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Thelma Asks...

Is it possible for a woman in her 20s to love a man old enough (or older than) to be her father?

Roberto Cavalli (73) on the beach with his girlfriend. 

Seeing the pictures of Roberto Cavalli and his smoking hot lover who's in her 20s reminds me of a friend who was dating a man in his late 60s. We were then in our mid 20s and she swore she was in love. They were quite a "cute" couple who talked about everything and spent hours on the phone, and she was so caring and attentive to his needs. No doubt he was/is filthy rich and my friend's lifestyle was suddenly transformed. But she still insists she was in love. And I didn't/don't believe her. LOL. 

I mean...... look at Roberto Cavalli, yes I will LOVE his money, but love him...err, NO WAY. And the thought of having a romp in the sack with him churns my belly, but then I remember that this is (Roberto Cavalli) and $$$ signs flash before my eyes and then I suddenly get insanely turned on and make hot passionate love to him and as I come I'll be screaming "Shoooooow miii the munnnnnnnay!!!" 

LOL. My imagination is already running wild. 


  1. Older men are more caring and understanding, so yes its possible but its very rare

    1. NAH! I completely disagree....I married a man who is almost 20 years older than me and guess what? He treated me more like one of several pieces of ornaments. A man who believed after some kids, a woman is stuck in a marriage for life, hence the man could play chess with her emotions. A chronic polygamist too. Happy I am out of the hell-hole I was delusional enough to call marriage. For your own good, STOP generalizing as not all older men are caring and not all young guys are uncaring (using your words)

  2. Henceforth Thelma,just believe that "Anything" is possible...

  3. Ur imagination ehn,each man 2 his opinion. If he doesn't ve money I myt believe it is love. Dis one na ha grand fada na

  4. As long as he's not my father and he is as rich as Robert Cavalli, I will love him!!! I will be loyal!!! lol!!!
    Btw, money makes any man HOT!...look at Jay-Z for instance.

  5. It is a fair deal, the man is loaded and the chick is pretty! Being wealthy does make a man hot, you need to be around one that treat you right to know this.

    It is amazing people still use age in validating relationships in 2014, we should all be cool with whatever rocks our boats. We all don't have same goals in life and should care less what people think as long as we are not committing a crime.

    1. Wale are you for real? If it was a 73 year old woman and a 25 old man, will you still wonder why age is a factor in 2014?

    2. Yes, I am. Age wont be a factor as long as everybody knows what they seek, a 23 year old stud looking for mad cash will feel cool with a wealthy 73 year old woman!

  6. I am double speechless!!!
    What money can do!!! It's indeed the ultimate switch of love....


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