I think I may have raised this before (I really can't remember) but if I did then I obviously didn't get answers.
Please ARE BLOW JOBS SUCH A BIG DEAL? I really need to know. Everytime a guy talks about breaking up, or divorcing or cheating on his significant other it always seems to have something to do with blow jobs, or (more appropriately) the lack thereof. In one of the episodes of Being Mary Jane this guy tells his wife who he's cheating on that he's moving out as he no longer loves her, they get into an argument and then he gives a list of reasons for moving out/leaving her for the other woman, and one of them is "you don't give me head anymore!". Seriously!
Earlier today I chatted with *Laura. She thinks dear husband might be cheating on her and says she's almost sure of it. Without confirming she says she's sure it's because she's slacking in bed and asked me how to give a good blow job (RME), I immediately referred her to google. Laura said she wants a "real" person to explain it to her, and she wants to know if it smells. It's really obvious she's dreading doing it but she feels she doesn't do that for hubby, so if he's cheating then that must be the reason.
I've had many guys here in Lagos tell me that if wifey doesn't give 'head' then nobody can blame him for cheating and she should expect him to cheat. I just have to ask, what is it about 'head'? Isn't sex enough? What if she finds other ways to pleasure you but finds putting your penis in her mouth too repulsive... It's still ok to cheat on her?
And why do most guys say they can never go down on a woman yet expect her to do same for him with a smile on her face? I just don't get it o! I know someone who literally pukes every time she gives her boo head, and he still makes her do it! Isn't that plain cruelty? (I know you'll read this, yes I think it's cruelty!). And of course she does it, all in the name of "keeping my man (happy)".
Ladies, have you ever had issues with your man because you refused to go down on him?
Guys why do you feel not getting a blow job justifies infidelity?
Ladies, why do you thinks it's ok to stop giving your man quality sex once he puts the ring on your finger? (At least I hear most women do).
Please can this public holiday continue till Friday? Doooooooon't end please!