usually DONT comment on blogs but when I read comments from Memphis, Steele (where's he sef)?, Mariam, Enjay, Tokoni, Ziggy etc, there's no way I wouldn't want to say a thing or two...

    To the anon in question "am extending an olive branch " Live & let's Live!

    Happy Monday.... #SwoonsAway.

    1. You should be used to Steele and his disappearing acts by now. Don't worry, he'll be back.

  2. How does my comment about Ruthy saying your shouldn't pay attention to Anons classify as bullying. I suggest you go back on that post and read excatly what I wrote. I wasn't happy with her statement and I called it out. She is the one you should be correcting and not me. I stand by my word and maintain that that statement of hers is WRONG. I only mentioned her name in d other post for the first time ever so how does dat come off as bullying. I am sure Ruthy herslf knows the errors of her statement. What will I gain by bullying? Such inappropriate word to use. Abeg I come in peace jare..

    1. That comment wasn't the one I had in mind. So you are obviously not the Anon. Cheers.

  3. Pls I hav Neva commented on Ruth's comments. And am not dat Anon. Bt truthfully Ruth's comments on dis blog re silly n immature. Shez alwys goin "Oh! My boo sed m d most buriful slim amazing perfect girl on planet earth" or "No no am a virgin, no premarital sex 4 me" ( am sure evri1 dat reads dis blog knws dat she is kiping her 'flower' 4 her husband). Stuff lyk dis are annoyin and doesn't endear pple 2 u @ al. Com down 4rm ur stupid high horse. Okay? Biko Thelma I just spoke my mind. No hard feelings 4 Ruth. #MyNameIsNina

  4. Dearest beloved Nina, finally U have half an identity that we both know is FAKE!!
    U better get OFF this blog if u'll keep spewing hate & lies!
    If U have mental issues pls visit the nearest Rehab!

    If U think u can spread discord on this blog, i'll single handedly drag u back to the hole u crawled out of...

    As much as I have NEVER mentioned such rubbish in my comments, if it hurts ur sad heart so much, PLS post ur own oh!!!

    I Am NOT slim but FIT... I Am NOT a virgin but celibate...

    Read twice, if u still don't understand my comments, move to the next posts!!!

    I am twerking as I await another one of ur silly replies!!!


  5. And from ALL u have just mentioned Nina!!! U have been the Anon bullying me since u came on this blog!!!

    But am Sorry honey, I ain't leaving this blog for Ur petty self.

    Bring it On!!!

  6. Why all dis beef for my ruthylicious ruth? Abeg o!

    1. Still me. Scincerely i was d first anon to hit at ruth and to be honest i neva did dat to bully or spite her but just for fun. I posted d comment askin abt where she does or doesn't live knowing ow much she loves dis blog, even she self-confessed, myself cant deny ow much i love dis blog, but having a e-grudge wit someone who doesn't even know whether or not u exist is just unnecessary. I made a comment on one of her post where an anonymous anon interupted, i promptly issued a disclaimer, den she jocularly responded "the two anons loving me, keep lovin, i love u too" or so, the young lady is only catching her fun and just being free. Whose business is it if she mentions le boo or la boo or whether or not she's a virgin or a celibate(sorry for d many or's)? Abeg nina, make atonement, stop being bitter over other people's life, ur accusations reeks of jealousy, plz u nid to change.

  7. Thank U very much anon 5:52... I remember that post....

    This Nina character is just pathetic, she LIVES on my every comment.
    I know some people only feel good/cool when they intimidate/insult others on social networks. But I won't aid it on this blog.

    I don't comment on any other blog due to the hate/lies there....

    This Nina girl just brought that useless attitude on this Pure blog!

    But I am ready for her henceforth!
    #I wont/cant be bullied.... lai lai....

  8. Ruth don't drink poison on my behalf. I dnt want u 2 leave dis blog pls stay, I just gav u an advice if u lyk take it, if u like don't. I hope u re nt lyk dis in real life. Fit ko fit ni, celibate ko celibate ni. Judgemental self righteous ode. Mtscheeeeeew. #IamNina

  9. Thelma, see why people hate Mondays? The stress has been transferred to this Post. LMAO

  10. Nina U are the one with the Venom in ur bone marrows & shouldn't be this bitter in real life!!!!
    U are simply JEALOUS!!! Advicer oshi...

    Rubbish Grammer U comment with...
    Go and hug a wet transformer!

    Am both FIT & CELIBATE!!!!

    Oya hang urself with ur hatred so long & thick!


  11. Hmmm...
    I wish you let the sleeping dog lie. You should have allow Monday to be. but please let's play cool here. whatever that happens should let by gone.

    1. I agree, I should have. But in all honesty I wasn't happy about it. I appreciate Ruthy a lot, most people read and don't bother commenting so when someone does so faithfully it means so much to me. But unfortunately me mentioning it seems to have caused more harm than good. My bad...

  12. Everyone here knows when this Silly Nina started her bullying, I kept ignoring & playing cool but everyone has a breaking point... I've gotten to my peak...

    Despite the long epistle almost everyone comments with esp on sensitive topics, WE ALL respect their views or criticize constructively & LOL it off...

    But this irritating Nina came with her insulting crooked Grammer to taunt Me!

    I won't take it anymore PLS...
    #UcantBullyMeNina. #SelfRighteousRuth

  13. Hmm...*sips a cocktail*

  14. Ok! Seeing as I have time on my hands and have come on to this, I will here and now issue a 'cease and desist'! Nina (its nice to have a name to an anonymous commenter btw), abeg leave Ruthy alone. If she's happy being fit and celibate and happy she has le boo, that's what makes her the Ruthy we love on the blog. If u don't, just shake ur head and move on. Ruthy, abeg no let comments get 2 u ok. If it gets too much do as i do and repeat after me; hakuna ma blogger! ( it means no memories of the rest of the blog post) or even better read the post again after singing hakuna ma vodka (dat takes off memories of the rest of ur night) *winks and smiles*. Either way people, make up osiso and don't start no yeye ebeef on T's 'wandering' b4 y'all get me sitting on people to snuff the life outa them! (have made myself the official referee of T's 'wandering') Kisses!

  15. Noted Dear Ziggy!
    I think this is helpful enough....



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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
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