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Too Much Man For Just One Woman!

Hey guys! So I just got back from the movies. Earlier in the day I remembered it was Wednesday and knowing my evening would be free I quickly went online to check what is showing at the movies. Immediately I saw the name I only prayed it will be showing after working hours because the name alone told me that that was what I wanted to watch; The Other Woman. Seriously YOU need to see this movie. Chickflick it is but everybody had an insane time, male and female alike. 

Now this movie is hilarious but there was a take home for me and I'm excited to share it with you guys.

I'm sorry if this is a spoiler but don't worry I won't tell anything you won't get in the Movie's synopsis  (in case you're planning to watch it). So basically there's the hot rich guy, let's call him Mr Hotstuff. Mr Hotstuff is married but dating Miss Smart. They have a steamy hot relationship, Miss Smart isn't aware he's married. Miss Smart decides to surprise him at home one evening and meets his wife Mrs Nice. So that's how they both found out they were both being cheated on. Mrs Nice went to pay Mrs Smart a visit and somehow they became friends. In the course of this friendship they found out that they weren't the only ones in the love circle. And that's how they tracked down the young bombshell, we'll call her Miss Boobs. These three women bond over being deceived and cheated on by the same man and they formed the perfect plan to fuck him up. As in completely fuck him up! And boy did they fuck him up! Hahahahaha. 

I watched this and naturally it got me thinking. If we as women had each other's backs this way there will be very few tales of "the other woman". If we stood our grounds and decided not to be used as instruments of home/relationship-wreckage, then philandering men will surely think twice before stepping out on Madam. 

Another thing that raised my brows is a question I've asked myself since my QC days, why does a woman find out her man is cheating and attacks the other woman instead of the man? I cannot say this enough, it can never be overstated; the other woman did not cheat on you, YOUR MAN DID!!! 

Anyways I know nothing is cut and dried and people deal with hurt in different ways but these were my thoughts as I watched the movie. 

And as for the guy, men like that full everywhere; Mr Hot, Handsome and Rich. I've come across some men like that, men who feel that they're too much for one woman alone, like one woman just can't handle all this hotness. Or they see themselves as some sort of charity that should be shared to all the ladies because they're just too much. I pray God delivers such men. (I'm itching to curse but since I've got a few philandering friends, I can only pray for them). 

I've got a movie date tomorrow and I think I will see this movie again. I can hardly wait to laugh my head off one more time. 

Have an awesome night beautiful people. 

Steele, welcome back my darling, @ImpurfectHer I'm still looking for you. 


  1. Wake up Thelma, it was a movie! The folks playing the game in real life knows all the codes, a few eediots get caught and get played.

    The pain of cheating can be deep, not something I would wish on my enemy. Maybe we have moved to far away from God to have a conscience.

  2. I dnt knw one married man dat doesn't cheat. Am honestly saying this, even my dad *clears throat*. N I don't knw weda it's just impossibl 4 men 2 b wit one woman. If I can see one single married man that doesn't cheat, il get married 2moro. #IAmNina

  3. I dnt knw one married man dat doesn't cheat. Am honestly saying this, even my dad *clears throat*. N I don't knw weda it's just impossibl 4 men 2 b wit one woman. If I can see one single married man that doesn't cheat, il get married 2moro. #IAmNina

  4. there are married men who do not cheat! I know some. They are few but trust me they exist.

  5. Wale allow me to sleep just a little longer, please. Can't a girl wish anymore?

    IAmNina just like you I know there are men who do not cheat, I've met a few who claim never to have cheated on the wives so I don't think it's impossible. But such men are very rare.

    @meeting and marrying a man who doesn't cheat; you know there are worse things than cheating, right? I've dated someone who was very faithful but nearly made my life miserable. I wouldn't wish him on you or anyone as a husband.

  6. wud like to see the movie,and BTW thelma,u better start seeing indian movies too o to balance the,most of them are full of shit!

  7. LOL... Mariam u no well oh! Indian gini? T will finish watching one Indian movie in one week...
    Biko i'll see this movie just cos of the hype T has given to it.
    But yeah, if only we women can stick together, support each other & STOP bringing each other down, we'll all be treated as jewels by any man...


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Good morning people! 
Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
I got into town pretty late and needed to keep an appointment ASAP. I'm heading out right now and it's going to be a long day, but thought I should drop this first. 
Have a splendid day. Im'ma be back soon.


He was my coursemate, crush, then my boyfriend.... he was super
intelligent, smart, tall, dark and handsome. Believe me he got
swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
LOVE THEM and watching the season film of The Secret Life of
American Teenagers. ..when Amy Jeugerns mum told her "you are only
young once". LOL that part got me.
Hope you know what i mean?

Though I'm okay with chemistry class I approached him to coach me for
the Quiz that was coming up, we found out that we had this
great chemistry between us.. hehehe both the covalent and
electrovalent bonds....

So one thing led to another till one unusual Saturday. I invited
him to my house and he came. The guy got swag, he even came
with a packet of durex condom.
We talked for a while and and and and and and
See how you are serious dey read this story....!

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Is it true that EVERYBODY has a secret? 
Is there anyone here who doesn't have a secret? I'd really like to know; You're a completely open book and there's not ONE thing about you that you wouldn't mind other people knowing about? Please raise your hands up. 
And for the rest of us, what's something about you that no one knows, or very few people know? Who's got a dark secret here, or a weird one, or a funny one even? I really don't mean to be invasive but I don't want to be the only one sharing, plus I think hearing other people's secrets is quite fun, don't you think?

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Question of The Day.

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That mail that someone sent me a few weeks back. 
But why on earth should a man sleep with his son's fiancé? But what am I saying, some men even sleep with their daughters...

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It could be good, it could be bad, it could be ugly. Do tell!
And it can be more than one. Let me tell you a few. 
-owning a blog -week long dry fast at Prayer City (I never hesperred it).  -staying in an (emotionally) abusive relationship.
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