So a blog visitor mailed me and asked what I thought about her situation.
When siblings are close in age they sometimes share the same friends, interests, clothes, opinions and sometimes even love interests. Naturally, our first instinct is that it's wrong but most times our feelings are beyond even our own control. We cannot tell our hearts what to do or how to feel. The heart wants what the heart wants and not everyone is able to deprive the heart in order to please or not to hurt the next person. What happens when the heart wants a sibling's Ex, or an Ex's sibling?
About our blog visitor; Her younger sister is dating her Ex boyfriend and although she has moved on (they dated three years ago), she doesn't think it's right and has asked her to end the relationship.
Is she being selfish?
My questions are;
Would you date your sibling's Ex (and why)?
Would you date your Ex's sibling?
(Would your answer be different if you sibling or your Ex is now married to someone else?)