I've never heard anyone say being gay has an expiry date.
Although I have difficulty reconciling being homosexual with being a pastor, like I told a friend yesterday when we were talking about bleaching expert; Pela, I admire anybody who's willing to embrace their individuality, sexuality and 'uniqueness' regardless of how they're perceived by society or how people might judge them.
But this is just me, these are just my views. I'm all for doing whatever makes you happy as long as no one gets hurt, and I choose not to buy the baseless conclusions that homosexuality is similar to paedophilia and bestiality and I may tear my ears off if I have to hear that one more time. I would rather a man come out of the closet as gay, than marry while having trysts with other men, thereby possibly exposing his wife to STIs she may not even know exist, and also ushering her into a life of unending frustration and disastisfaction as he would never be able meet her sexual needs.
Anyways I just wanted to ask you guys; if someone very dear to you is secretly gay, would you encourage them to stay in the closet and remain frustrated and repressed but free from judgement and condemnation
Or would you encourage them to come out of the closet, embrace their sexuality and have a shot at happiness and love but risk getting judged and taunted?
I'm not even sure what my own answer to this question is...