Someone left this comment below under Anonymous in the previous post. For some reason it didn't appear in the comment section but in my inbox (some comments do that). I read through it and decided to post it because it was an eye opener of some sort, like things you never imagine your kids doing, or the things your young ones could be exposed to. Also if you think there's any advice you have for the commenter, or if you've been in a similar situation, you could share. The commenter doesn't sound traumatized or abused but obviously she wanted to get this off her chest for a reason.
The comment below:
Derz something I need to get off my chest..its a long story.Some weeks ago, my immediate elder brother walked in on me watching porn and he said ‘don’t you know you’re a girl? You shouldn’t be doing that.’ The first words that came out of my mouth were ’fuck you’. I said that because he is one of the reasons why I got addicted to watching porn. Let me go back to when I was little. I am the last born of 4 children; I have two elder brothers and an elder sister. Here I would call my eldest brother ‘brother 1’ and my immediate elder brother ‘brother 2.’While growing up, my parents were hardly around because of work... A member of my church would always come to our house to stay and he came because of me...I was about 5 years and when he comes he would touch me and I found myself going back to him for more because I enjoyed it. I really can’t remember if he put his finger inside me but I remember that few times it hurt but I didn’t stop him. Sometimes he would enter the room and I would dry hump him till I ‘came’ and then he would leave. I started masturbating at that age. My mum was also into ice cream business then and some boys would come with bicycles to collect them to sell. I really loved ice cream...when they come back one of them will give me some to lick and in exchange for that he would touch my breast and rub himself all over me...I never refused. This went on for a while till mum stopped the business. There was also the issue of brother 1; whenever he was back from boarding school he would ask me to give him a hand job and I always did it...eventually it graduated to him fucking my laps and I remember one day he tried to penetrate me if not for the fact that someone knocked on the door am pretty sure he would have because I was begging him that it was painful but he was still trying to push it in. When he is watching porn I would watch with him and brother 2 would come and watch too and I got addicted to it. I started watching when no one was around and started reading erotic novels that I found in the house. Sometimes brother 2 and his friends will be in the room playing and then when brother 2 leaves I would go to the room and dry hump his friend and then leave. All these happened between the ages of 5 and 7.One day a family friend came to pick brother 2 and me from school and there was traffic, we waited in the car while the man went to check the cause of everything and while we were there my brother asked me to suck his dick...and I did. After that he never asked me to do it again but some time later he askd me to touch my private part and lick it...I never hesitated when he told me to do it. Some years later, when I was 9 or so he begged me to put his dick in my asshole and I refused...but after begging and begging I finally allowed him and when he did it I shouted and he pulled out. Some months later, was almost raped by the electrician that came to fix some things in our house because I was alone in the house. Struggled and escaped once I saw the look in his face and I knew that he didn’t want to just touch me but he wanted more.Now let’s fast-forward to the present day, am a graduate, through with nysc and I’ve never been in a relationship. Really scared of being in one...all do is watch porn and masturbate. I’m not saying that’s good but I feel that’s what’s stopping me from being a whore. I just have this feeling that if I start having sex then I won’t be able to stop so I stick to my self-service till I find ‘the one’...lol. Most of the time I don’t believe that there is ‘the one.’ I’ve never been able to talk to anyone about this...I mean who would understand? Even my best friends don’t know any part of this story...some things are better kept to yourself plus I dont want anyone to judge me in anyway. Pretty sure my brothers have forgotten what they did...we are pretty close now but they haven’t tried anything like that since then. I guess this is the end of the write up...sorry for the long story...just had to get everything off my chest...feel so much better already.
I couldn't help wondering why the kids became so sexually active and sexually aware at such a tender age.
Also where do kids that age get pornographic movies and novels (erotica)?
Can a child of 5 reach orgasm (come)?
I know at that age it's possible to have some sexual urges or feelings. I had my first sexual fantasy at age 5. Till date I wonder where and how that came about, I still remember it very vividly.
Most importantly, how can parents protect their kids from all of this. (Not necessarily abuse but sex and sexuality at that young age. I think one way would be by talking about it...)