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Question Of The Day.

So a blog visitor mailed me and asked what I thought about her situation. 

When siblings are close in age they sometimes share the same friends, interests, clothes, opinions and sometimes even love interests. Naturally, our first instinct is that it's wrong but most times our feelings are beyond even our own control. We cannot tell our hearts what to do or how to feel. The heart wants what the heart wants and not everyone is able to deprive the heart in order to please or not to hurt the next person. What happens when the heart wants a sibling's Ex, or an Ex's sibling?

About our blog visitor; Her younger sister is dating her Ex boyfriend and although she has moved on (they dated three years ago), she doesn't think it's right and has asked her to end the relationship. 

Is she being selfish?

My questions are; 
Would you date your sibling's Ex (and why)?
Would you date your Ex's sibling?
(Would your answer be different if you sibling or your Ex is now married to someone else?) 

Let's talk. 


  1. She is not being selfish,she's just being human,I know it happens though but its not right to me,but this days,wrong is the new right...and being wrong feels so right! I can't even date my friend EX not to talk of my sibling EX..#myopinion#

  2. NO! NO!! NO!!! NO!!!! Do I need to go on?
    I can't date an Exs sibling cos that Ex will be in life for life, if I wanted that, I would have married the Ex, neither would my kid Sis date my Ex. But cousins, pls date and even marry my Ex if u want... but that close blood relationship? Like his bro or my sis? NOP!

  3. I can never that ♍♉ sibling's ex, that feelings I have for him just have to die. I personally would feel hurt if ♍♉ sister falls in love with ♍♉ ex even if I don't wanna date him back but it all depends on circumstances, if they are sincerely in love I may just have to let it be. But personally I would never do that.

  4. It depends on the kind of relationship you have with said sibling, if you guys aren't that close or not really in good terms then you might not see anything wrong with it.
    I have just one brother and we're close to death, we can never have anything to do with each other's ex

  5. There's no reason to date your sibling's ex abeg! It's not fair nor right. Didn't they both know he's an ex to a sister? What nonsense love or lust is that?! Hiss* see ehn, that one wants somethings doesn't make it right to have them.

  6. I always gbadun mariam,memphis,steele,and enjay comment on ds blog.I b loving that mariam girl.*runsaway before my GF catches me*

  7. Its simply unacceptable regardless of who messed up in the past relationship (ur sibling or d ex). Imagine my ex becoming my bro-in-law? Mba nu! Ko le sele, ra ra o #Enjay#

  8. I'm not close to my sister but I won't date her ex.. that's just too much..I know too much about him already so yea..but If i was married then maybe I may not have a problem with it.sigh..tough situation o

  9. When your married then it's different sha.


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