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Blog Reader Asks; Why Do Single Girls Do This?




Hmm I dont understand why single girls do this.

So I wanted to read this blog and network was crappy so for the first time in more than 10 years of getting married, I picked DH phone and went through it.It was so dry i was about dozing off when I decided to go through his BB, Im so not a BB person and then I saw a chat with this girl that was toasting him.
I was taken aback with the chat , I mean why do women throw themselves so cheaply at men, I was even more saddened at how DH addressed her, very disrespectfully yet she was still begging him for a date. What is wrong with ladies of nowadays, p.s I'm not young oh but married really early and so I can be considered a "gen y" too but I obviously don't reason with my ass.
whatever happened to some self-respect?
The next day I asked DH about her and he told me all about her and even invited me to please call her off, I felt sorry for her, I swept this issue under the carpet and now 2 weeks later, he came back from work and told me he missed her call again and I went ballistic, why don't you freaking tell her off. well it was past 9pm and as a britiko man that he is, mentioned that it was too late to call a single unmarried woman as the call might be suggestive.One look was all I gave him, and he called her, asked why she called, and she didn't give any reasonable answer. and then he proceeded to tell her never to call again , the girl was shocked and almost in tears , asking why? he was like are you freaking kidding me? I am a married woman and the shameless url started begging again.

choi…enough of this rant, I just don't get it, whatever happened to some damn self-respect. someone help me out here.

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The above is a blog reader's comment in one of the posts from last week. 

Thoughts, anyone?


Comments

  1. Unfortunately, self respect is in very short supply. I don't know what some girls do the things that they do, but, any girl that does that needs an urgent brain scan!!!!

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  2. Something like this once happened to my hubby too....we actually went together to embarrass her....but to say the truth u dont have to go through ur spouses phone ohh...that o ne na correct headache...babes of nowadays dont really care afterall we are in the world of twosomes......that naughty house wife

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  3. My hubby is in a relationship with one right now.Dnt even know wat to make of it.i called her at some point she said they were done.But she still calls him and they see.I feel very helpless most time dnt knw wat to do

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  4. My hubby is in a relationship with one right now.Dnt even know wat to make of it.i called her at some point she said they were done.But she still calls him and they see.I feel very helpless most time dnt knw wat to do

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  5. Thelma, I'm waiting for your mail o.

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  6. That's an easy question. Not everyone is looking for romance and commitment, some want money, trips abroad, designer bags, house rent, cars, VIP lifestyle and all of that, and how many single guys can do that for a girl?

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    1. @ Funmi,
      her dad is wadded oh!

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    2. Dad's money n aristo money dont flow same way.

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  7. Dear Poster, Funmi has told U the half of it.
    The other half is that people in general always covet. Oh well 95% of people. They want Wat others have, hence the girls throwing themselves at these guys.

    But here's the hard truth, these Men aid/abet these girls. How dis she get his number? What gave her the impression he'll be available to cheat with? Why did it take him so long to make the call? Are u sure he's serious in calling her off?

    Once again, My Ex was in the habit of talking trash about & with babes on the phone so I would see it. He even gives me their calls to answer & warn off.
    But once I feel it's over, he goes back to them, do Wat he pleases & comes back begging me like no tomorrow cos I ALWAYS catch him! LOL. But again, ALL men are NOT the same.

    Thank U God for my deliverance!

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    1. @Ruthy,
      good question. her dad and my DH are colleagues, she served in his office at one point and so they were technically colleagues too hence her access to his number and even office.
      I just feel it was an office crush gone wrong and I kinda feel bad for her however he's my man so she should waka commot….

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  8. It happens. It's no biggie anymore.
    This isn't related to the post though but I hope it helps someone. A friend of mine is building a guest house/ bar and he needs a VERY good cook. The guest house is located @ Ojo, Lagos. So pls if you are a cook or you know someone dat is a cook and needs a Job. Drop your email under this comment.
    My sweet Ruthy. Il send my email to Nwando and ask her to send it to you. Tnks 4 offering.

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    1. Yes I know a good cook that needs a job. My email address is ukejechioma@yahoo.com

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  9. @ funmi, you're so right dear but my own is find your OWN and leave someone's! yes so many single guys may not be able to afford their fantasies and the married ones they are chasing can but those too were once single and couldn't afford it BUT one woman decided to stick with them, build with them, pray with them, grow with them and now that they seem made, you carry your long throat and go there. Why not try and build your own and leave someone else's hard work?
    Yes I'm upset cos I'm seeing this everywhere, so so annoying.
    L.

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  10. @ funmi, you're so right dear but my own is find your OWN and leave someone's! yes so many single guys may not be able to afford their fantasies and the married ones they are chasing can but those too were once single and couldn't afford it BUT one woman decided to stick with them, build with them, pray with them, grow with them and now that they seem made, you carry your long throat and go there. Why not try and build your own and leave someone else's hard work?
    Yes I'm upset cos I'm seeing this everywhere, so so annoying.
    L.

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    1. Thank you annoy, they won't see this men to like when they are nothing, let small money enter equation, with some little perks here and there attached to the fine boy, all of a sudden …voila!very annoying

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  11. People just need to learn how to respect other people's relationship. PERIOD

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  12. Hmmmm some babes are like that o, they no send at all.

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