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Just Came To Say...

Hey guys! Long day at work. I have sooooooooooo much I need to say but I'm so tired so I'll keep it brief :

If we have a blog party it will be either in Victoria Island or Ikeja. So I guess there'll be a vote much later; Victoria Island or Ikeja. 

The commenter that the blog reader (whom I had a girl-date with) and I gossiped about was Memphis. She, like most other blog readers (male and female) who have spoken to me personally, asked about him; who he is, what he does, where he stays, is he my friend etc. Many people happen to be curious about darling Memphis. 

I don't understand why Ruthylicious received a lot of vitriol. Has she offended anyone personally on this blog? I'm very confused. Making reference to her failed relationship was just plain cruel but I've learnt that hurt people hurt people, so Ruthy I don't think you should let that get to you because if you do you're only giving someone who YOU DO NOT KNOW and WHO DOES NOT KNOW YOU OR YOUR STORY power over you... Waste of time and emotions. 

I'm tired and stressed and in need of sleep so please, I'll be back tomorrow.... There's still a lot I need to say but I'm honestly too frazzled to think.

Ziggylucious you can't possibly have jumped ship. I miss you babe. 
Ejoec I'm not paying 50k but I'm waiting for your madt TTRWT stories. You promised. 
Steele thanks for reappearing once again. 

BTW please who can represent me at the office tomorrow? When I make my multi-millions I'll remember you in my 'paradise'. lol. Seriously. Good night lurvs


  1. Dearest memphis,do I stand a chance,dis one everybody is liking you like dis .......#sosad

  2. I knew it was Memphis all along. But he is married anyway so sorry anon u don't stand a chance. If u read his posts, ul know he's a "taken" man. But what's so special about him tho cuz he actually does have this "know it all" annoying attitude. So unsexy IMO

  3. nice. And I actually thought it would've been Ruthy. Lol.

    Anon 9:59pm, you stand a chance o. Even 1% chance is still a good chance. Don't lose hope. :D

    Anon 10:18pm, "know it all" attitude?Sorry. Didn't know I had that. But errm...I'm curious to know how you knew I was married. And if you just analyzed my status and came up with "Memphis is married", I don't think it would be a problem for anyone to know who finally displays that "know it all" trait.

    1. So Mr Memphis, ure feeling smart n funky now with urself eh? Clap for urself. Uv just analysed and solved a problem. Mschewww. Mr KnowItAll indeed that anon is right.

    2. Anon 3.06 why are u beefing Memphis, it's obvious the guy is very intelligent. His comments are always on point (even his criticism are usually very constructive). He has a right to voice his support or objection on any topic just like u and I. By the way, my bro said when a chick starts saying a lot of things about a particular guy, it means she wants his attention. Calm down anon and do ur own thing.

    3. Lol who is this dumb ejoec? Voltron defender of the universe. Who asked u?

    4. I guess u're expecting me to insult u now, but guess what I'll never do that, too classy for that. Anyway, do have a beautiful day sweetheart. Oh an by the way, remain blessed.

  4. *sips drink quietly*..I smell another "fight"

    1. Lol. No time for unnecessary fight.

    2. I hardly comment bt I jst have to do dis...@anon u sound so pained...Linda has put up a pic of onyx and u stl think its memphis??really??I dnt evn knw wt 2 say to u...plz go back to linda's blog and continue ur cyberbullying there...asswipe...jst b hating 4 nothinh

  5. Lols. A good nite rest and you'l feel all new tomorrow @Thelms.

  6. But Memphis are you married #Justasking.

    1. Wow I won't even bother pulling up the comment on the post where memphis talked about family,his wife n kid(s) cuz it looks like he lies for a living. Okay moving on.

    2. Please bother o, I'm curious.


  7. @ Ruth, I feel guilty I picked on u, plus forgive me. U did pass me off but that's my personal issue and not sth that gave me whatever right to be unkind to u- I'm so sorry.
    Wanted to get that off my chest- ehugs
    N/b- hurt people hurt people- u can say I kinda am.


  8. @ Ruth, I feel guilty I picked on u, plus forgive me. U did pass me off but that's my personal issue and not sth that gave me whatever right to be unkind to u- I'm so sorry.
    Wanted to get that off my chest- ehugs
    N/b- hurt people hurt people- u can say I kinda am.

  9. yea..i get that ruth can be too strong sometimes. t this t that..theres just something too extra about her but thats just her. it used to annoy me a little bit but hey why should it ? that's her and i've learnt to adjust to her extra "spiceness"on this blog. so yea and she is funny too.
    So why is memphis the topic of discuss ? what make oga memphis so special and why are u girls curious? lol
    goodnight peopless

  10. when are we going to learn? we don't have to hurt someone cos they are different, that's their own beauty. everyone CANNOT conform to your ideas. cant remember who said " in the compound of every great man there is someone to dance to every tune". Get a life biko,

  11. "Hurt people hurt people".....not always.Mean Anon,life is too short to be bitter.I like Ruth,her comments make me smile.Nwamaka

  12. Memphis I think you should now put up your photo.
    I don't get why people pick on Ruthy, if her comments don't please you then skip them. Ruthy do what makes you happy

  13. Thelma dearie, i'll try and send the story. Do have a lovely day.

  14. @ thelma, how are you?Ill be gone for a bit and I fear I might miss out on the "short stories" winner.
    Pls drop your email address in order for me to redeem my pledge.Thanks

    1. HSF how am just seeing this? I hope you haven't left yet...
      Please don't be gone too long.

  15. Yayyy! Am back. What did I Miss? Ruthy, Ruthy everywhere... Chei, it is well.
    Where do I start?

    Memphis Hon, I knew U were the topic of T & blog visitors discussion cos if it was me, i'll certainly gossip about U or Steele with T. Btw, I read Eccl 7:21 "DO NOT take to heart every word that people say". So U'all should forget the bullying on here.

    At Meme, that's quite a realistic view of me. Thanks dear.

    Nwamaka, Loads of kisses to make u smile more!

    Sharon & ALL the Anons that got my back I Love U all to the moon & back, u'all are the reason why this blog always feel like HOME.

    To My Dearest Beloved Anon : Apology Accepted.

  16. Real na wa already gone up here. Yes, I would have discussed Memphis or Steele too. Both guys drop constructive comments and often thought provoking too. They make you see situations from a different perspective and Sasha too. I like Ruth, she seems like a happy person and it would be a sin to try to make her otherwise. Thelma, I suggest you let comments await moderation henceforth. ''hurt people'' are the anons. here, get over the hurts in your life(s) first then come back to this blog.

  17. Haba! Y is it anytime i disappear for a bit and come back there is always a new group of louses creating a headache?! And T luv u know i won't go anywhere and leave ur 'wanderings' na, just had a lot of work to tidy up b4 the summer break starts.
    On all this cyber bullies that seem to hve sprouted like really bad mushrooms on dis blog; like i hve said b4, pls stay away if all u hve to offer are crappy comments dat leave people cringing in disgust! That is not the kinda 'traffic' needed on this blog biko (and for the likes of d anon dat felt lik spewing bile the last time i said wine is chilled and waiting for y'all).
    On Ruthy, T said it all! Nvr let the opinions of people who don't matter affect you, dats my 2 cents. And U r 1 of my favorite females on this blog.
    On Memphis and the MemphisHaterSquad (didn't even know he had such ndi obi akpo till now) i say, Memphis darling, a lion is never concerned with the opinion of sheep! And 2 ndi obi akpo cos Memphis' got an impressive head on his shoulders i say...go choke on 6 day old agege bread!


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