"This is just an innocent question please but I kinda need answers, isn't anal sex unhealthy and painful? It seems so many people are warming up to the idea, I'm just wondering though... anyone kind enough to provide answers?
Thelma can you please make it a blog post or is it too " raunchy" (for lack of a better word) to talk about?"
What I know is not based on personal experiences but on what I've read and heard. Just after I got this request I saw an article on why women should be having anal sex. The writer listed a number of reasons:
Birth controlled sex
Kinky wide side
It builds trust between partners
You feel powerful
Intense orgasms.(I'll put up her explanation on this one): This is my favorite reason. Orgasms are god’s gift to women for being so loving. Sadly, 66% of women are FAKING IT. Statistically only 34% of women experience an actual orgasm. Why? Do you not enjoy sex? Ladies, the first step to a real orgasm is to actually enjoy sex and embrace the crazy dirty hot nasty side of it. Yes, you both get sweaty and slick, your hair that you spent hours on gets all tumbled and he’s kissed off most of your make up. Relax…he thinks that you’re pretty damn hot especially when you’re bent over offering that forbidden fruit. Luckily, anal sex, like doggy style, allows the shaft to hit a woman’s g-spot at different angle (side note: men, the g-spot is not hidden…she’s either uncomfortable to the with orgasm about to explode or you’re just not very good). Ever rub the palm of your hand? Feels pretty good and kind of ticklish. Now rub the back of your hand. The sensitivity is higher and it feels even more tingly! That back-of-hand caressing is kind of how the g-spot’s being stroked in anal sex. The tingling pressure builds and then it’s an earth shattering, soul-searing, ear-poppin’, sky-soaring orgasm. Not that you can’t get that same feeling from vaginal sex too, it’s just more tingly and intense. In Short…Fireworks.
So maybe the above are the reasons "more people are warming up to it". However they both did not address the health effects. I guess the 'explosive pleasure' makes every other thing secondary. You can check here for those.
Is anyone here having anal sex? What can you tell us about it? Do you agree with what the both ladies above said?