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Hello June. (Things I Would Like To Leave Behind In May.)

Dear June, I said Please just to be polite. I declare that you will be good to me. *Wink*

May was a pretty Ok month. Now June, you've got to be better than just OK. There are a number of things I'll like to leave behind in May and these are a few of them:

1- Average finances. If there's one thing I'm certain of its that I've got the power to create wealth in the palms of my hands. So Nwando... let's get to it, shall we? June be good!

2- Advances from the married. Ok now this one I just have to be over and done with. There was a time in my life when I was younger that only married men ever got on my case. My friend Mosunmola said I had to pray about it. Others said it was my frame that attracted older/married men. That period came to an end thankfully but this May that just passed had a lot of that. Some days ago it took some strength of will not to cry. Why are all the men showing me love married? Why can't a single guy (that I actually like) be this expressive? Why is it easier for married men to ask for my number than it is for single guys? Speaking of married men, last night I went to the grocery store and this onuku kept on following me around. When I got to the till he came and stood behind me and the eejit was so rude "what is ya name?" He blurted. I turned back and he was with a kid. I faced forward and a minute later madam came and joined him and then they moved away to the next till. Can you imagine that? First of all I think I feel insulted that I looked like the sort of person who won't mind exchanging contacts even though I know you're not only married, but that your wife and kids are around. Secondly,  how a man can be so disrespectful to his wife beats me. 

3- Unhealthy eating. That's self explanatory. It sucks that I never have appetite during the day then at night I crave either excessively sugary pastry or very greasy food. 

A few others but they're a bit too personal and may cause a bit of trouble so.... What will you like to leave behind in May?


  1. My Last Relationship ended in May, So i'll Love to Leave it behind...
    My 1month old Joblessness WILL also end in may, that am positive about esp with My prospective interviews this Month!

    Today I woke up with a SMILE, after praying, I apparently just realized how much Jehovah Loves Me for giving me the Strength & Guts to walk away from my Ex!!! 5yrs worth of bruhaha.

    I Love U Jah!!!! *Screaming*

    1. Ruthy u said you would share sumtn dat happened to you with us. Mayb you did but I neva saw it. Was it abt ur breakup? I kno u used to mention your le boo or fiance. U still wanna share? I like you Ruthy, u seem very friendly. I hope May brings u joy and happiness.

  2. May was just ok for me too
    I was broke all through that month
    I was lonely,no frnds no loved ones around to talk to or lean on.just myself and I
    I wasn't at work on thursday because I was sick,the next thing I saw on my table was a query....and d list goes on,but certainly last month wasn't a good 1 for me bt am thankful for. D gift of this life and very optimistic that june will be better and everything will turn around for my good

  3. Amen to all ur prayers, @nwando and amen to the prayers u can't say publicly....

  4. Mariam yes oh! We Thank God for LIFE.

    @1st Anon, U really do like me to keep a tab on me. Thanks dearie (I like U back, hehe) & YES it was about Le boo (My boyfriend of 5yrs & Fiance' if 2months), I called off our engagement. I've been Sharing the story in bits through my comments.
    I can't afford to dedicate one whole blog to him, he isn't worth it.


    1. I know how dat feels. I also had to call off an engaement after I suddenly WOKE UP! I guess a very big wool dissappeared from my eyes. I suddenly realised that life with that man after a big flashy wedding was going to be hell. Thank God I dodged d bullet cos my dear I almost married dat man. It hurt but I'm ok now, ill happily wait for my prince to come.

  5. Well my may went blissful...I actually fell in love with someone I never tot could never they say love comes when u least expect it...Goodbye singlehood...hehehehehe

    1. Fifi and I'm reading this on my blog?! Fidelia if I get you....

    2. Oh wait.... Fifi you told me about two guys you never imagined you would date. Both are not your type at all. Is it the one I know or the one that I don't know? Fifi I'm shaking here, I need to know. In fact I'm calling your phone now. LOL.

    3. My baybay its indeed a long dear it just happened sef,unplanned 1...lmao..well u no the guy sef soooooo u won't be that surprised..hehehehe..after two years my dear he tried...loool..

    4. Oh seeeeeeeeen? Hmmm. Well I guess it was finally bound to happen. He better be good to my baby sis. But I know he's a really nice guy so I'm relaxed. Good luck sweetie, I pray this one ends in praise. And guess what, I'm glad it's him and not that our friend. God forgive me. LOL.

    5. Abeg if u guys don't want to share with us den carry it away jor. Why the temptation?

    6. Lol. No vex. Oya Fidelia send your own TTRWT story and share with everyone.

    7. @anon I'm so sorry..lool..imma send it in soonest...n @thelma Nne that wouldn't av worked na...lmao...

  6. May was a good and terrible month but I really thank God He saw me through that month. Hear me oh june! Thou shalt be Splendid,Wonderful,Filled with Laughter, Love, Progress, Financial Uplifting, Growth, Good News, yes,Great News!. Amen. Fina

  7. June...I don't think I've ever loved June, partly because of the incessant rains and resulting traffic jams in this wonderful Lagos. #AddedStress :(

    1. Rain is the reason I love June.

  8. June please be good to me, i need the spirit of discernment concerning some major life decisions n the grace to take risks n make crious changes ooo!! @ruthylicious i envy ur courage sha ooo... N to Thelma n avid followers of the blog (urs truly included) JUNE will be great and filled with testimonies of love, laughter and happiness for us all...xx #babylawyer

  9. may..still unemployed.. my bestie has been a darling to me..still working on stuffs.. graduation is in june which i'm excited about.. having a job will make me smile right now

  10. May. I would like to leave my boyfriend in May but I can't. He's married but I love him. I don't know what to do. I'm not a home breaker but

  11. Things I would like to leave behind in May....Unfriendly friends (helping a friend out of a fix and then taking the fall unexpectedly, while the friend stays running her mouth....#ThereIsGodSha)

    Looking forward to June....My Birth Month and My (our) month of yanfu yanfu!!!

  12. I pray that this burden I carry in my heart be taken away from me permanently in this new month. I am tired and weary!

    1. Ok, Wale I only just saw your comment because of Ruth's. And it made me sad. Actually I was already sad and it made me sadder. It will be very optimistic of me to expect you to share but if you do then that would be amazing. However if you don't Wale it's ok. You're in my prayers, I don't know what the problem is but I join with you and yours in agreement and ask that God on who's feet I believe you've laid your burden, takes it from you and restores you with fresh hope and vigor.
      Wale you cannot afford to be tired, you do not have that luxury. Eventually you will testify but first you've got to fight. May God strengthen you my good friend.

    2. Thelma, thanks for your prayers; please don't be sad, maybe today is just one of those days for me. What I put up is a prayer that I believe in and written with faith.
      God hasn't allowed the devil celebrate over me and I know He will not, just that a long battle does weaken both the body and soul.

  13. Wale what's going on? Pls share with ur blog family.

    1. Hello Ruthy, maybe someday but have to win this one too first. Let me go talk to God some more.

  14. Oh my Lord, these three things also apply to me as well. And if I had to do this kind of post, no 2 would be the longest as well. Cos I also had that time in the past and someone said to pray but now its all come back. The entire post feels like I wrote it.

    Also I need to leave my almost prayerless life in this June.

    Happy June darling

  15. Dear Lord, i really need a great memory to make June worth its time on the calender again! Currently my least favorite month and i need something to make it worth living each year.


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He was my coursemate, crush, then my boyfriend.... he was super
intelligent, smart, tall, dark and handsome. Believe me he got
swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
LOVE THEM and watching the season film of The Secret Life of
American Teenagers. ..when Amy Jeugerns mum told her "you are only
young once". LOL that part got me.
Hope you know what i mean?

Though I'm okay with chemistry class I approached him to coach me for
the Quiz that was coming up, we found out that we had this
great chemistry between us.. hehehe both the covalent and
electrovalent bonds....

So one thing led to another till one unusual Saturday. I invited
him to my house and he came. The guy got swag, he even came
with a packet of durex condom.
We talked for a while and and and and and and
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