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Several Guys Let Us In On Their Biggest Turn Offs In Bed.

James, 30
Ask “is it in yet?”

Craig, 29
If he comes too soon, you need to be patient. Don’t laugh or get frustrated.

Pete, 25
I was having a one-time hookup with a girl and as we were about to have sex she said “make love to me.” I was so taken aback and turned off that I didn’t enjoy the sex at all.

Larry, 41
If she’s not clean down there.

Nick, 30
Don’t feel insecure about your body.

Kurt, 26
I only have two turnoffs: a girl that likes it too rough (when I didn’t want to slap a girl in the face she accused me of being gay) and when a girl wants to kiss me after oral–that freaks me out!

Daniel, 27
The one thing a woman should never do in bed is get in bed too soon. Once a guy gets sex out of you you’re no longer fun and they move on.

Craig, 27
Loose pussy

Swanson, 31
Stick anything in my ass without asking!

Matt, 29

Cameron, 30
Ask how my dad is doing

Cory, 22
Kissing after oral sex.

Shawn, 25
“pillow princesses.” If I go down on you, you should go down on me.

Brandon, 22
My biggest pet peeve is when she strokes my cock too hard and fast. Take it easy!

Jon, 32
A woman that ridicules the size of her lover’s dick, or sensitive body part: not someone to return to.

Ross, 30

Mike, 23
Fart or talk too much

Aaron, 29
Call me another man’s name. Also she can laugh with me but she can’t laugh at me.

Mark, 27
The worst thing a girl has ever done was call me someone else’s name.

Bryan, 28
Ask “did you cum yet?” or “is it in?”

James, 26
Demanding not to use a condom–it screams that you want to have a baby.

Josh, 28
Acting like a corpse and being still and silent.

Steve, 24

John, 26
Laugh while having sex

Mike, 27
Have bad hygiene. It needs to be perfect, as does the man's.

Andy, 28
Be too aggressive.

Ryan, 27
Never stick a finger in a guys ass unless you know for sure he will like it!

Richard, 35
Don't Talk. Just moan.

Rick, 30
Pass gas while receiving oral…

Bruce, 28

Jason, 27
Compare me to an ex.

Ryan, 26
I would say commenting on the size or lack thereof of his package. But otherwise I’d like to think I’m pretty open minded and can’t really think of anything that would be a deal breaker.

Dustin, 30
In my experience I would say you should never just lay there and let the guy do all the work. I don’t know about other guys but I can’t get into it unless the girl is also.

George, 34
She has to be clean, not use her teeth during oral, not be too controlling, and not just lay there.

Mike, 27
Have sex too soon.

Ben, 29
Be hairy down below.

Devin, 28
I was with this girl that just laid there, not making a sound and completely expressionless. Didn’t like kissing, had absolutely zero passion. Made it feel like I was forcing her to do it, that she didn’t even like it, and as a result I couldn’t keep it up. She blamed me for that, said that I apparently had erectile dysfunction. 

Garrett, 28
Point between my legs and giggle!

Steve, 29

Danny, 24
Ask to bring another guy into bed.

Mark, 28
Pee the bed because she’s drunk.

Thomas, 29
Farting during sex.

Bill, 31
Be a prude.

Joe, 27
Every guy has different likes and dislikes, for me I don’t want a girl who seems embarrassed about sex. I want an adult woman who owns her choices.

Bryan, 24
Don’t lay there and make him do all the work!

Jackson, 31
The biggest turnoff is a woman who emasculates you. That’s my dealbreaker. I don’t think there’s anything worse than that.

Luis, 22
Lay there and not do anything.

Andy, 29
Fart during oral or get a case of the giggles while looking at a guy’s dick.

David, 32
The one thing you should never do in bed is nothing! Try whatever you want! Everyone has something that turns them off and other things that turn them off, you won’t know until you try it!

Alex, 29
If she pooped… total dealbreaker.

Aaron, 27
We are a lot more fragile than most women think… if you ever break a man’s confidence in his “performance” good chance you’ll lose him forever. That’s cruel.

Kevin, 29
Scream another man’s name.

TJ, 32
Ask “is it in yet?” when it is.

Tucker, 27
Smell bad down there.

Chad, 31
Say “I love you” for the first time.

Jon, 32
Go to sleep while your partner has a hard on, on a regular basis.

Matthew, 28
Never fart in bed before or after sex. Seriously.

Jim, 33
Have poor hygiene

Rob, 28
Farting is the only thing I can think of.

Denny, 27
Never say the name of your ex. Total sex drive crusher.

Dan, 30
Complain about your life, give it up too easily, be too much of a prude.

Jeremiah, 29
Never, ever, use shit in a sex act.

Jeff, 24
Talk. Men don’t like talking.

Josh, 28
Never laugh at his penis. And don’t bite it.

Matt, 35
Fart or ask if their wife is as good as you are.

Mike, 27
Fart or say I love you. Or throw up.

Darnell, 28
Don’t ever lick my ass.

Chris, 27
Fart. ha ha

Jay, 31
Men will forgive just about anything except being made to feel inadequate. Always make him feel like he is doing a good job. (Errr, but what if he isn't?) 

Drew, 28
Fart, just lay there, or smell bad.

Dan, 27
Don’t touch my ass.

PJ, 28
Be hairy and untrimmed. It’s gross.

Lane, 34
There is nothing worse than a woman who is not fresh down there.

Michael, 27
Keep your teeth off my cock and your fingers out of my ass.

Brad, 27
Be disinterested or lazy! I will never go back for seconds. Those girls are the worst.

Ben, 33
Every man is different but I don’t like a girl to be hairy.

Wayne, 36
Just lay there, squeeze my balls or use sextoys without warning.

Jake, 23
Don’t put anything in my butt!

Bill, 24
Text or answer a call during sex.

Jared, 30
I can’t be with a woman who is bad at kissing.

Scott, 31
Get in bed too soon.

Eric, 28
Ask "is it in yet?” Alluding to the fact that the man you’re with isn’t big enough, that’s tough to come back from.

Aaron, 28
Have a bad odor down there.

Brian, 27
One girl pooped during sex. During doggy style. I’m still recovering.

Tom, 24
The only thing is making fun of his size. And don’t compare him while you’re going at it.

Michael, 25
Say she hopes she gets pregnant!

Adam, 28
It's different with every guy.


Yes o! like Adam says it's different with every guy but I was able to pick out a few that applied to several guys and they are

- Good hygiene. You must maintain good hygiene and smell good down there. 

- Be involved. Don't just lie there like a log of wood and let him do all the work, take part, be active!

- Farting. Ok. Apparently a lot of you ladies fart when you're gettin' busy. Eeeeeew! Stop that. 

- Don't touch his anus. Well....... Apparently ladies seem to think this is a turn on for men but as you can see (although Adam said its different with every guy) most men don't want you sticking things in their butt holes. 

- Don't: laugh at his penis, call him another guy's name, compare him to another guy, ridicule his performance. 

LOL. BTW this is #Throwback. Meaning I've posted this before. Some months ago I guess, I made a few changes to this though, added and removed a few and included my little note below. I may be doing a few #Throwbacks on a few posts from months back, I know a lot of you weren't reading then. The only person I remembered who commented on this post when it was first posted was Sasha Bone, with a few anonymouses. We need some guys in here to tell us their own major turn offs. 


  1. Do they mean farting or queefing ?
    If the Pussy is too dry, it releases air during or after intercourse and it has a noise too.

  2. Ifesinachi Okonkwo10:47 pm, June 24, 2014

    I had to bloody keep myself from laughing. Oh No! Why would I want to stick my finger in anyone's ass. So gross! Tufia!
    And please girls sometimes can't help but fart especially during doggy.
    My biggest turn off - A man that drools while having sex. That's so disgusting. And a man that insists on watching porn while having sex! Go and wank if you want to wank.

    1. TDrools? Lolz...have never imagined how that cld

      Thelma,now it seems u might wanna do a reversal post - " her biggest turn offs in bed" cos most men think they Chrisian Grey (50 shades

  3. So I stumbled upon your blog last week and I have just finished going through all posts, from the first till this one.

    I must say, your blogging style is unique and refreshing. Keep it up. You have a new fan.

    As a guy, my main one turn off has to be hygiene. Funky smells and/or unkept lady parts kill the mood fast.

  4. Horrible smell and screaming during sex.

    1. Nothing wrong with screamming during sex jor. That makes it very hot.

  5. Its surprising that most women don't know proper vaginal hygiene. Big shame.

  6. LOL... I remember this post T...

    Gracious Heavens! I laughed hard. Women please, let's CLEAN UP!!! Ur Vagina should even be the most cared for part of ur body!

    Back in The University that girls wear just panties & bra in their hostel, I visited once (P started on campus) to Change my sanitary towel, Dearest Heavens... U need to perceive the smell in between legs. I didn't know where to keep my nose!!! *I feel nauseous just remembering*

    A course mate visited My apartment to borrow notes & wanted to pee, immediately she took off her Jeans I ran to my neighbours house! The STENCH.

    Even in the hospital when I worked there, Nurses Intentionally slap women with smelly vaginas when they are in the labour room, but some are so clean u can literally sleep on it...

    Ladies, CLEAN UP PLEASE!!! Treat all infections. It can't be overemphasized.

    1. Babe calm down with the details...ladies shldnt attack fellow ladies..its unlady-like!

    2. Errrm Sasha PLS am lost.
      Who's attacking who? Did I mention names? These are things people get too shy or ashamed to discuss.
      Am simply admonishing us girls to be CLEAN detailing how irritating it is.

      So Sorry if U feel offended.

  7. Men don't like talking? Common! I know men who love the 'dirty talks' during the act.....

    Plus: the population sample has more boys than men.....They should interview 'real experienced men'...

  8. Pease, cum now! Ayam tayad!

  9. I was sha wondering that the info seems familiar

  10. I was sha wondering that the info seems familiar

  11. I remember this post too. I don't think I left a comment I just sent the link to my boo and told him to get back to me. LOL

  12. my husband once told dat while he was still skeptical about marrying me, he made up his mind d first day we had sex months into d relationship cos down there smelt so good. Anyoda sex "sin" can be forgiven by men except a smelly pussy.
    So ruth darling, i completely agree with u, lets clean up!


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