"My SO (significant other) was not happy with the amount of time I spent with my friend, resulting in a few fights. He had been in a pretty bad motorcycle accident a few months prior, and was still working on recovering from a broken femur. We were arguing about my division of time and she says, “I wish your friend had died in his accident.” Our relationship had been on a downward spiral for a while prior to this, but it was limping along because we were both still trying to make things better. This was the straw that shattered the camel’s back, I immediately ended the relationship."
I read this on Reddit and almost went apeshit! Some people can be so horrible. Well, I once had someone say to me "I wish my SO will die so I can be with you" Obara Jesus! I have never had so many goose pimples on my skin as I did at that moment.
Back to the straw that broke the camel's back, what is that one moment/thing/statement that your FRIEND/BOO/SIGNIFICANT OTHER said/did that made you say "No more. This relationship is over"?
I'll share a few of mine with you.
# A few weeks into my relationship with *Tobi he said; "If you ever cheat on me, I will kill him, then I will kill you. And I promise you nothing will happen to me". I tried to act like his was joking but he assured me that we had a well-loaded revolver, then proceeded to show it to me. Ok.. Tobi wouldn't let me leave him though no matter how hard I tried. He spoiled me silly but frightened me shitless! A few weeks after that he bought me a pair of Gucci shoes and when I said thank you without getting up to hug him he totally flipped and hurled a heated iron at my head from across the room. If I did not move an inch away before it got to me.... So yes, I knew Tobi was controlling and potentially abusive but that was the moment I said "Mba biko. All the money and gifts in the world cannot buy happiness". (I'll share the whole story soon).
# I had barely started dating *Femi when he said "I don't really like blow jobs but I like it when a girl licks my ass. You'll lick my ass-hole abi?" Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew for weeks! That relationship ended before it began.
# I thought my friend *Nkem was just misunderstood when she'd forward texts and messages from some random chics asking her to leave their men alone, complaining to me that she didn't know what they were talking about. Till the day we found out she was sleeping with her best friend's boo. When confronted via SMS she replied saying "fuck you, fuck him and fuck the world. It's all a game to me." Not the remorse and denial we were expecting. That day I put my shoes on and took a walk. If she could do that to her bestie then who am I? LOL.
So hey, What was the straw the broke the camel's back in your friendship/relationship?