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Ziggylucious Writes Letter To Her Late Dad On His 60th Birthday.

Hi Dad.
Today looks perfect! Guess we have good luck afterall! Guess all our plans could work afterall. Mom's still clueless, has no idea, afterall people don't plan surprise parties for themselves! Boy would she be glad you finally got your ass off the couch and decided to take a trip with her! I know... Baby flying steps; you'll probably not make it beyond the UK! That's ok though she'll be thrilled, she finally getting to the the world her beau! And of course I'm tickled pink knowing I get to spend some time with you! And i am definitely on pins and needles to see what I get from you this year! And we'll go out, we'll have  a feast and don't you think you'll pay a dime! I'm not yet rich but I definitely can afford to buy you all dinner. Did i tell you the day is perfect! Its warm and sunny and not a cloud in sight, like even the weather know what today is!

 I think of Mom and of the smile that would have started the perfect today. I think of waking up and running off to make breakfast with a smile. I can't to bring it up where we can yell...Happy Birthday Dad!!

I close my eyes and then I remember, I am alone, thousands of miles from home. I know Mom woke up not at home, she still can't handle today alone. Today is perfect, yes it is, but its also empty cos you are gone

So here to the 60th that would never be, I'll sing, I'll dance, I'll even try to wear a smile to hides the tears that flow always from a broken heart, as today on this perfect day i celebrate, the who lived and would always be my one true love, forever young

Happy Birthday Daddy!!!
Always and forever
Ur not so little girl


  1. This is bone-marrow Epic. Your dad has seen this surely, and smiles from ear to ear. His gentle soul Rest in Perfect Peace. Happy Birthday to dad. Be blessed Ziggy.

  2. My heart is breaking...*Hugs dear Ziggylicious* just hugs. Can't say much really. God loves you.

  3. Awww Ziggylucious this really touched me. I'm sure your dad is smiling down at you right now. Happy birthday to him. Keep smiling beautiful Zigs.

  4. Happy Birthday to your dad,Ziggy.May he continually RIP.Bucket loads of hugs!

  5. My fingers are shaking right now but I have to say this, you had his love and you still have it! Makes you one of the few lucky ones, he left because his work here was done, he raised beautiful humans. He's proud of you and himself wherever he is, May his soul keep resting in perfect peace.

  6. I read this with chills running down my spine. He was really a great man. I know this because I don't know how many fathers that will house their daughters friend for almost 6months when she had no place to go. Can still hear his high pitched voice yelling, babylor, abambi and that his laughter that Ziggy just had to steal. She actually stole everything from him. Ziggy from the depth of my heart I say this, your Dad was just an angel you just had to have one of the best Dads. Happy birthday Sir and may your soul continue yo rest in peace.

  7. Happy Birthday to your dad Ziggy.I read this feeling sad and smiling same time.Sure he is smiling down at you right now.

  8. Pure love,true love,writing this won't be so hard cos its less than how u feel..this is so touching,whao,may God give you and your family to bear this irreplaceable loss! that last picture depict a strong man...all the best ziggy!

  9. Very touching, I am at a loss of words, happy birthday to your daddy, continue celebrating his life. May his soul rest in peace

  10. Happy birthday to Ziggy's dad. continue to rest in peace sir.

  11. He is in a better place, we believe.
    May his soul continue to rest in our Lord's bosom.
    And may you also be comforted by the knowledge that you shall all meet to part no more at the feet of our Lord.


  12. Thank everyone!! U guys are the best! A big Amen to all ur prayers and may peace be with you all also! Sorry about the many typos, my head and fingers weren't super-coordinated at the time. @ UJU; U know its weird i never noticed we had that laugh in common until his own was gone, and if you see Baby u'll get actual goosebumps;looks, walk, speech,d laugh, he's gat it!

    1. whatever happened to your dad?
      OMG seemed a go lucky fella, look at that hearty smile...

  13. happy posthumous birthday to your dad, may his love always radiate in your heart. May he keep resting in peace. *hugs and kisses as we are both fatherless* lost mine at the age of 8#Enjay#

    1. Some of us on this blog actually need to set-up a 'fatherless readers' club'.......lolz

  14. Happy posthumous birthday Ziggy dad

  15. All I can say is "Beautiful Read".
    Thanks to ur Dad for giving Us "U". Ur amazing Ziggy. Here I was thinking ur a guy, *covers face*
    Glad to know ur a girl. #EHugs

  16. Happy post-houmous birthday to your dad Ziggy, may he continue to rest in peace.

  17. May his soul rest in peace. Happy birthday to your dad...

  18. May his soul rest in peace.
    Rest assured, that he is at peace in a better place. Be comforted.


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