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Been In a Zone....

The Lord is my shepherd; I have everything I need.
He lets me rest in fields of green grass and leads me to quiet pools of fresh water. 
He gives me new strength. 
He guides me in the right paths, 
as he has promised. 
Even if I go through the deepest darkness, I will not be afraid, Lord, 
for you are with me. 
Your shepherd's rod and staff protect me. 
You prepare a banquet for me, 
where all my enemies can see me; you welcome me as an honored guest 
and fill my cup to the brim. 
I know that your goodness and love will be with me all my life; 
and your house will be my home as long as I live. 
(Psalm 23:1-6 GNT)

........Just because sometimes I don't know what else to do, I have no one else to turn to. I have nothing to numb the feeling, being in a zone, should be over by now, no? Well it isn't and I have to keep reminding myself; The Lord is my shepherd; I have everything I need.... I'm retreating into my inner corner, where I've been all day. Repeating God's promises he made to me and waiting on him till I feel His warm embrace around me.

Just dropped by to say sorry for my absence, if I could help it I would.  

Please if you sent me MatchMake Moments mails they've been received and (hereby) acknowledged, would reply soon I promise. 


  1. Nice!!! I can't wait for our blog wedding!!!

    T am not so bordered about U being in a zone cos I Know u are freaking Strong enough to make that zone into a Bubble of Joy & Happiness!!!
    Plus God is still on his throne, So.......
    ALL is WELL.

  2. I knew something was missing but too distracted to analyze and figure it out.

    It is a phase and will surely pass..every birth is preceded by a period of pregnancy. Hang in there and be strong.

  3. Thelma somehow you always mirror my sentiments. May God hear our prayers.

  4. Just have faith baby. God still answers prayers. Ehugs!

  5. Ohh....see me cutting warning for you just now. Thank God you know you have an assurance in the Lord. It is well hun. Love you loads.

  6. Thelma one reason I love you is because you dont always try to act like all is well or like your life is perfekt. Its the reason so many people can relate to you. Don't worry, it's all a phase. Plz come back tomorrow refreshed.

  7. Thelma remember that God never fails. Just keep striving. He will fill your cup to brim with goodness. You're already on your way there, you know the road to a lot of places has bends and turns but surely leads to the destination.
    May God be with you in all things, Amen.

  8. It's well with you dear Thelma. It's good to know you have assurance in the most high God . He will meet you @ the very point of your need IJN. Keep hope alive girl.

  9. That makes both of us. But this too shall pass. I trust God knows best and will make everything beautiful in His time. 'He sees your tears, He fights your fears. Hold on, help is on the way.' Hugs.

  10. Lots of bear hugs dear.
    The phase will pass..... God will surely provide all for you.
    It is well.

  11. May God bless and give you peace of heart and mind Thelma.
    All is well with us in Jesus Name. AMEN.

  12. Thelma keep on trusting in God His promises never fail. Trust you will emerge from this stronger, be blessed

  13. just what i needed to read... going thru a phase now..i know this too shall pass. for GOD LOVES MEEE..HE LOVES US.

  14. The most constant thing on life is change and as long as your trust is hinged on God and his Word the things can only change for the better. This is a trying period but never forget that no matter what Job went through he never lost faith and he kept praising God.
    As Wale said before you give birth there is a period of incubation but what comes after is pure joy.
    Stay strong and never been tempted to take the shortcut to happiness because it will be short-lived and you might never find your way back to the path that God has set you on.

  15. Dealing with same, going thru sumthin similar right now. I might sound odd but I think u just need a REAL friend to talk to, or just a REAL person to open up to and share ur worries with. Today as i drove to work, i kept thinking oh how i wish i just had one friend i could talk to about everything and then i remembered ur Dear Future Husband post and now I think i sorta get u. I just want to have someone to share it all with generally.What i have learned though is that you GROW through what you GO through. I know things will get better for us as we would probably look back and just laugh at this. So it is well T. U r doin just fine.

  16. This test or zone is ur storm, but it would not be long, go 2ru, hold on. Keep holding on 2 God's promises dat is all u need.

  17. Keep speaking that word beloved over yourself and situation. Keep saying it even when you sound silly or mad. It will soon become your reality. Hang in there. Will be joining my faith with yours. Ehugs


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