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It's May!!! (Plus I'm Still Stuck In My Bubble).

I woke up smiling like I won a lottery in my sleep. My heart is so light and it almost feels like walking on cloud 9. After I spent sometime going through comments I remembered something and sobered up a little:

So last week *Dee asked if I would like to go for a party on a private beach (Ibeshe) today. I said yes but I knew I wouldn't. The first thought I had was the people, then the celebs that will be there knowing Dee's affiliation with most of them, then the possibility that it might be "all white everything" as per boat cruise and private beach things, then people running around in bikinis and shorts. Blame it on old age but even as I said yes, I knew that if asked I would lie that I have to work today. 

Yesterday however I read a couple of articles on Thought Catalogue (we have a love-hate relationships. Some of the articles make me want to burst open a vein but I can't stop reading Thought Catalogue) and one was about how Introverts are losing out of a lot of things in life just because of their introversion and how they need to stop using introversion as an excuse to stay in their comfort zone. 

This rang so true to me. I know that my refusal to put myself out there more may have cost me more than I care to think. I've lost opportunities to meet new people, make new friends, do some networking, create business opportunities and more just because I'm more comfortable hiding out in my room. I used to go out a lot before even when I didn't feel like but these days I just play the introvert card and stay hidden behind closed doors and watch the world through the screen of my ipad. 

I decided that has got to change. Immediately I pinged Dee and said Aye! Add my name to the Guest List! I was filled with enthusiasm and zest and excitement. I called my friend *Summy to ask if she'll come through and she said yes but had her concerns; celebs, groupies, "small shidren", " Nwando what will we wear? babes I'm too grown to be going half naked and showing all my stretch marks" LOL. I told her we'd be casual and just go and have fun. 

But now I woke up late and I completely forgot, it was when I was lazily going through comments that I thought; Wait, I should be on a boat by now! I placed a call and people are already there, ready to get on the boat. So, yes, errr, I'm sha not going to the parry. 

Fall back plan; Movie date. (Boring life I live, I know but.... To be honest, I'm not ready to break out of this comfort zone, at least not today. I don't think Summy was too keen either because she hasn't even called me to ask what's up). 

Yeah, it could also be because last night I found out my brother is attending that same party too. Nah! The thought of me flirting with some hot shirtless dude while my brother is a foot away is simply a turn off. So im'ma sit my ass down at home! (Yeah, this is another excuse to stay in my bubble). 

So once again, happy new month guys. 
From the depths of my heart I pray that the hopes you had in April which didn't become a reality will manifest in May, and that this month be filled with love, laughter, peace and fulfillment. 
May God bless us all. Amen. 


  1. You would have gone.I know it will be fun.I had some things to do as per May 10th but Obie left and thanked me for the extra invite.

    1. Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! Obie went?!!!! Nwamaka I'm crying. Kai! I wish I had posted this yesterday. God knows if I knew you guys would be there I would have gone. And I would have pulled you along. (It's just one day) besides I'm sure things are more ready for May 10th than you think. Speaking of May 10th I can't wait! Hehehe.

  2. Sometimes its like that,the constant thing in life is change,it will get to a point that u will want to start going out everyday again,it works with mood.and for ur broda bin there,its a turn off truly.may God bless yu too all around this ya

  3. Been meaning to ask before now but em,is ur bro (the shirtless one u put up the other day) single? *coughs*. Just asking biko...

    1. Sasha come to my house, I've got cough syrup. Both with and without codeine. #Sasha'sCoughMustGo. LOL.

    2. U still didn't answer...*clears throat*

  4. T biko answer Sasha. Some of us might come to ur house b4 she does sef. *just to assess the goods* LOL

    Btw U are so lucky am NOT in lag T. Cos despite the fact that am an introvert too, i'll repent & drag u for the same deliverance...

    *Please go out there & show the world ur fabulousity* in kimora's voice...

  5. Hahaha. Ruthy the goods aren't even in my house. Besides both you and Sasha are "unavailable" so what are you assessing the goods for?
    Thanks BTW I'm actually heading out now. Thankfully I got invited to somewhere else. Going to show the world my fabulousity. Lol.

  6. Oh so Thelma posted her bro's pic? *gracefully collects LASTMA ticket*

  7. Yayyyyy! And off she goes!
    Enjoy T... U deserve all the happiness the world had to offer.

    Tiwa bring just 5k for the shirtless pic. I get am...

    1. Ruthy, Pls help a sisteh. Be your sister's keeper ooo, Izznogud!!!

  8. LooooL, Chei. Tiwa lemme go n report U...


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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
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