So here's why I'm heartbroken; there's this really cute guy, you know; dark skin, broody eyes, understated class, full lips, grown man swag for days. I've been sort of day dreaming about ...fantasizing if you will. Unfortunately just yesterday I found out he's married. Why does this always happen? *sad face*. And also married into one of the wealthiest families in the nation. I never knew he was the one that comes around in the bullet proof luxury ride with the numerous mopol men. I thought he was just a "clean" looking average joe. Anyways even if he wasn't married it's unlikely we would ever have been more than acquaintances. I guess I just felt like whining this morning.
I also wanted to take out the opportunity to let you in on a few decisions concerning the blog. While I will not authorize/approve comments, I will begin deleting comments. In fact I've already begun. The comments by the Anon who has been on Ruthylicious' case in the last few posts have been deleted. I also deleted some of Ruthylicious' comments. Comments I find unnessecary, irrelevant to a post, offensive or just plain distasteful will be deleted. I love my blog and my readers and I panic when I visit Thelma Thinks and I just do not recognize it. I'm not so hungry for traffic that I need each and every person or comment, I honestly think the blog can do without the madness. This is a sane and mature place and I will not have anyone tamper with that. Most importantly I value my older readers to the moon and back and I will not want to lose them for reasons that are less than good. By older I don't mean age, but those that have been with me for several months, those that have shown me support and have dropped comments when most others didn't. I wouldn't begin listing them, they know their selves and I really really do not want to lose these people.
I'm also very grateful for my new readers and I hope that we become friends too, I hope you guys stick with me and stand by me. I'm looking forward to your input and contributions towards making OUR blog better.
For those who just seek to make inflammatory remarks, I'm sorry but I won't be honouring your comments anymore. I had hoped that I wouldn't have to delete comments and that those people would just stop but instead they chose to take the piss and I cannot have that. I stopped visiting so many blogs because of such comments, so far be it from me to condone it on mine.
After all said and done, I wish we can all just get along. (Impossible i know, but I'm allowed to dream).