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Thelma Thinks Match-Make Moments. (For Interested Blog Readers)

Good morning guys! I hope you had a splendid weekend. 
So this is something I've been thinking about for sometime but due to a few reasons I've had my reservations. I wasn't entirely sure how to go about it before but it's been on my mind and there's been some demand for it so I thought I would give it a shot.

There are a lot of single people on the blog. Now my first reservation was that my female readers far outnumber my male readers. Another problem is that most of my male readers are married. I'm referring to the ones who comment. The only male readers who aren't married that I'm aware of are Steele and Memphis. And I think Steele is in a very serious relationship. As for Wale, Eazee E and a few more anonymous male commenters that I happen to know, they're all married. So with that knowledge I knew this might be more difficult than I'd hoped. Yet, I'm aware I've got some silent male readers who I know to be single. 

So I'm going to start anyways and see what comes out of it. 

A few of my single female readers have asked me about the lads on the blog, basically, people would really like to meet new people so here's what we're going to do. 

If you are male or female and you're interested in meeting someone you can possibly have a relationship with, or you just want a friend of the opposite sex (please no sugar mummies, sugar babies and sugar daddies allowed) send the following details to my mailbox ( Please title your email MATCHMAKE MOMENTS. 

State of Origin
State of Residence/LGA

What You're Looking For in a partner:
Age Group
Preferred States of Residence
Preferred States of Origin
Preferred Occupations (If Any)
Personal Preferences (by this I mean height, required qualities in a potential mate, religion etc)


There will be no time frame for this. If you send me your details you will hear from me if/when someone of the opposite sex matches your demands and you, theirs. If I do match make you with someone please, it is your own responsibility to do your due diligence. Before you meet with anyone make sure you've satisfied yourself that they are who and what they say they are. I divest myself of any blame, responsibility or liability if things do not go according to your plans. Each person must be at least 21 years of age so there are no children involved. 

I guess I'll build up on this as I go along but for now, that's my email address, Interested ladies and gentlemen please mail me with the above details, and any additional info you want me to have. 

If you live outside Nigeria and you're interested please feel free to mail me as well. You never can tell what could happen. 


  1. Wow speechless that's how this post make me feel.relationship palaver.o set GI o.can't wait to read sure our singles babes here Aint desperate.they wanna take their tiMe.sorry for typing on ur personally need friends both male and female.

  2. Good idea though,one can't tell what d future holds for them.echi di ime

  3. All the best..its a very good idea

  4. Thelma are you a part of this program or it's just for readers because it's you I'm interested in. Reply please. Spencer desperation does not have anything to do with it. Most couples were match made. This is a very good idea.

    1. hahaha..thelma should be part of this matching program. interestinggg

  5. this will definitely be interesting.hmmm

  6. This is a great idea!
    I love watching a show- millionaire matchmaker- and, I have to say, I'm all for singles being match-made, there is absolutely nothing desperate about it- it's a nice way to meet people that if you can't date, you cannot at least stay friends with.
    Bravo Thelma, hope the singles boldly take this opportunity - for the fun of it, if for nothing.
    Lightening could strike.

  7. Thelma, I must applaud you for this GREAT idea.There's absolutely NOTHING desperate about matchmaking,personally I know of 2couples that were matchmade and today they are happily married.

    Isn't it better to let your NEED be known and do something about it than be lonely and be shedding tears in private, its totally not necessary.

  8. So let me get this straight.. just the female readers are suggesting you start matchmaking ? hmmmm
    well I do live in North America and I don't mind having friends. I mean who knows right ? . I'l send you an email miss :D

    1. Yes, they didn't exactly ask to be match made, they usually just ask "how far with the single guys on your blog?", and most recently it was "Is Wale married?" So.... Yes please mail me. I guess I'll push this out to twitter and FB to widen the 'search'. If you're active on social network I guess you can help put the link out too.

  9. Thelma i'm 20 so I can't participate ? :(

  10. I already wrote an epistle and my system went off! arrrggghhh. damn my UPS!
    Long story short, good you put a disclaimer to this new development. I almost got into hot mess for match making an old school senior and a friend I met on bbm during my service year. Dude was abroad and he came home for less than two weeks after they started dating. Girl let's him taste all her cookie. After giving me gist of how she was pampered and all but couldn't stay in a long distance relationship, she cut every form of contact between them off.
    FF to less than two months after, she pinged me to tell me she might be pregnant and since I was the only one she knew with the guy, she needs me to come with her to where to abort the foetus. My head was spinning badly. I contacted my friend who had earlier reported her sudden change in attitude up until when she cut him off to me. He said I should please make sure she does a proper test (blood) to confirm her suspicions and get back to him since she said she only did urine test. Later she came back to say, she has done the test and she wasn't pregnant, I said my thank God, deleted her off my list and I talked too much sense into my friend's head too.

    1. Hahaha. See wahala o! You should escort her to where? She must be a joker. You were the one who asked her to sleep with him...without a condom...not to take contraceptives afterwards... Clowns abound.

  11. Set that P Thel...

  12. this lady called thelma should win d blogger of d year award because she is simply awesome. Always coming up with mature and great ideas. This would be very nice, and am sure someone on tis blog is about to get married to someone else. Happy marital bliss in advance....heheheheheh....

    1. Thanks Zinny and a big AMEN to marital bliss in advance!

    2. Thelma am in ooo, hope you will match-make me oo. I'm divorced but in my early 30s no child. Any hope for me? sobsssss

  13. Thelma, very good initiative u v got there. U sure deserve an award. Blogger of the year like sone1 earlier said.1luv.

  14. Thelma am in ooo, hope you will match-make me oo. I'm divorced but in my early 30s no child. Any hope for me? sobsssss

    1. There's hope for everyone. Just keep the faith. *Big Hug*

  15. Nice...nice.... so we married dude will be on standby to give 'expo' when the going is good and be arbitrators and referees when time reach for 'I no gree'?


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