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My Week In Review.

Erm, I just like the way that sounded, my week was not in any way eventful. I just missed you guys and wanted to touch base. 

So yes, my week was uneventful. Work during the day, work out at night. Work is a bit chill'd at the moment. When I resumed work someone had recently joined the firm. She wasn't there when I left. When I saw her we both eyeballed each other in obvious displeasure. We were in the same class in Uni and you know those people that you never talked to and you never liked, and you were always certain that feeling was mutual. Well, she's one of such so when I saw her I was like God, why?

But as it usually is with people you always see but do not know, you find out that they're really beautiful people when you get to know them, and she's one of such too. I get to work and I'm happy when I see her, I get home and I call her to make sure she got home safe. She's 'good people'.

My social life is on hold right now so no, nothing is happening there. In fact the only thing I had to look forward to all week was that Gigs would be coming to town. I'm with her right now but we're both too tired to speak to each other #anticlimax. 

And Oh, the Cookie-Crumble (See here) guy started calling again after sending me a bbm message. 
Me: I thought you said you had no desire to see or spend time with me anymore *confused* 
Him: Guess there's something about you which I don't know and I can't resist. And well I would not want to resist either. 

I'm not in the mood to try to make anything out of that. He's offshore at the moment so I guess we'll meet up when he gets back next week. I'm trying to be excited but it's hard seeing as I'd more or less deleted him from my memory .... Anyways let's see how it goes, hopefully this time I act right. 

Another person I'd deleted from my memory is my long time friend from QC who suddenly decided late last year that she was too busy and wanted to be "in her own space". It hurt but after trying to work on our relationship and she wasn't willing I moved on. *Friendship is not by force*. Well she wants us to do something on Sunday and I'm not excited about this either. Not because I don't want to be friends anymore but because (this will sound extremely cheesy but whatever) I don't want to get hurt again. I tend to take my friendships seriously and when a friend goes funny for no reason at all it gets to me. I succeeded in moving on from that one and now she wants us to meet up... I have an urge to say "babes it's either you're in or your out, no half measures this time". I know that will sound super weird and freak her out *LOL* but I'm serious. Don't come and be my friend on Sunday and then disappear into your "own space" after that. I don't need or want many friends but the few I have I hold dear to me. 

Another thing I did was to end an emotional affair that was brewing. I want to be a solution not a problem. For me the brain is the most exciting organ in a person. For the first time in a long time I found someone I could talk to about almost anything. He was the first person I'd speak to in the morning and the last person at night. He was becoming friend, adviser, confidante, muse, therapist, sounding board and so much more and it would be so easy to develop strong emotions for him. Unfortunately nothing good can come out of it so I nipped it right in the bud. Experiencing some withdrawal symptoms as normally by now we would have been on the phone for the two hours or so but I'll get past that soon. 

I wish you guys a beautiful weekend ahead. Memphis udo o di kwa? And Tiwa you've been MIA. I hope all is fine....



  1. Nne,is that how u look for work? O.o? *coughs and coughs and keeps coughing*...hehehe

    1. Ndo nne, chew bitter kola. How am I supposed to look for work? *confused*.

  2. Thelma you better behave this time with that cookie guy. Off shore tins. Don't dull o! lol

  3. Thelma the hot babe. This cookie guy is really persistent. And try to find out why your friend went into her own space, sometimes we never know the issues people are dealing with.

  4. Make things right with the cookie guy, abeg. You don't have to end up in a relationship with him but it wont be a bad idea to expand your network of friends if he is a great guy.

  5. And she listens... Make peace with him babe....
    I have a lil sad news...

  6. I love yhu thelma! God help u and be wt u. Dnt break ur head too much over d guy, woteva is urs shall alwz find u.

    1. I love you right back. I just wish you didn't have to be anonymous.

  7. Abeg me I'm interested in the full gist of this guy u used plenty adjectives on yet nothing can come out of it, nne biko shiar it! :D

  8. Thanks Subomi, i'll share soon.

  9. You look really good!
    please visit

  10. As for your friend you do not know what she is going through or went through. Hear her out. With uncle offshore keep an open mind.

  11. Thelma,u look dope in dat cookie better do normal o,@ruthy,wats wrong dear,u better share quick o

  12. Looking great. Hmmm..... And the hips don't lie ooo. About the cookie guy, that's good to hear. Pls, let's hear positive things when he's back. About your friend, don't be too quick to judge. I keep to myself too when there's too much drama going on in my life, which by the way is unending sort of. This is so that I don't be the complaining person who has things going "right" all the time. Its better I keep to myself and keep mute that way. Ruthy dear, hugs! I hope its not really bad. #Enjay#

  13. Thelma udo di nne. lol. BTW, I keep reading about you being fat, size 5 and all that big stuff. This picture says otherwise. Looking real good.

    The cookie guy again? Hmmm...ok, keep that open mind, but don't think twice if the Chemistry is absent.

    @Ruthy, hope you're ok? Whatever it is, just be easy on yourself, ok?

    Be Blessed people :D


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Good morning people! 
Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
I got into town pretty late and needed to keep an appointment ASAP. I'm heading out right now and it's going to be a long day, but thought I should drop this first. 
Have a splendid day. Im'ma be back soon.


He was my coursemate, crush, then my boyfriend.... he was super
intelligent, smart, tall, dark and handsome. Believe me he got
swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
LOVE THEM and watching the season film of The Secret Life of
American Teenagers. ..when Amy Jeugerns mum told her "you are only
young once". LOL that part got me.
Hope you know what i mean?

Though I'm okay with chemistry class I approached him to coach me for
the Quiz that was coming up, we found out that we had this
great chemistry between us.. hehehe both the covalent and
electrovalent bonds....

So one thing led to another till one unusual Saturday. I invited
him to my house and he came. The guy got swag, he even came
with a packet of durex condom.
We talked for a while and and and and and and
See how you are serious dey read this story....!

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I'm in an amebo mood tonight. Don't ask me, I honestly don't know why. Also I'd like to share too but I'd do that anonymously in the comment section. Tonight I want to talk about secrets. It's ok, we can all be anonymous. 
Is it true that EVERYBODY has a secret? 
Is there anyone here who doesn't have a secret? I'd really like to know; You're a completely open book and there's not ONE thing about you that you wouldn't mind other people knowing about? Please raise your hands up. 
And for the rest of us, what's something about you that no one knows, or very few people know? Who's got a dark secret here, or a weird one, or a funny one even? I really don't mean to be invasive but I don't want to be the only one sharing, plus I think hearing other people's secrets is quite fun, don't you think?

Let's Be Random Together! (Open Keypad).

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I'll only make one request; that we stay civil. 

(F it was you who made this suggestion, right? I'm not too sure and I can't even remember the post the comment was made on). 
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Mother & child. 

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Question of The Day.

TTB readers doesn't this tweet below remind you of something?
That mail that someone sent me a few weeks back. 
But why on earth should a man sleep with his son's fiancé? But what am I saying, some men even sleep with their daughters...

Oh well, I'm throwing the question to you. What has happened in your life that you never saw coming, you never hesperred it, you never imagined could happen, you never imagined could happen to you? 
It could be good, it could be bad, it could be ugly. Do tell!
And it can be more than one. Let me tell you a few. 
-owning a blog -week long dry fast at Prayer City (I never hesperred it).  -staying in an (emotionally) abusive relationship.
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