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Hell Yeah It's Friday. RANT OR RAVE People!

Wow! I welcome Friday with open arms. 

I honestly wasn't too in love with this week so I'm going to rant and rave!
Here goes:

-The week started, and stuff in an area of my life I really don't like to blog about lead to the age old question; why do women hate each other? Aaaaargh! 

-While we're trying to recover from our missing girls 8 more are abducted; classic case of taking the piss. I'm ranting about this because, naturally it's saddening, but because on that day the news completely messed with my writing/blogging. I was writing a short story when I heard the news and suddenly my mind went blank. (That was the day i did the BLANK post, I think). It's like, what are you even writing? What's the point? Does this matter? On that day I struggled to post anything at all and I'm still in a zone. 

-*Dean began to profess love, wants a relationship, wants commitment. Dean is such an amazing guy. Problem is, Dean showed me pepper. Dean was the last person I dated and things were so uncool that I bade him farewell and set off on my journey of abstinence and solitude. So I heard the words he said, received the attention he gave me, saw his funny poetry on his PM (this flattered me because Dean's status hasn't changed in over a year, you know how guys can be, so this was what made me blush.) 

Hahaha. This cracks me up, I had to munch it. No one told me Shakespeare had resurrected. 

I like Dean but I remember one quote about leaving the phone to ring when the past calls...

- I went to work out this evening and I jogged past the basket ball court. Jisox! Lekwa umu nwoke. See men! Foooooine sweaty shirtless men with well-sculpted abs glistening with sweat, it's a miracle I didn't fall down. The second time I jogged past one came over to talk. Yippee! But guess what, all he said was "you're not a resident" in an accusatory tone. I just rolled my eyes and kept jogging. *tongue out*. I really love working out there, I pray no committee is set up because 'outsiders' are coming to work out inside their precious estate. 

-Most of the people who promised to help the single mum haven't kept their promises *Sad Face*. But one very awesome guy from this blog has helped out immensely. We are now good friends and speak everyday. It won't be more than friendship between us but I'm glad I met him. It feels good to have a confidant. 

-NEPA. PHCN. Eko Electric (or whatever) WHERE IS THE LIGHT??? 

-As I drove back home from the estate I'm trespassing someone flagged me down and I stopped to give him a ride, this was around 10pm. It was a risky thing to do but I felt sorry for him. I tried to make conversation but he wasn't keen on it so we rode in complete silence, I was so scared that he will pull out a gun and ask me to pull over at any minute (You guys won't believe what calmed me down; his cologne. I just kept thinking an armed robber won't used this kind of cologne. The potentially dangerous hitchhiker smelled good. LOL)Thankfully he didn't and when we got to his stop he said "lock your doors, this place isn't safe". I just smiled and let out a sigh of relief. 

- I have a job on Saturday which I was paid for a while back. When you have work and you anticipate payment you're gingered to work. But when you've already been payed long ago and you've chopped the money and cleaned mouth you sort of lack motivation. But it's all good, I know I'll do an awesome job anyways (by God's grace.). 

Generally this week was very flat, I hope the next one's much better. 

How was your week? What were the the highlights and low points of your week? What made you happy, laugh, giggle or squeal with joy and what made you scream, shout, cry or nearly murderous?!
Well guess what, this is where you get to rant or rave. Spill it! 


  1. ahhhhhh Thelma pls dont pick anyone up again omgg with all this lynching and stuff going on around.....pls o i repeat...DO NOT HELP STRANGERS LIKE THAT ON THE ROAD AGAIN! AND MOST ESPECIALLY CHILDREN!....mehn what u did was extremely dangerous. and at that time again? haba now.

  2. Hmmm. Thelma shed more light on this generous new "friend". my week was boring as usual. my boyfriend is being a jerk and if there's no ring by December I'm breaking up with him.

    1. He's a jerk and you want his ring? Will that make him a better man?

  3. Travelled to PH for the first time. It was supposed to be rest but turned out that I have to be in an office everyday. Still fun though I haven't seen PHCN light in 8days and haven't seen my children since. Less stress, unfamiliar territories. Kareoke bars, internet and hubby's presence made it worthwhile. Oh I forgot to include the first lady's video on Chibok..... Saying a prayer for the girls.....#Enjay#

  4. Nothing to rant on really, except the controversies surrounding our missing girls. Really sad. That aside, it's been an eventful (and stressful) week so far. :D

  5. The week has been good can't complain.Highlight of the week, speaking to my nephews over the phone, my friend got engaged, plus it finally rained after a looong dry spell so I thank God for that.Praying for the missing girls in Nigeria, the single mum and for peace and stability all over Africa.
    I promised to help the single mum but I am not currently able to do that, but I will do so as soon as things get better for me. God bless you Thelma.

    1. Hey Sharon, no pressure at all, whenever it's possible, ok? God bless you too!

      Yeah, I forgot to add that my nephew took his first step this week. I'm so so excited.

    2. That is lovely Thelma, wait until he says his first words you will have the funniest conversations.

  6. Who put a nurse and a student paed nurse on an a n e paeds ward. And aving to start dis shift with a child in resus, coupled with the fact that it my first day of the month flying the red flag. Ko funny mehn Am callin in sick tomorrow

  7. This week I got into a fight with my bestie for the first time in years. it feels weird but both of us don't want to be the first to say i'm sorry. More importantly #bringourgirls back. The boko haram issue is getting more depressing by the hour. Thelma that your Shakespeare sha. lol. branches of oando.

  8. Nna Dean is crazy sha... but hey, all Ex's are crazy. U do know my own Ex transformed to Fiance" after being MIA for months... so maybe u should give him a chance & a lil dose of his pepper! RME

    Still hoping they #BringBackOurGirls sha by God's grace.

    Awwww, Enjay ur in PH, u can sha invite me for a drink. #wideGrin

    Nwando keep working out oh!!!! (Shaking pom poms, Am ur personal Cheer Leader)...

    1. Talkative... thought you said ur mom's shop sells baby items???? why haven't you delivered???? She how she cleverly avoided the topic.. Chaiiii there is God oo, these lies you are sharing on this blog, there is God ooo!!! #greattalkergreatlair

  9. #bringbackourgirls! that has been the major thing on my mind all week. cash tight, ate and slept a lot.

  10. Oh ruthy u stay in PH too? :D noice. My week was blehh nothing major just routine.

  11. Phransea YES!!! I just feel like ur my long lost Thelma blogs twin for asking that... LOL

    I do stay at whimpey sha off Ikwerre road...

    1. Awww nice of u to say that. I stay in woji, still new in PH so dont know d town xpt for how to locate my house lols

  12. It wasn't a good week for me,it was a dry boring week with much stress,maybe cos I just got to ibadan bt I hope God helps me cos I really need a miracle that would sound like a LIE!


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Good morning people! 
Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
I got into town pretty late and needed to keep an appointment ASAP. I'm heading out right now and it's going to be a long day, but thought I should drop this first. 
Have a splendid day. Im'ma be back soon.


He was my coursemate, crush, then my boyfriend.... he was super
intelligent, smart, tall, dark and handsome. Believe me he got
swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
LOVE THEM and watching the season film of The Secret Life of
American Teenagers. ..when Amy Jeugerns mum told her "you are only
young once". LOL that part got me.
Hope you know what i mean?

Though I'm okay with chemistry class I approached him to coach me for
the Quiz that was coming up, we found out that we had this
great chemistry between us.. hehehe both the covalent and
electrovalent bonds....

So one thing led to another till one unusual Saturday. I invited
him to my house and he came. The guy got swag, he even came
with a packet of durex condom.
We talked for a while and and and and and and
See how you are serious dey read this story....!

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I'm in an amebo mood tonight. Don't ask me, I honestly don't know why. Also I'd like to share too but I'd do that anonymously in the comment section. Tonight I want to talk about secrets. It's ok, we can all be anonymous. 
Is it true that EVERYBODY has a secret? 
Is there anyone here who doesn't have a secret? I'd really like to know; You're a completely open book and there's not ONE thing about you that you wouldn't mind other people knowing about? Please raise your hands up. 
And for the rest of us, what's something about you that no one knows, or very few people know? Who's got a dark secret here, or a weird one, or a funny one even? I really don't mean to be invasive but I don't want to be the only one sharing, plus I think hearing other people's secrets is quite fun, don't you think?

Let's Be Random Together! (Open Keypad).

Hey guys, a while back blog reader F said something about creating an Open Keypad post, where you can write whatever you want in the comment section. I thought it was a fun idea!
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I'll only make one request; that we stay civil. 

(F it was you who made this suggestion, right? I'm not too sure and I can't even remember the post the comment was made on). 
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Mother & child. 

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Question of The Day.

TTB readers doesn't this tweet below remind you of something?
That mail that someone sent me a few weeks back. 
But why on earth should a man sleep with his son's fiancé? But what am I saying, some men even sleep with their daughters...

Oh well, I'm throwing the question to you. What has happened in your life that you never saw coming, you never hesperred it, you never imagined could happen, you never imagined could happen to you? 
It could be good, it could be bad, it could be ugly. Do tell!
And it can be more than one. Let me tell you a few. 
-owning a blog -week long dry fast at Prayer City (I never hesperred it).  -staying in an (emotionally) abusive relationship.
The others require anonymity. LOL. Now over to you.