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Dating Millionaires; The How-Tos, The Perks and Their Weird SexualFetishes.

I just read on RML about Nadia Essex who said she had had enough of dating deadbeat/broke-ass guys and decided she would only go for millionaires. Now after being on a lot of dates with millionaires she's become quite an expert on finding and dating one. 

So what are her tips for finding and bagging these wealthy romantic men? Nadia says;

I believe that image is everything. If you want to be someone’s wife you need to dress accordingly. There shouldn't be too much boob, too much leg; respectful and classy.

You do need money, of course you do, because a millionaire is not going to go down the local pub, you have to go to nice places

*However dating only wealthy men has its downsides too. Nadia revealed that the millionaires she dates have an array of odd sexual fetishes

'Rich guys tend to have a kink. I’ve dated a Fifty Shades-type of guy who likes to be dominant and alpha male in the bedroom. And I've also had the absolute opposite - a CEO of a company who wanted to be humiliated in bed.

'One guy had a foot fetish and loved my Louboutins. He wanted me to stand on his balls in them. I don’t have balls but I can’t imagine standing on them in stiletto heels would be nice.

'Another guy, it was all fine and normal, then one day he told me that he liked to wear adult nappies. '

Nadia has amassed a huge collection of gifts from her wealthy suitors. She claims to have been given hundreds of thousands of pounds worth of designer shoes and bags but denies that she is using men for their money.

'I like nice things and I’m not ashamed of that and I like going to nice dinners and I like romance. And wealthy guys are very romantic. I'm not the type of girl that will settle for the middle.

Nadia says she's trying to teach ladies who aren't afraid to say that they want the best for their lives; it's ok to say you want someone who loves you, is loyal and trustworthy- and is wealthy. 

Ok ladies! What's your take-home from today's lesson? Mine is that:

-Packaging is of utmost importance. Image is everything. (A friend once told me the key to dating      wealthy men on the island; just form like say you nor dey sh*t! LOL)

-Location. Location. Location. You must be strategically placed, people!

-Wealthy men may have some sick-ass weird fetishes. But then so do broke men. Wouldn't you rather indulge the fetishes of someone who'll clasp a diamond bracelet around your wrist afterwards, instead of one who would ask you for change because those people at the BRT park never have change? 

-It's ok to admit you want a rich husband. BUT when will some women realize that they do not need a wealthy partner, they can be THE wealthy partner. Errr, actually there's nothing wrong with two wealthy partners. In fact that's awesome. So I guess I'm still on the same page as Nadia. Haha!

I've got one question though. Nadia Essex says wealthy men are very romantic. Are wealthy men more romantic than average/broke men? All you wives/girlfriends/side-chics/mistresses/bed-buddies with wealthy boos, please enlighten us. 


Nadia Essex; age 32. 


  1. Lol @ form like say you no dey shit. Typical Lagos mentality.

    1. Anyway it is a tested and trusted method.

  2. My husband is very wealthy, spoils me with a whole buncha stuff any woman will die for but he's so unromantic.
    I can totally live with that all my life.

  3. Location Location!! This brings to mind the Island / Mainland ish. So where exactly are the big boys located? I'm your typical mainland girl, matter of fact i've been classified as 'the triangle girl' work-church-home. i've been asked to up my game and put myself in strategic locations, me that is so comfy in my hole, oh dear.
    I think the 'romanticness' of a man does not depend on his wealth or lack of. Its just more easier to see with a wealthy man. The expensive gift splash far over shadows the hand in hand romantic walk on the busy street of a place called iyana something where you have to carry her over potholes and protect her from touts around, i think

    1. yes o! the eyes are blind to the romance of a poor man.

  4. Seems wealthy men are actually more romantic, cos most ladies ll feel d romance @its peak when treated @a very comfortable atmosphere such as exotic places with unlimited luxury nd gets access 2 riches

    1. That he can afford the finest things in life doesn't mean he is romantic. Just my 2

  5. Ha, HSF are U for real?

    This is why I have always wanted to date a broke man *from college* until he becomes really wealthy so I can at least have it all. *IMO*
    But life is just a pot of baked beans.
    All I need now is a God fearing man. We'll settle the wealth, romance, fetish, etc according to bible standards ni...

    Oh btw, congrats Essex, u won!!!

    1. @ Ruthy,
      As serious as a heart attack, but then again we have to define what romantic means.
      If you're talking spoiling with gifts, dates, spa gifts, fine jewelry, then he's romantic
      But if you're talking spendng quality time, bouquet of flowers kinda romance please you're asking for too much from a "busy" A.
      In spite of that, this girl ain't complaining oh.

      Funny thing is we've been through the broke season and the man used to be an awesome poet, sending playful cards, notes in obscure places, just random stuff that really touch. Once pepper started resting, the man no get time for all that anymore he became a busy bee.

      So like you said, lets pray the broke ass remains steadfast to you when money comes otherwise, you feel shortchanged

  6. Mehn, dating a rich guy makes sense though, cos you will lack almost nothing, u spend cash freely, i mean life is just beatiful, i considered marrying my ex cos of the easy life he offered but then, he is muslim to d bones *sad face*

    1. Last night my friend complained of a similar dilemma. Just this year boo has taken her to Istanbul to meet the parents, Dubai, US and Paris; where he proposed. But boo is very Muslim and my friend is very Jehovah's witness. She's completely shattered. Besides been very wealthy and generous, he's sooo cute and very kindhearted too, and oh so romantic. Unfortunately she cannot say yes.

    2. hmmm you guys are freaking me out.. this muslim guy just started talking to me and I won't lie, I do like him a lot..i know its too early to talk about stuffs like relationship even marriage moslems and christians can't date ? sad life (yes boo) looks like common (the hip-hop artist) chaii chaii!!

    3. I hate to generalize some southern Muslims are very tolerant unlike their northern counterparts.
      For the most part I'll say enjoy yourself but with the possibility that people change. Just have that at the back of your mind when you're getting serious.

  7. s a broke Guy allowed to have an erection how much more a fetish(s)?

    I don't blame this Nadia girl. A rich and healthy spender is a huge aphrodisiac. Dear men,No lady (not even ur mama) likes a stingy man (hubby or son)

    1. OMG Sasha did you just say that? Broke guys aren't allowed to have erections? Buahahahahahahhaha. If this was real tho you can be sure there'd be no broke men in Nigeria. #MyUtopia. Lol.

  8. Well,forming like I no dey shit has helped me get some wealthy men but it was choking men! Always want you around them and all..met one wealthy one who can buy you the world but would hardly give you the cash. Location matters though and how you dress/present yourself to these people. You don't expect to meet super wealthy guys at joints,bars at places like bariga,cele,ijesha and co now..

  9. Hey Thelma, I jst love ur blog and the readers. Am almost an addict... Keep it up love. Abeg oh, to all de sisters in the house wiv brothers and don't want dem, someone is in need of one.. Lool. U guyz, help a sister out...

  10. I meant wiv Muslims guyz**

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    1. like serioulsy, i fell down laughing

  12. Nadia said the truth. Location and image matters!
    I remembered, when a school, a pastor came to preach and told we ladies that, we should learn to package ourselves well, to create a climax of acceptance. Looking good is serious business if one wants to attract the right person.
    Location is also an important factor.
    A family friend of mine got a job at VI, and she was looking for an apartment to lease since her parents lived at the outskirts of Lagos. Someone advised her to lease a room inside VI. She complained about the cost, but the friend, was able to persuade her. Like joke, like play, she married a multi-milloniare! She travels and shop around the globe and birthed her children in yankee. She was surprised at her fortune because her ex dealt with her, that it affected her self-confidence. So yes! Location is everything!


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