Some of us have those fetishes, shoe fetishes, bag fetishes etc. but those are not the fetishes we're talking about now. We're talking about those naughty fetishes, sexual fetishes.
Fetishes can be mild and harmless, like my friend Wunmi's, she would do anyone for a bald-headed man. She cannot explain her attraction to bald-headed men. She almost salivates when she tries to explain how she feels when rubbing the shiny bald head of a man especially if he's hot and clean shaven.
My friend *Dean who I've written about on a number of occasions, the one I went to see Think Like a Man Too with last weekend has a thing for hair which he warned me about when we went on our first date. He said "just so I don't freak you out, I have a thing for hair. I might not be able to stop running my hand through your hair, just warning you..." And all through the evening his hand was in and out of my hair. At first it was cute, then it was ok, then it got irritating. I had to ask him to stop. It was made weirder by the fact that it was the first date. (I also heard today that Ebuka Obi Uchendu has a similar fetish).
But these ones are ok and quite normal. When it gets weird is when people have some unusual sexual fetishes like the ones below.
*When I was in the Uni I had this friend who let her armpit hair grow out, it got really really long and very gross. After prodding seriously she finally admitted that her boyfriend asked her to grow it out because long armpit hair turns him on.
*Some people have foot fetishes, where they would rather use foot for pleasuring (I would rather not explain in detail...)
*Some people want to spank or be spanked really hard during or before sex
*Some one told me of how they had to separate a fight between his neighbour and his wife and in the course of their attempt at separation the man let out that he had been warning his wife not to wash off before sex, especially if they're going to have oral sex. He only liked to eat her out when down there was .... dirty (?). Basically some men don't like their women to clean up before sex, they say the natural odour is a turn on and the thicker the odour the better. I hear it's called Bush Meat. (Eeeeeeeewwww)
*Some people want to be watched during sex, some want to be treated like little children, some want to be treated like dogs; they want to be punished, spanked flogged etc"
*Some fetishes are extreme and involve urine and scat. (But hey we won't discuss those in details...)
My questions is this, what do you do when your spouse or significant other whom you love dearly has a weird sexual fetish? Would you Indulge them and make/keep them happy or Ignore them and risk them going to seek satisfaction elsewhere?
Have you ever dated someone with a weird sexual fetish?
Do you have a weird sexual fetish???
SPILL! SPILL!! SPILL!!!