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Single Ladies. (You've Got Me Wishing...)

So I just finished watching Season 3 of one of my fav chickflick TV series and it's left me feeling some kinda way! 

I know that kind of 'ride or die' love, that passion that's so smoking hot you can almost feel the flames from the screen, that sexiness that no matter how you try to emulate can never be recreated in real life, only exists in the movies.... Yet it's possible to have a semblance of that and I want a semblance of that!

I'm not too scared to admit that I miss being part of a couple, that although I'm currently practicing abstinence I miss being kissed deeply, slowly, passionately, that I miss experiencing a mind-blowing orgasm I didn't give myself, that I miss being held post-coitus and have sweet nothings whispered in my ears. I'm not afraid to admit that I get so lonely I sometimes create imaginary friends and lovers, just so I don't feel so lonely anymore. Yeah I miss knowing that someone I love loves me back in return, and maybe just a little bit more. I miss having that someone you call at the end of the day and unburden it all to, the good, bad and ugly events of that day, someone with whom you share the laughter, tears, pain, jokes, prayers, hope, everything! Yeah I miss it. ...err I don't only miss knowing it, I've sort of forgotten what it feels like (my last relationship was in 2010 and even that was really messed up, one that left me with ZERO self-esteem and complete self-doubt at the end of it all). 

So yeah, I don't usually think or worry about the fact that it's me myself and I but watching this series has got me wishing. Kai!!! 

Anyhoooooooo I'm just checking in. Enjoy the rest of your Saturday. I'm going out to see what's going on in the world. Ciao!


  1. Omg how in tha world did u get season 3???? I've been watching 1 and 2 all day all month all year and I never get tired.....lucky u.

    Don't worry,ul find love soon....happens when u least expect it....mine found me some weeks back and it has been friggin fantastic....

    1. I downloaded it, as I do most of my series. I can send you the link but you'll have to pay me first. Hahaha.

  2. I understand...if wishes were horse,beggers would ride

  3. I have been waiting to watch season 3 saving it for afta my exam.Love will find u #Sussy

  4. Did I forget to add that Single ladies is a pure fantasy bt I love it #Sussy

  5. I love dat serie, so interesting, that's truly wat goes on in single ladies minds. Anyway Thelma i ve feeling u are very sensitive like me, u usually judge books by thr cover i.e u r not that patient to get to know people, u get irritated already proly on d first date, but i think you shld learn to give some time n get to know pple a little more. I dont blame u tho cos u come across to me as a woman that knows exactly wat she doesnt want and will not even bend d rules. Wen i read some of ur posts i just feel this way tho i might be wrong.

  6. Thanks for letting me know the complete 3 is out...I just hope that nympho called ...(The one who replaced val in season 1) has put a leash on it! Geez!

    1. Lol @ nympho. I like her sha, she's so HAWT! But Keisha is my girl any day any time. #Bosslady.

    2. Yeah.. keisha killed it all...go keisha!!.

  7. Haaaaa! T, like I needed another reason to Love U?
    So Ur my sister in single ladies... whoooop!

    Yeah, when it comes to how a lady is ought to carry herself, self dignity, esteem & respect ish, Keisha is the BossLady.

    But, when it comes to chemistry, I used to sob at Malcolm & Keisha's scenes but Raquel & Terrence, Gracious heavens!!! Even hell can't be that HAWT... last 10 seconds of Episode 8.

    But T, if U love me too, Oya prove it. I stopped at Episode 12, kindly mail me the link... Loads of kisses!!!

  8. T pls I've bin tryna download ds movie but I've not seen any correct link, cud u pls say wia u downloaded it from? Tnx

  9. Mehn...I need to go find the season 3 of this movie...e don tey!

    I can relate to all what is written up there but what can one do but to keeping you before shows up.


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