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Thelma Asks... (What Would You Do...)

Quick question guys:

Some downsizing was done at your former workplace and unfortunately you were one of those that was let go. You've been out of work for over a year, your job searches and other efforts have so far proven futile. Recently your significant other suggested you take your relationship to the next level and both your families think you should. The only problem is how do you contribute towards building a new home after the wedding, especially with a baby on the way. 

Dayo has been your good friend from the university and you both still meet up occasionally. Dayo works for a good firm and earns very well. You've always thought Dayo was lucky to snag such a job. One day you go to drop your CV at an office close to Dayo's and decide to drop in and pay D a visit. You're welcome and you both begin to discuss general issues; current affairs, politics, the economy, celebrity news, football and the current World Cup. You and Dayo have different opinions and you both argue out your points. Dayo's boss comes out of his office. 

"What is all the noise about? This is a place of work and not a beer parlour.... But I couldn't help but overhear your discussion. Dayo, your friend has some very interesting views. Here, this is my card, call me and we could have a drink, I'm also an Arsenal fan". 

You and Dayo laugh about it and after a few more words, now in hushed tones, you bid Dayo farewell. 

Later that weekend Arsenal has a match and just when you were wondering where you could watch your team play you remember Dayo's boss and the complimentary card. Immediately you place the call to him. 

"I'm not in town at the moment, I would be back on Sunday evening. By the way, I hear you're looking for a job. I asked Dayo some questions about you and I was impressed with what I heard" 

"Oh, yes sir. I'm searching for a job"

"Would you like to come work for me? I could use someone with your versatility, skills and expertise on my team"

"Yes sir! Yes sir! I would love to work for you sir. I'm ready to start whenever you want sir"

"Good. So Tuesday morning resume work at Dayo's desk. I'll hand him his sack letter on Monday". 

What do you say next?


What would you do in this situation and why?


  1. Was enjoying happy and enjoying the gist until I got to the part; resume at Dayo's desk, my jaw dropped! oops! I don't think I will take the job, cant betray a friend except Dayo gives his blessings of which I will suggest a portion of my pay to him pending when he gets another.

  2. *Was happy and enjoying*

  3. It all depends on WHO Dayo is to me.
    If he's an acquaintance, I'll accept the job after informing him though.
    But if he's who I call a FRIEND, i'll reject the offer... my friends mean too much to me.
    What's the possibility that this kindda Boss won't replace me with MY friend in the future? Mba.

    1. Did u see /read this part 'Dayo has been your good friend from the university, and u both occasionally hook up'? Don't bother thanking me. That's what friends are for...

  4. Never is too short to take food from someone else's table. And u have to realise that man will do the same to that girl one day....the cane used to beat the first wife is always stored nicely for the second..... No thank u

  5. He can very well fuck his job.

  6. No way!I won't do it, what kind of person am I portraying myself as?Mbanu.

  7. Mehn. I can't oooo. #Tas#

  8. ahn ahn but this is easy.... Dayo is CLEARLY my friend, I would never ever do such. Never. When its not as if I am living under a bridge. Mehn there are far worse problems than being unemployed o! so yeh.

  9. Tufiakwa. Mbanu, I will never do such to a friend. The broom that he used to sweep Dayo out of the office is same broom that he will use for me.

  10. No, I'll pass

  11. honestly i think i'll reject the offer

  12. no thanks,no matter how long i've waited.God doesn't favour us in such manner or by allowing us to step on someones head just in the bid to succeed.

  13. I will discuss it with Dayo first. I wud love to hear his views on his boss cos clearly his boss is mad.

  14. It's a No for me.

  15. Thanks, but no thanks....

  16. No. Thankyou. Hangs up n tears d card in2 pieces n down d toilet. E nvr bad reach this level


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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
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swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
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great chemistry between us.. hehehe both the covalent and
electrovalent bonds....

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