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Just Stopped To Say...

I deleted last night's post because someone called it a pity-party and the thought that it might have been so misconstrued was so unnerving I thought the best thing was to take it off. 

Secondly it wasn't to encourage anyone to do anything. It was simply, basically the way I was feeling. And I ended up feeling victorious and overcoming that emotion; therefore it was ultimately meant to ENCOURAGE whoever is struggling that there's always light at the end of a tunnel. 

So to the Anon and anyone else who thought it was about pity, I'm way to strong for that... And too realistic to seek pity from people I mostly don't know personally. 

To everyone who was thoughtful and kind with the words and advice; Ifunanya, Wale etc. I'm so very grateful.

These moments exist in so many people's lives but just a few of us are actually willing to be vocal about it. I'm sure glad that mine was for a split second before God reminded me that He is. 

*love, hugs and sloppy kisses*. Have an Awesome Saturday people!. (Bukky remember we're hooking up tonight. No excuses *straight face*). 


  1. abeg people, which post is that? I hate it when i visit blog only to discover a post has been deleted

    1. Thelma was in a dark place last night but thankfully it soon blew over.

    2. Me too, didn't see that post. But thank GOD you feel victorious now. Stay VICTORIOUS Thelma. Be Blessed.

  2. Taking it down was for the best. Let's move on from that. Next!

  3. Hmm...seriously? The 2nd post to be deleted before i cld read? Pls,don't make this a habit biko.
    Well,judging from this post,i can imagine the deleted one. You are indeed strong. Just remember that soon,all wld be memoirs for a best-seller book.

  4. I commented with an epistle that refused to publish. I love the way the post ended. God keep you and bless you immensely with the grace you need. #Enjay#

  5. Haba, T, only one day i's off ur blog & a post was deleted? *weeping*

    Well, from the comments above I guess it wasn't all nice but PLEASE!!!!! STOP listening to the negative comments on ur blog esp from Anons.

    People waste their mb trying to make their veins pop! #EgoHappenSoon

    U have some cool people here sha, people whose comments make me feel like I know them...

    1. Hey Ruth, i like you. In my comment last night i even mentioned u. I told Thelma that so many people love her and that if she has doubts she should ask Ruthylicious.

  6. Plsss. Biko. Y delete a post? This is great injustice 2 me. I want 2 read!

  7. T luv, U n I know ur too fabulous 2 b anything less dan fabulicious. Jst keep being u! N wen d dementors seem 2 come to bug u, jst buzz me so we'll find how 2 wack em off *wink. As for ndi Anon dat hve negative comments, y'all should go suck a lemon *not interested face

  8. Rolling on the floor @Ziggys comments!

    Plus I Love U Ifunanya!!!! Infact am twerking for U!!!!

    Our T is our forever boo! #SendingBackUrSloppyKisses.

  9. Thelma I read the post and I just want you to know that its darkest before dawn. This is the period just before you get your miracle. Don't lose faith, God loves you.

  10. Hello Thelma, I didn't read the said post, but it seems it wasn't a pleasant one.
    I'm glad that you've overcome what ever experience it was.
    Remember you have an awesome life?! Then expect more of baseless, evil-minded rudeness, criticism and hate from people. Unfortunately that's how the world has always been.
    Be happy! Enjoy! More good awaits you!


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